LYN Daddy's rant thread V1, mai rage/complain/etc
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 May 11 2016, 02:35 PM
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May 11 2016, 02:41 PM
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QUOTE(kenji1903 @ May 11 2016, 02:37 PM) still waiting for your rant #2 by the way, you and your wife still got go paktor after having kids? wife some times complain no more personal time... but when see our kid, she forgot about me pula    actually i mentioned my rant #2 dy... every day after work, i have to do the chores until almost 10pm then only i can get to rest. sometimes so tired i dont bother i just go sleep until next morning only. ahahah we havent paktor for very long time dy.. havent even step into the movies for sometime as well... im opposite bro.. baby stick to me not my wife... so im the mum...  so i complain no personal time. my wife enjoys her time looking at the phone everyday |
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May 11 2016, 02:55 PM
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QUOTE(kenji1903 @ May 11 2016, 02:47 PM) you are like my mirror the only thing im not doing is preparing baby food. the rest, you name it, i got it. chores... same baby stick to me... same talking about movies, there was once we took half day cos we needed to go to gahmen office... we finished early so had this sudden urge to go watch movie! after buying popcorn and sit down comfortably... both of us looked at each other and said, "feel so bad leh" baby with nanny but we go enjoy movie so after the movie we rushed to pick up the baby and brought him to a nearby shopping mall, he dem happy  there was one time actually i ponteng work go watch batman alone... no fark... ahahah didn't tell my wife about it. planning to do it again for civil war ahahah but these days got a bit of work in office so hard to run off. you know i been telling myself this. if i dont take care of myself, really no one will give a shit about my life wei... so really have to find ways to make self happy or relax. the worse is on weekends la... my wife mostly work on weekends and i will be home alone with baby and its really tiring. |
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May 11 2016, 03:12 PM
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QUOTE(kenji1903 @ May 11 2016, 03:02 PM) you are a respectable daddy dont play play... my wife at times also ask me to prepare food.. sometimes i get upset and i pretend i didn't hear... sometimes she will continue nag me until i go prepare the food...  i prepare baby's food also, now better cos we take turns, but i'm kinda losing touch cos i only bathe my son weekends... you know lar, a lot of things to apply after bath... kelam kabut giler  my wife goes bonkers if she's alone with the baby on weekends when i have to work, so morning need to wake up farking early to prepare breakfast and lunch... at around 4pm-5pm, she'll be calling until my phone explode already, beh tahan anyway we use slow cooker to prepare baby porridge for tomorrow. aiyo... to me showering baby is sap sap sui.. i tell you everyday without fail... after work, i fetch baby from nanny, go home, boil rice sometimes, eat dinner, do dishes, wash baby bottles, bath baby, get baby all ready for sleep, prepare milk, feed baby, accompany baby to sleep, take out trash, do laundry if necessary, water plants if necessary, go shower then watch tv. if got work then no watch tv. everyday like that... thats why right after work, no one can reach me by phone... ahahah if anyone in emergency also i have to say sorry... unless i expected phone calls le... i so happy that day i celebrated mothers day by going out to do sports freedom for me |
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May 11 2016, 03:13 PM
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QUOTE(kenji1903 @ May 11 2016, 03:11 PM) susah pregnant 9 months, ok lar, can take a bit of rest ehh no bro.. i disagree... it depends if staying alone or with family... but i noticed dad's nowadays participant more in the child's upbringing compared to the previous gen... you ask my dad bathe or change diapers for baby sure tak jadi one i have many friends unlike us... all staying with parents... until today never bath or change diaper before... every night still can go out.... damn butthurt |
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May 11 2016, 03:29 PM
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QUOTE(kenji1903 @ May 11 2016, 03:23 PM) same lar, prepare in the morning for baby's dinner, bought a timer to auto-on/off so won't overcook we only prepare baby food at night before we go sleep... super dad! my wife send and fetches baby back cos i work late... so she does most of the baby stuff in the night... back we cook dinner together, i clean up, etc, morning i up make breakfast, etc tv some times lar, after i shower will watch with my wife 1 episode AOD, after that sleep hahahaha, mother's day became your day haven't go exercise for a long time already, getting round... very round we just throw everything into the slow cooker... rice, quinoa, protein, fiber, etc. then tomorrow morning good to eat already. we usually prepare 2 servings. lunch and dinner at nanny's. in the morning we only give milk to baby. nowadays even refuse to drink milk in the morning. waste so much milk... in the morning rush like hell la.. no time to do anything else already... lucky get to go out only... but really... me too... bulging... ahahhaha |
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May 11 2016, 03:31 PM
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QUOTE(noviyola @ May 11 2016, 03:25 PM) what a pity you are! I bet you are cheonging girls outside now. I think you marry wrong woman lei. woman no cook, no to do chores then is she a princess? I prefer forever alone than met that kind of wife ahahah that is life but no la... im turning ghey so no more craving towards opposite sex... QUOTE(ar188 @ May 11 2016, 03:27 PM) happy mothers day! lol... thank you... |
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May 11 2016, 03:32 PM
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QUOTE(onetwothree456 @ May 11 2016, 03:19 PM) babysitting stories only what rant la.. other ppl baby sit babies at all time also ahahha juggling 2 works as what maslan mentioned is not easy yo... |
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May 11 2016, 03:36 PM
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QUOTE(kenji1903 @ May 11 2016, 03:33 PM) my kid usually eats puree for breakfast, avocado+apple, butternut, sweet potato, pumpkin, rotate daily wow not bad.. sitll have time for breakfast.. what time you get up then? lunch nanny give cereal and milk dinner is the porridge that we prepared in the morning morning memang rush... if the baby shiats just before we want to leave, delay even further ahaha i only change diaper in morning because of overnight pee... ahaha my delay is because baby is running here and there dont want to drink milk... |
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May 11 2016, 03:48 PM
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QUOTE(kenji1903 @ May 11 2016, 03:43 PM) 530-545am like that wahh i really we'll change his diapers when he's drinking milk in the morning, he wakes up early too, between 6am-7am, some times after milk he'll doze off some time he'll go around the room, on light lar, open curtains la, make you wake up la, open wardrobes la, giler busy you bro.. i get up at 7 only.. usually thats the time baby gets up too... |
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May 11 2016, 03:53 PM
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QUOTE(nothomobutsuper @ May 11 2016, 03:48 PM) Rant #2 . feeding time is like at war . ahaha that goes for my rant #3 then... Whole kitchen get messy . I'm not from rich family , so since I was kid , I learn to appreciate food . I always finish whats on my plate . But my kids aahhhh , easily throw food on floor , feed one time , run all around house , then come back for second spoon . sometime need to make them cry and force them to eat . I cannot tahan they do that to my precious food . I get mad when people waste food . So I give up feeding them and let my wife do it . Still the same , like warzone . but I'm not in the picture . Then my turn to eat , they climb on my back and ask for my food pulak ... somehow i have more difficulties in feeding baby... my wife have better chance.. its really like a war as mentioned... hands in the food then throw the food.. food all over the floor... but this never happen in nanny place... very strange... so everyone is saying baby is bullying the parents. we even strap the baby to high chair and this still happens... but one thing very funny... the baby knows how to wipe the floor when baby spit food out on the floor.... baby will go take cloth and wipe.... because i think the baby has been imitating me.. |
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May 11 2016, 04:01 PM
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QUOTE(andrewhtf @ May 11 2016, 03:58 PM) Actually me oso. Wife handles almost 99% of it all. My 3 months old is very selective. Mau emak tak mau bapak. I pick up peluk saja sudah scream bloody murder. So I am pretty helpless there. bro you should help out.. seriously give your wife some slack... really can go crazy mang... in the end sure you loose wan if she decides to bring out any arguement |
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May 11 2016, 04:03 PM
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QUOTE(kenji1903 @ May 11 2016, 03:59 PM) i usually get up that time even before having baby cos i do morning jogs for many years wahh... then what do you have for dinner? just dishes??? stopped liao after having a baby... cannot lar, if i don't get up before my baby, sure a lot of things cannot do one... and cos we don't eat rice at night, morning hungry leh, so have to eat at home, cannot tahan go office only eat i know what you mean.. sometimes home alone with baby and when i stomachache also i have to tahan unless really so pain then i have to throw the baby in the cot and rush to toilet... |
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May 11 2016, 04:14 PM
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QUOTE(kenji1903 @ May 11 2016, 04:10 PM) seriously... they are really got at imitating... very surprising... they see you do a few times, when they see the thing again, they'll try doing it already ya its truly amazing what a 1+ baby can do... baby also seem to understand many words... |
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May 11 2016, 04:18 PM
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QUOTE(Rusty Nail @ May 11 2016, 04:16 PM) I wanna report in, but no rant so far wow so nice...I've learn to live with it |
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May 11 2016, 04:21 PM
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QUOTE(youze @ May 11 2016, 04:19 PM) wassup. hows everyone's sex life? ranting coz wife got no time for it now with 2 child. we try to make it happen once the kids asleep at night but we also tired so dat didnt happen. nowadays we both just happy to do it in the early morning, right after waking up. morning sex is the best. u guys like this also? maybe really turn unker... sex drive very low... |
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May 11 2016, 04:29 PM
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QUOTE(kokokranc @ May 11 2016, 04:27 PM) My dotter 7 months imitate clap hands. Now imitate me eating with munch2 and even sneezing also imitate. ahah intelligent girl... sometimes these actions really cheer up the day...Haihs la |
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May 11 2016, 04:36 PM
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QUOTE(kenji1903 @ May 11 2016, 04:30 PM) my wife's friend is cos the friend's kid is having eating problems... and not active at all wow.... im restricting my kid from watching tv and phone but now my baby will take up anything and treat it as phone. thanks to my wife... you kid knows how to browse youtube at 2?!  QUOTE(kenji1903 @ May 11 2016, 04:30 PM) exactly! its just that they don't know how to say it out only you tell them go find this, go pick up that, they know what to do and what you are referring to ahahah ya they can be really helpful at times.. |
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May 11 2016, 04:51 PM
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QUOTE(kenji1903 @ May 11 2016, 04:41 PM) we don't on the TV at home when he's around cos he gets darn a lot of it at the nanny's ahaha my baby will turn on the tv all by herself. now i have to put the remote higher. im giving her other old remotes to play instead. hahah same here, i think they are in their "pretending" stage... he'll bring the TV control to my wife so that she'll turn it on, my wife takes it and puts it near her ears and say hello... my kid was like  |
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May 11 2016, 05:27 PM
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QUOTE(WannaGetBuffed @ May 11 2016, 05:08 PM) daddies, please try to refrain your kid from using pacifier or thumb after 2 years old if u can. my dentist says my girl has protruding teeth already due to sucking from thumb. thanks for the tips... but lucky my baby dont use pacifier or have habit with sucking thumb.. we're now in the soft transition period to remove her form sucking her thumb when she watches tv or sleeping. initially she will cry like mad trying to sleep from not sucking her thumb. now she doesn't suck the thumb anymore when watching tv, but sometimes when she wakes up in the middle of the night she will try to suck. i just hit her hand softly and she will take it out. else when she grows up, dental fees to repair the protruding teeth will not be cheap. http://www.babycareadvice.com/babycare/gen...e.php?id=79#519 if u got a boy, just make sure he ada wang ada amoi QUOTE(nothomobutsuper @ May 11 2016, 05:13 PM) Yeah right . at nursery , at my parent house , anywhere lah without me and my wife , they can eat properly .. Sometime my wife jealous with the nanny , always say my kids eat well .. strange right... how come they behave better else where but not at home... really is form of bullying la... QUOTE(MechGabba @ May 11 2016, 05:22 PM) This thread...reflects my life. lol what is weekend husband? you mean you travel back to kl every week to look after your kid? Hi guys. Father of 2.5 year old son here. Some of the things you guys post...get the feels man. I'm a weekend husband now. Work in JB, wife in KL. wife and son stay with her parents. Did this for better job opportunity. Been 3 months like this. Sometimes I question if this is worth it or not. But gotta keep it together to power through. Any weekend husbands here? |
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