the wall issue is grey area, but heres the thing, shes paying for it without needing a cent from you. also, would you prefer instead of she build a wall, she purposely grow trees or just put random stuff on her side to block that wall?

i think u do have reason to argue if she put a cheap board right in the middle but still. at worst she would put the board on her side. she may be mentally unstable but perhaps you can try working it out with her try and discuss what alternative other than that board can be used that both side agree to. it may seem "unfair" but she is still ur neighbour so its half half.

throwing rubbish if you have proof, bawak ke balai.

about the pushing flowers that is IN BETWEEN, thats another 50/50.

i can understand your side, but i can also understand her side. she doesnt like you and wants to shut her house to herself. she likes how shes "decorated" her place and does not want to see you/your house. you sticking flowers at an area thats half her property makes her pissed (also your wife did knock down her board so she might be having a grudge). it might seem trivial for you but when you have neighbours u have to learn to live with them

well, it started like this, her husband came over to me when me and my kids were at the park and he asked for permission to build a wall in between. I said if possible don't. But he said his wife is adamant to build it. i said, ok, if you need to build then build half but don't cover everything. It will make my living hall very dark. The next day, i came back and noticed the whole wall was covered up. Then in between the fence it was covered with the cheap gypsum board as mentioned earlier. So it seems they don't give a xxxx at all and just went to build it. my being an intermediate house i have to put the brooms stacked beside on the side wall. When the contractor was building the wall, the worker hung his clothes and placed his phone on the wall. This woman went and throw the clothes and phone all into my garden, thought that it was mine. Now i understand you guys might be thinking my side of the fence looks shitty, but put that thought to rest as i spent hundreds if not thousands hiring a gardener to take care and plant flowers on my side. So at least from my point of view it is decent looking to say. Since my house is an intermediate, i have no choice but to keep my drying aluminium bar and broom resting on the wall between my house and this family. This woman will ocassionally use a stick and push these things down as i believe she don't like sticks or sorts sticking up. But why not just tell us and instead resort to this sort funny behaviour.

When some rubbish get strewn by dogs or sort in front of their house, instead of throwing it away, this woman will automatically presume it's ours and throw it over to our front yard. This is again very very strange behaviour.

When they shifted in i usually greeted them but they don't answer back. In the end i gave up. Same comments from the other neighbours. And it's the same thing with the other neighbours. Now i don't have any issues with any of the other neighbors at all. As a matter of fact we are very good friend with the pho pho on the other side. It's only this neighbour from hell that we are having issues with.

They even installed their astro dish on my as you people call "side of the fence". Now i have never even thought of this thing but somehow it has made me sunk to their level and told them to installed it properly over on their side. I am not this sort of "calculative" person in nature and it just makes me really angry and made me do this sort of thing normally.

There are so many other strange behaviour, like driving like maniac on the neighbourhood roads etc etc.

I know you guys might think that i myself might be a bad neighbour. i have asked them why you want to build the wall so that i can solve the issue instead of having a eyesore wall built in between. They said my kids was using a stick to poke their electric meter. i believe this is the sort of civilised method of solving disputes rather than covering up your intermediate neighbours wall without giving a fxxk about their feelings.

But

yea, well you seemed pretty conclusive that i was the so called "bad neighbour" instead of them initially. now instead you have to listen to both part of the story to judge instead. i am still eagerly awaiting your answer.

Don't get me wrong i don't condone knocking down other people's stuff as well. i always believe there is always a civilised and peaceful way to resolving issues, that is if the other party have the same believe as well.

Well ts since the wall already there and you can't have a say how others want to decorates their house, just live with it. You might want to solve it with discussion but the way you wrote give me an impression they want to shut your family out of their side.

i know how you feel ts.
my parent have similar issue. about 10 years already still not resolve. discussion is over no more.
we ignore them like they not exist.
but still they will do something to make us angry.
example.
when we hang out outside. every effin time they will go out as well and make sound like throwing something.
too many to write down haha.

the rubbish thing also happen to us.

we wish to move somewhere but yeah cant afford to move out.

be strong ts

did u see how u react here?, i never said u did wrong i just ask the status of the wall in is it legal wall or not.
if u read, you would understand what my answer is.

i don't know if the wall is legal or not actually, do i have any basis to take any legal action?

mestilarr, instead you label me as the "mentally unstable" haha..
should instead change the title to "Neighbor from Hell" instead. My bad lar, did not paint the whole picture first...

watch ur kids

cctv

As a terrace house resident, nothing annoyed me more than a naughty kid. If i bring myself down to the level and argue with the kid, I am the one who is at fault for sure.

Watch your kid and change yourself first before changing anyone else.