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my friends all avoid me, I think i know why
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TSHowdy_pepe
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Mar 17 2016, 11:21 AM
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QUOTE(BudakHingus @ Mar 16 2016, 11:32 PM) I got a piece of advice, got it from a book I read called "How to talk to Anyone?" by Leil Lowndes. If your problem is with conversation, listen well. If not, still listen well. When you are having a conversation with a person, make the person talk more than you do. People like to talk about themselves and have someone to LISTEN and engage in their problems. And then, whatever your response will be, make your response lead to another conversation. The only way to make sure the conversation continues is to give fucuk and give your full attention to the person. Use the info you LISTENED in your next response. TLDR; Be a listener in conversations that is interesting, human basically has some selfish element in each n everone la, so i think that could work if i listen more
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TSHowdy_pepe
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Mar 17 2016, 11:22 AM
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QUOTE(MishimaZ @ Mar 16 2016, 11:40 PM) Because friends are developed by going through ups and downs together. If you keep telling them as if you had experienced shit and this and expect for things to work like some faggot TVB romantic drama you will likely not get the results you expected. Try taking them to do drugs, cheong raw, smook weed, snatch bags and do arson.... You will surely have many friends. first line is good then the third one..whaaat
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mekboyz
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Mar 17 2016, 11:23 AM
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QUOTE(Howdy_pepe @ Mar 16 2016, 09:23 PM) most students n lecturer here chinese, even the uni logo is in chinese writing, you never heard of one? also it is built by mca lorr Ktar or utar
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TSHowdy_pepe
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Mar 17 2016, 11:24 AM
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QUOTE(CyberSetan @ Mar 16 2016, 11:43 PM) If ppl run away from you. For sure you are the problem. (Annoying + maybe face problem also) Go change university now. yaa i know im the problem here  but it's hard to change bcause with experience i know that i'm doing whats best for others n me, but still they dont look at it the same as me. they might think i talk like old ppl, like lecturer talk so they dun want to get close to ppl likedat bcause they also hate lecturer ma
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TSHowdy_pepe
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Mar 17 2016, 11:26 AM
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QUOTE(mekboyz @ Mar 17 2016, 11:23 AM) lol lol go to last pages u will know
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jinjinjinjin
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Mar 17 2016, 11:26 AM
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if ts is pretty girl this wont happen
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servo
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Mar 17 2016, 11:27 AM
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you should take on a gangsta/rapper persona.. then you'll get lotsa friends and chicks
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rifbook
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Mar 17 2016, 11:29 AM
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u should change your personality. or u should find friend which understand the way u are
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+3kk!
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Mar 17 2016, 11:30 AM
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> no friends > picks on peoples problem
your friends dont have a problem if you are not around cause you are the problem
stop poking your head into other peoples business
This post has been edited by +3kk!: Mar 17 2016, 11:30 AM
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FlamingFox
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Mar 17 2016, 11:30 AM
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Recently a lot of depressed people in /k
Anyway, 1 thing you should avoid is giving advice to people who don't want to listen. That is very annoying to them and you may appear to others as sombong because you think you're perfect. Although your intentions are good, the message did not go through correctly.
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jasonloke
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Mar 17 2016, 11:43 AM
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this not matter you wat race, is because u shy and not self active. go get out some activity and make new friend
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ISawYou
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Mar 17 2016, 11:54 AM
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just because you like to eat durian doesn't mean that others like it too.
if your words don't work on them, stop feeding them with it and mind your own business la.
you talk many gao si lap sap of course la people don't like.
talk once enough already, if they don't want to listen just stop talking and move on.
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captain fast
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Mar 17 2016, 02:19 PM
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Maybe you went overboard from being helpful to downright smart alec kind.
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