I seriously vote NO..

Relationship is not all about Sex it's all about love.. Well maybe for some certain guys they take sex like bigger than the world or sum things but i'm not. I seriously dislike sex even thought i havent do it before but whenever my bf touch me i really felt uncomfortable & i even took his hands off me.. but it din effect our relationship.

It's all about what guys think about it.. If he really dun love you because you cant satisfy his needs then better advised him to find a hooker or some things.. This kind of guys is not worth it. My bf always force me when i said No.. but i insist stick to No also.. Sum time i would think if really 1day he broke up with me because of this i wont regret. What for you need a guy that just need your sex more than your love? I believe outside there are plenty of guys that worth your love.

yup 100% agree with u. sex is the most important part in marriage. only those who already married will know how important it is.

i voted yes, the problem is on the guy as if he can perform better skill then the girl won't feel pain, and definitely will in love with sex so much.

i know.i got shocked by my ex gf(sex).some of my female friends more hamsap than guys.i also kena molest by a group of girls but play play one la.

i voted YES. Why not

Finally some one with discipline and dignity here. You deserve my respect. My admiration goes to you. I might be interested in you, if I'm not married.

Anyway, the importance of sex is subjective to each individual. Sex can be separated from marriage, but marriage is hard to go on without sex. Did you read sometime back that a woman divorced her husband because they have not been doing it for 7 consecutive years? It's hard to imagine. Some one who dislike sex doesn't mean he/she doesn't do it all together, correct? It's one of a natural basic element in marriage.

Maybe this thread title is too vague and stirring up so many arguments and opinions from all directions. When we go deeper into it, the final answer I can say is: SEX IS RELATIVE.

Dun be surprised there r. Remember I told u guys b4 dat my friend's gf open her leg wide wide on their 2nd date at her hs n ask him 2 f*** her, den my friend cabut lari dat time.
Yea, there r some gals who brush their hands against my thing when we r dancing in da club, dunno is accidentally or on purpose 1 la.

Gals, dun hide it la, u ppl r exposed 2 sex even at a much younger age than us guys do. I'm sure u ppl have experienced da curiosity feel b4.

babybb, if you dislike sex now I seriously doubt you will change your mind even when you're married becuase you've painted such a negative picture over such a natural and beautiful act. I pity your future husband because his wife will not enjoy sex. Divorce is his only option.

second option,find another women who love sex . LOL

js a single piece of my opinion....as for me guys are the same & of cos they need sex (doesnt mean they js wanna satisfy themself but it's a need, u know, js like u need to drink water, eat somehting etc). and also for me, no guys here can claim himself 'no sex at all, happy relationship forever' unless they are elderly, monk, impotence or gays (even gays they also need ***, u know la) ...

and another thing, the initial step of getting pregnancy is 'making love' with the one u love..unless both of them dun plan to have children...

and no offence here, the more u insist, the higher chances for him to find another gal...and u will never know the 'feeling of regret' until you're regret...perhaps you're still young cheers!

why must a relationship be relied on sex?
when u love someone in the first place, it is the person that you fall in love with, but not the body.
so how could your relationship be affected by sex?
me and my bf have bought a house and staying together for almost a year. i am happy he respects me a lot, for he never complains for months without sex.

i agree with you.even some monks in the world got tfk,see sexy girl body and imagine and have sex with girl.girls also need sex.my own experienced is before a girl have sex,she won't need it.after have sex already,always need it.guys not same.virgin or non virgin guys also hope/need for sex.it's hormon.science.

for me sex is important
i dun think a couple can live long without sex, for long term ofcos

He's cheating on you.

Man staying together with GF and not complaining not having sex for a month? I don't buy it. Sex is important in relationship. But not too important until can destroy relationship. Its needed to spice up the relationship. Without it, it will be dull and boring.

that's why the word make love is created.
that's where and how they love each other even more =X

Js a simple question here...

Is a family impoortant to u?
Are children important to u?

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If your answer is a YES... then for sure sex is important...BUT...

It depends on individual how to define the IMPORTANCE of sex...

EASY... the importance ranks from 1 - 10....choose your ranking...

Maybe yours is 1, or 5 or 10...this also consider important ,rite ? as long as it's not a " - " (negative)


Cheers

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HINT: No sex, no OUTCOME, how can generate next generation? Unless using advanced medical technology...

This post has been edited by tomato_mei: Jan 8 2009, 08:59 PM

good idea

if u think u would cheat on your gf in such situation, sorry, not every guy is same like u

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Added on January 9, 2009, 9:41 amactually the topic is about "Is it without sex, your relationship will crumble???"
of course we all know that if u want to have children u must have SEX or otherwise through medical advances

This post has been edited by cocolala: Jan 9 2009, 09:41 AM

we always talk about avoid sexual disease that brought from the previous sex partner, how about if every time also wearing condom, will it affect to 2nd partner?