here is another stupid post again. Why don't you ask your parent?

IMHO, sex is just natural. A predefined function etched in human brain. Poeple could go crazy after years not having it. Cuba sekali nak lagi

tat guy sarks !!! its not true love ... ur fren got cheated ? maybe coz jst becoz of sex the guy dosent wanna talk to her ? wt*

if a guy says I can love u more if u let me have sex, its total BS.

There are many other ways u can express ur love

Love is not equal to sex, but sex can improve relationship... but I think that guy got problem in mind... if without sex he cannot love the lady, then why don't he be pros? ha ha ha can have sex and get money ha ha ha...

Its all a matter of the mind...

For me, Id rather not have sex even if the woman wants too as premaritial sex is a huge sin

no sex no u...
no sex no lyn~!!

@shaun,

It's only a sin if you believe it is a sin. For more liberal people, sex is something to be enjoyed between both partners. If your woman wants it but you don't want to give it, you are not respecting her as an individual with sexual needs just like everyone else. If that is the case, how are you any different from a girl who refuses sex when her boyfriend wants it?

Girl: If you love me you will have sex with me.
Shaun: But sex before marriage is a huge sin!
Girl: Ok... because I love you I will respect your decision.

Now, will anyone blame the girl if she eventually leaves shaun because he can't perform his part?

future lesbian

Whats up with ppl hitting out on me? Its just my opinion

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Added on January 31, 2009, 11:18 amit should be more like this if teh girl wants sex:

I say: After we get married first



This post has been edited by shaun3230: Jan 31 2009, 11:18 AM

i'm agree with u. i think the guy should tolerance with his galfriend and give her some time to suit herself with this thing. if the guy ignore her bcoz she dun wan make love with him, then the guy is not really love her instead of want to obtain her body only. i think the gal should seriously talk this problem to the guy.

^ agreed. If he can wait for marriage, he is really into her.

for me.. sex only after marriage, gals should avoid to have sex with their bf before married because, guy easy boring if the thing are too easy and they will find another gal to try off.

Save ur virginityuntil married.

Sex to make sure the relationship go on just bullshit, thats show they didnt patient. Not patient people wont last long. cheers

My friend's girlfriend had sex with him (she's the one who asked for it) 2 weeks into their relationship and they are still sexually active even after 3 years so I haha at you.

.. why so sedih wan.. thats sucks.

so u syiok they have sex? Good guy know how to control themself and they willing to wait if they really love the gal. Guys that need sex before marriage just addicted to masturbate only and search gals to release their cream.

In case you didn't read properly, she is the one who asked him to nail her.

Sex is not a sin, be it pre or post marital. If god forbid sexual activities, then he shouldnt give you sexual organs.

God gives you the freedom of choice. Its you who should decide what path you should walk onto. You can comment on the path others have took but who are we to judge them. No a single person on earth is flawless.

If love can lead to sex, it can be other way around too. Either way, you can say they co-exist and equally important. Its just like how some gals use their youth and beauty to get luxury life by loving a man much older than she is. Whether its sex, money, love, beauty, etc, these are the variable factor that govern our relationships. Its as simple as win, lose or draw.

Sex is sin if do before getting marriage..its called zina. It maybe not affect for not muslim. But ur statement are not accurate if u said it not a sin.. since there are many races and religions inside this forums.

i believe sex is important. if a couple very seldom do it together, there is a chance either party is cheating. my bf asking for it even sometimes i didn feel like needing it, but i jz give it and get 'high' during the mid of the action . sex is like give and take for a relationship, sometimes u need it u will expect ur partner to give it to u and vice versa. of coz, it will be better if both need it the same time .