Hi Guys,

I suspect my neighbour is mentally unstable giving me and my family a hard time staying beside her.
Is there anything i can do besides moving out as that is not an option in the near future unfortunately.

Any advice is highly appreciated.

sorry guys, owe u guys the story. ok, mental level i think not so bad until safety is compromised, at least at the moment lar..
it started when they wanted to put up wall to cover up between the houses. i firmly said no because my house is intermediate and theirs is end lot, not corner lot. but they ignore and continue erect the wall. then in between the fence cover with cheap gipsum board. wife got angry and went and knock down the board and both ended up at the balai. the mentally unstable person said it's because my 3 year old son keep throwing stuff over to her side. now i know kids are kids anyhow, so some form of menace is expected. but for a grown up to fight with a three year old, i am totally speechless.

then keep throwing rubbish over to my house inside and outside. Then hor, keep using sticks to push my flowers down from the beam that's in between the houses. once i told her off quite loudly in front of the neighbours and she is so thick faced like buat tak tau saja.

What can i do?

just curious, if your neighbour started to build wall against your decision, what would you do exactly may i ask?

well, it started like this, her husband came over to me when me and my kids were at the park and he asked for permission to build a wall in between. I said if possible don't. But he said his wife is adamant to build it. i said, ok, if you need to build then build half but don't cover everything. It will make my living hall very dark. The next day, i came back and noticed the whole wall was covered up. Then in between the fence it was covered with the cheap gypsum board as mentioned earlier. So it seems they don't give a xxxx at all and just went to build it. my being an intermediate house i have to put the brooms stacked beside on the side wall. When the contractor was building the wall, the worker hung his clothes and placed his phone on the wall. This woman went and throw the clothes and phone all into my garden, thought that it was mine. Now i understand you guys might be thinking my side of the fence looks shitty, but put that thought to rest as i spent hundreds if not thousands hiring a gardener to take care and plant flowers on my side. So at least from my point of view it is decent looking to say. Since my house is an intermediate, i have no choice but to keep my drying aluminium bar and broom resting on the wall between my house and this family. This woman will ocassionally use a stick and push these things down as i believe she don't like sticks or sorts sticking up. But why not just tell us and instead resort to this sort funny behaviour.

When some rubbish get strewn by dogs or sort in front of their house, instead of throwing it away, this woman will automatically presume it's ours and throw it over to our front yard. This is again very very strange behaviour.

When they shifted in i usually greeted them but they don't answer back. In the end i gave up. Same comments from the other neighbours. And it's the same thing with the other neighbours. Now i don't have any issues with any of the other neighbors at all. As a matter of fact we are very good friend with the pho pho on the other side. It's only this neighbour from hell that we are having issues with.

They even installed their astro dish on my as you people call "side of the fence". Now i have never even thought of this thing but somehow it has made me sunk to their level and told them to installed it properly over on their side. I am not this sort of "calculative" person in nature and it just makes me really angry and made me do this sort of thing normally.

There are so many other strange behaviour, like driving like maniac on the neighbourhood roads etc etc.

I know you guys might think that i myself might be a bad neighbour. i have asked them why you want to build the wall so that i can solve the issue instead of having a eyesore wall built in between. They said my kids was using a stick to poke their electric meter. i believe this is the sort of civilised method of solving disputes rather than covering up your intermediate neighbours wall without giving a fxxk about their feelings.

But

yea, well you seemed pretty conclusive that i was the so called "bad neighbour" instead of them initially. now instead you have to listen to both part of the story to judge instead. i am still eagerly awaiting your answer.

Don't get me wrong i don't condone knocking down other people's stuff as well. i always believe there is always a civilised and peaceful way to resolving issues, that is if the other party have the same believe as well.

i don't know if the wall is legal or not actually, do i have any basis to take any legal action?

mestilarr, instead you label me as the "mentally unstable" haha..
should instead change the title to "Neighbor from Hell" instead. My bad lar, did not paint the whole picture first...