u sound like that 'ah boy to man' that nerd always 'geh kiang' wan to be number 1.
my friends all avoid me, I think i know why
my friends all avoid me, I think i know why
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Mar 16 2016, 10:10 PM
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u sound like that 'ah boy to man' that nerd always 'geh kiang' wan to be number 1.
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Mar 16 2016, 10:11 PM
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Mar 16 2016, 10:14 PM
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QUOTE(94brian @ Mar 16 2016, 10:10 PM) lol lol i dun want to b number 1 laa, just want to get degree and make my parents proud. I dun use ptptn, my parents work hard to pay my tuition fee, so i have to really work hard lorI just hope i can achieve my dream, that is all |
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Mar 16 2016, 10:14 PM
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You are annoying
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Mar 16 2016, 10:15 PM
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Mar 16 2016, 10:25 PM
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dont jump 14th floor ya ts..imagine all the pusseh u can get with ur determination.
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Mar 16 2016, 10:27 PM
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Mar 16 2016, 10:28 PM
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Ppl go uni wan enjoy student life u go and bug them with your mlm kind of story no wonder pipul dun wan fren u lar
Wan help ppl do something make yrself success and work through yr dream first den only advice ppl lar dont just advice advice advice like tok cok sing song only |
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Mar 16 2016, 10:32 PM
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QUOTE(Vinci777 @ Mar 16 2016, 10:28 PM) Ppl go uni wan enjoy student life u go and bug them with your mlm kind of story no wonder pipul dun wan fren u lar i said the things I've really been thru for example changing myself from being shy to no more being shy,Wan help ppl do something make yrself success and work through yr dream first den only advice ppl lar dont just advice advice advice like tok cok sing song only to me its a big success, even 3 yrs ago i can never imagine myself out there doing sales and score thousands of ringgit per day, but i did it now so is it wrong for me to share my joy to others? |
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Mar 16 2016, 10:54 PM
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must be TARC
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Mar 16 2016, 11:05 PM
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Mar 16 2016, 11:21 PM
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QUOTE(hootiedoo @ Mar 16 2016, 11:02 PM) How u know u r annoying? They go and say to your face meh? How you know they want to avoid you? they say it to your face meh? How you know you talk like old man? They say it to your face meh? ya lorr, they said it straight to me, and they are serious aabt it cause i think they hate me that muchIf you think u r like this, u r ! So stop being so low confidence. Low confidence is not attractive. Also do not be too desperate for friends, you will scare them away. So be in the middle. i think la, i talk like old ppl, cause why else they would say im annoying, many young ppl dun like old ppl cause they like to give advice ma actually i like old ppl cause their advice is very sincere and they usually have good intention in scolding me ya la, i am too long no friends ady, i think i have to stop being so desperado |
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Mar 16 2016, 11:21 PM
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Mar 16 2016, 11:23 PM
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should have avoided this thread, tldr
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Mar 16 2016, 11:25 PM
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Mar 16 2016, 11:32 PM
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I got a piece of advice, got it from a book I read called "How to talk to Anyone?" by Leil Lowndes. If your problem is with conversation, listen well. If not, still listen well.
When you are having a conversation with a person, make the person talk more than you do. People like to talk about themselves and have someone to LISTEN and engage in their problems. And then, whatever your response will be, make your response lead to another conversation. The only way to make sure the conversation continues is to give fucuk and give your full attention to the person. Use the info you LISTENED in your next response. TLDR; Be a listener in conversations |
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Mar 16 2016, 11:40 PM
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Because friends are developed by going through ups and downs together. If you keep telling them as if you had experienced shit and this and expect for things to work like some faggot TVB romantic drama you will likely not get the results you expected.
Try taking them to do drugs, cheong raw, smook weed, snatch bags and do arson.... You will surely have many friends. |
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Mar 16 2016, 11:43 PM
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QUOTE(Howdy_pepe @ Mar 16 2016, 09:12 PM) Hai lowyat members. I 'm new here, I actually just want to use this account to get infos of things but now im interested to make my own post If ppl run away from you. For sure you are the problem. (Annoying + maybe face problem also)i think ths is the right place to post this as peple wont know my id im still a student, second year at a chinese uni first year i have many friends then second year i have vry few friends,then on this sem all my friends slowly avoid me i think i know why, bcos im different with them. one of them actually said im annoying. but actually i just wanna entrtain them by not being so quiet and always advise them to be better lor ya lor i admit i always say things like old people and advice them to strive for their dream like i always encourage them to speak up n dun be shy i know they are intro, but i used to be one and i've actually experienced everything myself. many ppl reject me and talk bad about me cause im very shy and never speak. so i just dun want them to end up like me later in work place. maybe cause my family is very strict, my grandpa know no such thing as intovert, if you dun greet people nicely, you are just plain rude. so i oso considered by him as a very rude person (no good behaviour) coz last time i was intro i know im annoying, but i actually want them to be better ony ma btw they tend to stick with one person as their bestie while i don't have anyone to stick with as bestie, i just go everywhere alone, want to find help oso cannot because my so call friends are not close to me at all, they mostly like to avoid me by not reading my text, whatsapp, or sometimes ignore my call when its urgent i am that bad that i cannot have friends le.. i sometimes travel alone too, seeing others go wif their friends make me sad for myself Go change university now. |
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Mar 16 2016, 11:47 PM
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perhaps your friends avoiding you cause you speak too much, next time just talk what is necessary, like in lowyat forum, dont post anything that make ppl feel dont want to read. remember this isnt a place to improve your karangan.
Just like talking to your friend, summarize what you going to say in a few sentences, dont "once upon a time. ..." and bullshit for half an hour. |
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QUOTE(Howdy_pepe @ Mar 16 2016, 10:32 PM) i said the things I've really been thru for example changing myself from being shy to no more being shy, It's good that you not shy anymore. Keep it up. However you have to stop keep talking about the same thing. It really sound like a sales/mlm/dream seller talk. Some even think it as boasting.to me its a big success, even 3 yrs ago i can never imagine myself out there doing sales and score thousands of ringgit per day, but i did it now so is it wrong for me to share my joy to others? Try talk something else. Something fun. Spend more time in /k and you'll see how these ppl Tok cok troll and have fun lol This post has been edited by Vinci777: Mar 17 2016, 12:30 AM |
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