wahh... so good your kid...

i think so... maybe like dad... too light sleeper... oh ya... she hates the blanket but she always in pyjamas... long sleeves and long pants and always sleep in AC room. that's another reason why we can't sleep... at times we get really cold but we cant pull up the blanket because she is in the way...

the only time she wanted to use blanket was when we on holiday because it was winter time. it was really cold and she dont mind the blanket.

yeah quite lucky. but for some reason, if transfer from car seat or stroller. he will instantly wake up. maybe the seating position or what.. but if baring, he will out like a light. if you are light sleeper and kid is golek style. then good luck mang. hahaha. memang cant sleep haahahah

get to go kai kai la i think and curious to see the surroundings ahaha

i have been like that over the years and i think i have reach a point i think sleeping less than that 6 hours a day has become a norm now but i really feel the difference if i can get a damn good deep sleep without dreams. and that only happens very rarely.

let me share u guys a story, regarding car seat

me and my family (wife & baby) met with an accident earlier this month during heavy rain. long story short, car loose control and skid to the opposite road crashing a lamp post together.

my child is not inside his car seat, BAD IDEA i'm telling all of u when shit like this happened. luckily my wife is holding him firmly in her arms and all of us only sustained minor injuries. they were sitting at the back at that time if any of u are wondering.

moral of the story / TLDR version : child car seat is a must, together with your child in it

waifu everyday keep ranting about perut tak selesa (she's in 1st trimester right now)
maybe because of angin or something..

Any tips guys? cannot tahan, everyday rant about same thing. haha. I also don't know what to do..

thanks for the PSA, but its weird that you didnt know about that in the first place. esp after all the baby tercampak out of car news... my car never move if my boy isnt strapped in. even no accident, just press the brake, they can get hurt. please be careful next time.

what kinda perut tak selesa? is it morning sickness?

i do really LOL though. cannot tahan listen to wife rant. didnt even have a kid yet. dont let her know. otherwise she will tell you 'fk you. i cannot tahan carry this baby anymore' after got the kid, gonna rant everyday to you. hahah. need to buck up bro and ride out the storm. you just using your ears to listen. her entire body is suffering. you are the outlet for her pain, if you dont give her that, its not going to end well. keep it up.

morning sickness maybe but it happen whole day, is it normal?
this is 2nd pregnancy btw.. don't remember this kind of rant when 1st pregnancy. haha.

of course i didnt let her know, haha. its just i dont know how to respond to her when she always mengadu perut tak selesa.

Baru nak lekat la tu.

Ada bleeding tak?

Keep on makan Folic Acid yang doctor bagi tu. Its basically a Hormone.
Some women ambil injection these Folic Acid instead of makan yang pil punya, effect lagi bagus la especially those yang selalu bleeding. Ada orang bleeding dari 1M to 9M. Ada orang 1-2 month aje like my wife.

Keep on makan Folic Acid ok.

no bleeding.

not yet go to clinic, so haven't got yet folic acid..
but will it reduce her perut tak selesa?

thanks for the advice bro.

hahahah. dont tell her. she sure chop your lil brother. haha.

well every pregnancy is different, so cant fully rely on the old data. my wife sick all day for the entire pregnancy term. so.. imagine the ranting i received.... its probably just angin + nausea. maybe need to change up her foods. if you are chinese, for sure got all those, hot, cold, inner fire, blah blah blah food. my parents in law everyday complain about that... so maybe can look into changing foods according to that...

that's the start of the rant season

understandable cos you hear the rant yet you don't know what to do

see doc already or not?

thanks for sharing
not sure about other car seats, but the 2 i have can only strap via seat belt though they have ISOfix latches but most malaysia car specs don't have them

so some times the car seat can move a bit during corners... which doesn't look stable at all

yeah. best is the isofix. because as they say, 'only as strong as the weakest link'. but its quite weird your baby seat got isofix and belt straps. quite cool. must be mahal hahah. can use both

i think most new cars got them. i was quite stunned when finding out that the exora doesnt have them though. supposedly a family MPV...

2 nights ago, i lost a little temper to my baby. he woke up @ 2 am and wanna play.

so i ignored him

felt so guilty, last night sayang sayang him

So, you feel guilty or not?

You exactly like my wife ler. Mahu marah anak tak mau tidur, i am so sad and angry when she behave like that.

hahah. dont need to feel guilty.

feel guilty if he is sleeping and you wake him up at 2am to play.

we do, but as all a normal parents we did a mistake

and that accident is a living proof for me to pass this story as a reminder to all

when we least expected, shit happens. don't take things for granted ok guys

yeah. mistakes happen. thats why i wont keyboard warrior you haahah. later kena 'bad parent' blah blah blah nonsense hahah. just please be careful next time. our kids become our treasure.

and to build upon this.

dunno if still available. but Merc is renting out (for free) baby carseats for raya balik kampung. drive safe. there are some places we dont want to arrive early.

got both, yeah, it was pricey but since can sit till 7yo, so ok la

too bad both my cars don't have isofix