LEL, nowadays very easily pissed off...

anyway... anyone here have nanny/baby sitter rants? mine cooks up some lame excuse every month to take 1 day leave... this time is going to renew passport for her cucu

but what i learned is... if can avoid, don't give him at all
but if he somehow is able to get that thing that he wants, will have a lot of trouble taking it back

i thought most nannies are like that... my mum also like that, mm yau jou attitude
maybe the people i know are like that... deng...

initially parents agreed to take care, after that kena ffk...
1.  40+ aunty with 3 kids living nearby... but later when we visited she's caring for another 4 kids (2 babies and 2 toddlers)... she has a maid and her husband is not working... wadafak... machem family biz
2. a little bit further, old single aunty around 60... weirdly she's living alone, from her face looks a bit pity cos like her children don't want her like that...
3. a bit better, friendly retirees around 60, only taking care of 1... almost wanted to confirm until we say the one that's she's caring for... that kid kuat jelly, the aunty's sister's grandson was also there that time, he went and play his stuff the kid just did a backflip and hantuk the head on the floor
the nanny said this kid is like that one... i was like... ok... didn't take also...

here onward my parents recommend:
4. 70+ aunty... went to her house then she said she recommend me another one... ok... went to the other aunty's house, quite ok, she's just taking care of her grandson around 4yo... everything was ok until she starting being very calculative... heat up breast milk charge electricity, pickup after 6pm, extra charge... dafuq
5. worse of all... the lady around 60, sounds experience, taking care of 1 baby and 1 toddler... and occasionally have 1 or 2 kids dropped at her house... problem is stayed behind some shoplots... directly infront of her house is like a wet mini market... left neighbour is an indon pickup taugeh... right neighbour topless bangla on the phone... in the house there's a black lady wrapped in towel just came out from the shower
6. malas want to find already, this one someone recommended cos they say she just take care of own relative's kids and her grandson... just confirm only lor...

fuuuuuuu... dem long rant

but no choice la since son still small, any demands also need to abide

my wife dem good already leh... drop off 930, pickup 430, no need cook, no need wash... 900/month leh... want offday we take turns take leave... apa lagi nanny mau? that's why now looking for a school... 2yo straight send him there liao...

mine subang area... dem... you make it sound my nanny ok je

yours RM100 more than mine... the rest almost similar... haih... nowadays everything also $$$
you and your wife not local is it?

LEL... same situation

convenience is important... totally agree!

now finding a school is a headache... so little choices and all blardy inconvenient... maybe i live too far

wife working... well for us its pre-shool to be exact... the full day once have day care so still ok

but for primary school its going to be a problem... big problem...

no point also, unless the driver can cook lunch and stay with the kid at home

crap... now i have another thing to worry about

not sure if this private/international school have daycare

i'll need it also, we kongsi cover more numbers

Dont underestimate kids. Although still young, you can always talk simple term to him.

My dotter i use to think that too, till she start to talk..
I almost speechless whenever her reason is much more rational than an adult.

hi boss!

why shock?

LOL i found it so funny la. That's why i join.

my dotter now 5yrs old d. She start mumbling around 1 1/2 years
very fluent at around 2 plus.
Now her level is godlike

Not me. is by my mum and sisters.

She with my mum lo.

And ah gong.

Haha wait for your turn then. How old is your kid?
Boy or girl?

that's why my wife always pissed... she feeds him, play with him, bathe him
i reached home already 830pm, he already slept

weekend i'll take care then she do house work, some times she's too tired, we'll swap... when both tired, screw the housework...
i only mop the floor and do cleaning after both of them sleep

we had that once, not clean at all... and really need to check on her work...
imagine half a pail of water wipe every furniture downstairs... she was going to use the same water to continue upstairs also
some more this lady was recommended to us by a relative

its harder now cos weekends we are attending trial classes (gym, music, etc etc), some times morning, some times noon, some times Sat, some times Sun
then need to do marketing cos we cook dinner everyday... even if we don't, the kid needs vege and fish for his porridge also

hard to arrange a cleaner to come...
maybe we will la, once we confirm the class

part timers... maybe they think its just a one of job
interesting... i'll consider that also, thanks bro

going to be 18 months already, time to go for classes else won't be able to start kindergarten at 2yo...

i buy most of my groceries at supermarkets... timing not right la... some more the wet market near my place sucks big time...
went there once, bought 1 fish... looks ok, fresh... but makan that time hanyir one
some times my wife will go buy vege when she finishes work

my kid loves to go kaikai... weekend morning after breakfast he'll go take the house keys are car keys and pass to me
kept the key basket somewhere else already

my kid seldom mix around... he's ok with adults but not so ok with other kids... we noticed that when we first brought him to gym... he'll stay away from them one don't know why
then we went to those classes like Julia Gabriel, he improved a bit, not so reluctant anymore...
cos we are afraid if we wait longer it might get worse so now every weekend we'll go attend some classes, free or not also just try lor

used to buy from Empire Subang cos their fish was fresh and price is just 10-20% more expensive compared to the wet market in SS15...
after that the people changed, sold me loko fish, that's it, i stopped buying from them... now go all the way to Publika

kids very smart one, cute to look at

the only kid he mixed around is the nanny's grandson, 8yo liao, i suspect that he got bullied that's why he's afraid of kids... don't know leh?

i live in shah alam but go subang for groceries