rant of the week... my boy nowadays sikit sikit cry, sikit sikit mengamuk...

why ar? part of growing up?

this morning he took my bag of coffee beans and don't want to give back... i exchanged with his biscuits and he darn pissed when i ran of with the beans, cried leh

after that my wife consoled him, fed him some biscuits he senyum senyum pula

This post has been edited by kenji1903: Jun 10 2016, 04:22 PM

I think he started to learn how to hold on something that he really want. Maybe part of his learning.

LEL, nowadays very easily pissed off...

anyway... anyone here have nanny/baby sitter rants? mine cooks up some lame excuse every month to take 1 day leave... this time is going to renew passport for her cucu

seeking your attention probably
or just plain tantrum
don't worry, it'll pass

i think baby is being possessive... everything they want... im having the same problem...

i think your nanny is well off that's why can afford to do that (mm sai yau).... thankful that my nanny is not like that...

hopefully

another question... anyone have trouble with baby going for haircuts?

mine used to be ok cos i usually bring along my laptop and turned on Mickey Mouse for him...
yesterday, totally changed... cannot...
gip mobile phone also cannot...
play with him cannot...
let him play laptop... able to prolong a bit but after awhile also cannot
fuuuuuuuuu...
lucky that time almost finish... a bit uneven but still respect the stylist cos able to cut

but what i learned is... if can avoid, don't give him at all
but if he somehow is able to get that thing that he wants, will have a lot of trouble taking it back

i thought most nannies are like that... my mum also like that, mm yau jou attitude
maybe the people i know are like that... deng...

firstly, does he really need a haircut?
mine always go long boy or girl till 3 or 4 y/o
haha
just some trimming will do it

messy lor without haircut and he sweats a lot cos nanny's house is very hot

can tahan until so long? but if for boy at least once a month or 2 months also need to shave the sides and the back right?
ownself trim tak jadi one wor... or i don't have skill

u cut along with your boy?

no wor... i carry him... but the stylist did suggest that i cut also cos i saw before one of her customers whole family cut together just because they want their 4 year old kid to cut his hair

ya... better not let them see it at all in the beginning...

before i engaged this nanny, i interviewed two others. one was 30+ young mother with 2 kids and taking care of 2 others kids. didn't like the family background although their terrace house look spacious. second one was a 70+ old couple taking care of 2 kids living in a new condo. ended up i chose this current 50+ single mother that lives in PPR. although consider quite poor living condition but happy to have her. really not much problem with her.

my boy i cut his hair at home. just in the toilet. give him some toys to play with and use some clippers to trim. between like 8-16 months he hated it sooo bad. but one day we were ready to suffer and then he was perfectly fine. playing with his toys. i let him hold the buzzing clippers (kids one, not the hardcore one) then hes ok. but when malas just shave his whole head... he sweats a lot so need to trim. otherwise always soaking and smelly haha.

i learn to cut my boys hair. start from my eldest 5yo until today. i got 3 hair to cut today and my skill keep increasing. im a proud dad as most of things i diy.

This may take some time, but you see whether it'll work for your case... let you boy hang around for a while in the hair salon, don't immediately prop him up in the chair and try to cut hair. Talk to him about what's going on there. After he's comfortable with the environment, hopefully he'll cooperate

All the best!

initially parents agreed to take care, after that kena ffk...
1. 40+ aunty with 3 kids living nearby... but later when we visited she's caring for another 4 kids (2 babies and 2 toddlers)... she has a maid and her husband is not working... wadafak... machem family biz
2. a little bit further, old single aunty around 60... weirdly she's living alone, from her face looks a bit pity cos like her children don't want her like that...
3. a bit better, friendly retirees around 60, only taking care of 1... almost wanted to confirm until we say the one that's she's caring for... that kid kuat jelly, the aunty's sister's grandson was also there that time, he went and play his stuff the kid just did a backflip and hantuk the head on the floor
the nanny said this kid is like that one... i was like... ok... didn't take also...

here onward my parents recommend:
4. 70+ aunty... went to her house then she said she recommend me another one... ok... went to the other aunty's house, quite ok, she's just taking care of her grandson around 4yo... everything was ok until she starting being very calculative... heat up breast milk charge electricity, pickup after 6pm, extra charge... dafuq
5. worse of all... the lady around 60, sounds experience, taking care of 1 baby and 1 toddler... and occasionally have 1 or 2 kids dropped at her house... problem is stayed behind some shoplots... directly infront of her house is like a wet mini market... left neighbour is an indon pickup taugeh... right neighbour topless bangla on the phone... in the house there's a black lady wrapped in towel just came out from the shower
6. malas want to find already, this one someone recommended cos they say she just take care of own relative's kids and her grandson... just confirm only lor...

fuuuuuuu... dem long rant

where did you buy the clippers? been looking for one but didn't buy cos don't know good or not

we tried cutting once, didn't look nice, here senget, one side longer, etc... so gave up that only time and went to the salon

yalor... sweat a lot smelly leh

what tools do you have? i'm still looking for a shaver/clippers to shave the sides and back and a scissors for trimmer the other parts

did that... usually have to wait one, but every time we go in, he'll point to the exit
usually i'll turn on his fav cartoons... but last weekend was a nightmare... tak jadi at all... cry till hungus all dangling from this nostrils