I am closeted bi as well, I already no longer looking for new love anymore since too much things has happened to be for the past 2 years.

Mind sharing some of the things that happened? I think it's okay to take some time off from dating because dating in general is overwhelming. For us, however, it is 10x harder.

This post has been edited by internaldisputes: Apr 21 2018, 01:16 PM

this thread is rather quiet and not active .... =<

I subscribed to this thread so in case there is any replies I'll get alerted.

How are you?

I'm fine thanks . How about you ?
I saw most of the cupid corner's threads are usually [straight] people .
Or others are still deeply closeted ?

I'm good! Yeah, there isn't a lot of us here. Even if we are out, I don't think many are looking for relationships for whatever reason.

Really ? Im not sure if im looking for a r/s , bt i want to meet more ppl like us . Make friends , no harm making more friends/expand the social circle .

I see. That's great. I need more friends too especially since I'm such an anti-social in real life.

So which part of the abbreviation are you? L, G, B or T? I'm G lol.

L yo . Lol , i do not have G friends , i mean a real G friend . Mayb u can be the 1st one if u dont mind . Most of my friends are L or straight as pencil . Haha

Lol sure. Can't say I ever have a lesbian friend before too. How old are you?

Im almost 30 . Mayb we can exchange wechat for chatting n c how . =>

This thread is rather quiet.

I find being in the LGBT pool very difficult here in Malaysia. I can safely say I have a broken gaydar as I've been lied to in the most interesting way... I seem to be off when seeing in someone bats for the same team... and being a more introvert and forcing myself to act like an extrovert for the sake of work... is very stressful and unfulfilling as I am now so unsure about myself and the fact that I fell in love with someone in my office where that person (who's straight) suspects i like them is making things worse.

Anyone has the same issues?

This post has been edited by Shinnen: Jun 13 2018, 09:30 AM

Hey, welcome to the thread! I'm in the same boat... I have a crush on the manager of the gym that I frequent. He's very nice and always helps me with my lifting form. He also compliments me on things which makes me so happy sometimes. One day when I finished with my workouts, I said goodbye to him and suddenly he pulled me aside and gave me a card. I asked what it is and he said it is an invitation to his wedding. I was crushed.

I'm pretty straight-acting and I'm thinking of leaving hints like rainbow flag in my social media and piercing my ear or something. I'm super shy and my preferred approach to dating is to wait for guys to fall on my lap instead of actively seeking for them.

Anyway, there is a new Malay insult for gay guys and it is called "kunyit" (turmeric). Not sure how long has it been around but I just recently heard about it.

Pretty hurtful but at the same time kinda funny.

This post has been edited by internaldisputes: Jun 13 2018, 10:19 AM

But what's the logic behind that term?

I don't look or act gay per say but being in the same office with the massive crush... has made me start job hunting again. Oh i so get you about having people fall onto my lap. My issue is people don't look beyond looks... and with my major nerd aspect of me... I'm always not on the same wavelength as everyone else.

This post has been edited by Shinnen: Jun 13 2018, 11:18 AM

I was told because turmeric looks like poop and we are known to have anal sex. It's a very creative insult, I have to admit.

When you said he knows you're gay does he said it to your face or he started to act weird around you? It's gonna hurt but I do support your decision if you're going to distance yourself from him. Being in love with colleagues often leads to a mess in the future.

The Tumeric insult takes to long to insult lol --- not effective

Actually... it's a she... she and I were very close... she would hang out with me and stuff. Then a few months back, she really distant herself from me. At most is talk about work related stuff only. Anything more, she just selectively hears or shuts down. It's kind of sad... maybe I was doing something or saying something out of line that I didn't realized. Anyways... if I can find another job, I'll move on... it hurts.

Oh I see.. So you're lesbian right? That's really odd. I think you should talk to her about it... She might be having other personal problems for all we know.

Don't think she has any problems. She's pretty open about her problems. Just I don't think talking about LGBT issues is cool with her. I mean... Not sure if you get the same reaction from many ppl... That they always say they are ok with LGBT people until I guess... One falls for them then it's a different story.