QUOTE(Pr1me_Minister @ Nov 2 2016, 01:32 AM)
This.
Being rude in a is usually a sign that you have given up on the debate/ discussion.
Although the TS does generally set the tone for the entire thread, he/ she is not unchallengable. If anyone has any objection about post deletions performed by the TS it's better to have the moderating team weigh in before blowing it out of proportion.
As an atheist I don't really give a rat's ass about the concept of life after death. So instead I have a question for you all:
"I know that in your eyes I'm destined for hell, but would you still treat me like a normal dignified human being?"
Telling people that they're going to hell is usually a derogatory remark. But like I said before I don't really care at all. ‾¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I am very sorry that christians have given a bad impression to you. I apologize on behalf of all of us.
I would also like to offer a possible explanation on why such reactions came about in the first place. This explanation is based on my own experiences which I am not proud of.
When I was much younger both in age and as a Christian I had what was possibly a dream but it felt like a real life out of body experience.
I found myself lost in a pitch black place with no hope of getting out. Forever.
The fear and desolation I experienced was beyond what words can describe. I cried and screamed but nothing and no one could get me out.
It came to my mind that this is what it means to spend eternity without Christ.
I woke up crying and shivering and for days was unsettled.
As I reflect on that experience I realized I would not wish it on my worst enemy, much less my own friends and family.
That gave me a zeal to share Jesus with everyone.
In my zeal many angry words were uttered when the person who I shared with did not believe me. Words similar to what you may have heard.
On reflection. Those words like "you are going to hell if you don't believe " and "why are you so stupid and stubborn?" would sound like a taunt to the listener, but let me assure you, it was a cry of anguish on the part of the speaker.
They were words of love expressed wrongly because of the fear I felt for the listener if they did not believed.
I drove my own brother away with those words and it took many many years to repair our relationship.
Was I wrong in saying those words ? Most certainly.
I was immature and emotional and though I cared, I did not express my love in the correct manner.
Over the years I have toned down my words and I now know that God in Him mercy has a time for everyone to encounter Him personally to make a decision.
I find that most people who are young or healthy or well off find no use for Jesus and are not ready to make a decision for Him.
But there will come a time when they will be ready and then they will remember what was shared to them earlier.
I hope my post here will shed some light on why some Christians speak and act like they do and I also hope you will forgive the hurt they have cause you.
Peace be with you.