first rant,

my no 2 is difficult to put to bed
dont want pacifier
wants to be carried around

maybe i should buy a mannequin and place him in its arm

used to do that too when my boy was smaller, around 6 months i think... he can sleep faster if i carry him while walking the stairs

my boy was like michelin that time and walking up and down the stairs carrying him was really a nightmare

That's a prove that you pampered her too much.

Last night my wife cooked sup sayur and ikan keli bakar. The ikan keli bakar she fold in daun pisang and cook on a pan without oil! End up the fish become like ikan rebus only..... my goodness. Luckily i already eaten earlier. I dont know la she is lazy or what but, to tell the truth my wife is lazy because this house i did all the vacuum, mop, wash all toilets. I cant blame her because when i go to her parents house, mmg kotor la. The toilet very hancing n smelly like everyday eat petai. So i guess its inherited to her. In this house, she used different bathroom with mine because i dont like to use water heater and guess what..... she never bother to clean up the sink, the bathroom floor or the toilet bowl.

So tomorrow my wife said she want to puasa so she want to wake up and cook another meal, i said the left over food still there just eat that one la. I think she also want to vomit what she cooks just now.... i cant believe she asked if i want to have another rice or not....

I wish i could tell her that u r super lazy but i just dont gave the guts.................

Don't know, before married we never stayed home together ma...
What to do ler.. I also have families in kampung, but they are very pembersih. My in laws house, if you put a bag on the floor....next month also the bag will till there.

Sigh lorrrrrrrrrrrrr.... My house, the garage also she never bother to sweep the dry leaves.

Also i find she prefer to cook rather than jaga anak. And, the food is not so nice also

She blindly cook.

Simple things like curry all those OK la, but sambal she still fail.

SO, i am soooo happy if i were the one who cook. If her, i very very scared to eat takut tak sedap. IF tak sedap pun i have to eat also.

I wonder why she's not like other wife, who likes to menghias rumah, clean the house, menjahit, try new recipe............

She just don't care. Honestly, i always wonder if it would be better if i left her but kesian my son nanti....

Secondly, she's not proactive like me lar. Maybe because she's gomen so a bit slow.

Like when my son sick, she can acting rilek rilek.... maybe it because she know that i will be the to handle everything.........

I'm like this because been taught from my mom, last time if i buat salah sure kena marah by my mom. So that's why i'm like perfectionist like that...

But herrr........

If i tell this to her family also, no point also because her family also like that.....

Hi dada,

My son is 11 months now so last time using Maxi Cosi car seat. Now we change to a new one, bought him Aldo Savil.

But when fit into my wife car Proton Saga BLM, my wife can't see the side mirror properly because it was blocked by the bulky Proton Saga BLM.

Anyone using Saga BLM here, what car seat you use?

Because Saga BLM a bit sempit while the car seat is bulky, we bought it since it can be use til age 6.

Tak la, meaning if you driving, you tak nampak sangat side mirror sebelah kiri tu sbb kena block by the car seat.

Kalau duduk seat belakang tu, dia facing belakang atau depan?

Actually, rear facing car seat for the child until 2 years old. And car seats to be placed at the back all the time.

Many info on the internet. Pls always strap your child in.

Carseat tu ikut berat.  Tp kalau duduk belakang, then facing belakang plak tu cam pelik je.

Skang ni anak aku duduk depan tapi mmg facing belakang pun, cuma tak duduk seat belakang la

I see, duduk belakang but then facing depan la?