i lol

can't in ? LOL . Impossible.maybe they don't have experience yet.need wet 1st.try lick or go buy lubricant put on it.

how to define guy or girl lost their virgin
guy:totally enter girl private part and ejaculate sperm
girl :guy's private part totally enter deep because inside got something need to break it

to me,can have sex before marry but need to be safe.must do safety sex step if don't want have baby/get marry yet or can't afford yet.sex it's a must to a relationship(dating/pak thor).after sex,both couple can more close to each other,more love to each other,more understand each other and give all to partner.

to me must marry then only can have sex it's wrong.now it's modern world.not zaman purba or dynasty.only old ppl will think like this.if a person whole life didn't get marry then don't need sex?have sex with lover it's must.one night stand and call pros/gigolo it's wrong.

p/s:above not recommended for muslim fellows

This post has been edited by wah chai: Dec 6 2008, 12:56 AM

Hmmnn...... as my opinion on you frend's case


Firstly, I think maybe the fiancee is the type of man that just wan to " get " her then after " got " edi the simply just forget that they are engaged !

2nd, maybe your fren said something that hurt her fiancee's feeling. U know lar, man's ego very weird one

3rd, technique problem also counts ler. Each couple must know the true love and the bounded together feeling then I believe can make out a good sex + improve relationships. I read a book/article, a couple not necessary to have sex everytime to be good, some foreplay, caressing, kissing, touching each others would do as good,too.

I thk it would be a waste if the couple just blow off like that. Hope the guy and also the gal could tear off thier ego and confront each other. Bring the issue out n talk, I 10000% believe. Communication is very important. Voice out anything but not to bring in too much emotions during the talk. Give way and peace........ many problem arise just because of misunderstandings !


What you all think ??






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hi all, btw im new here..for my opinion sex really is very important to all the human beeing not only human but same like animal too.. as ur fren case, 1st of all maybe she scare or something donno how to handle about it... she do love her fiance but just worry she cant give him the best in sex only. i suggest she should discuss with his own fince about it... we cant give wat opinion also just can give some advice to her not to worry too much..maybe if she still worry about it better consult a doctor.those (sakit puan)...

it can't enter because the girl's hymen isnt broken yet or she isnt relax enough. that is y..

maybe but my experience ,any girls private part my little bro can enter.no problem at all.maybe they didn't kiss,lick and touch 1st(make girl high and on).like food need cook and hot only can eat . LOL

In Islam,
Sex is a way to expand the religion, but theres guides 'bout that.
Only do that after marriage coz sex b4 marriage will only destroy the inheritance

yes but i saw alot malay/islam fellows didn't follow it.just some will still follow.i think in malaysia(chinese,malay&indian) , chinese are the most open minded.i also proud of it because i'm chinese.LOL.no offence

no its not a must, but its a bonus... a lil oral wont hurt

No Sex No Life No You Come Out To Tis World

Sex isnt supposed to be enjoyed BEFORE marriage , your friend should know that .

The whole reason pre-marital sex isnt encouraged and forbidden in the Bible is to prevent things like these from happening .

If your friend dumped that guy now , she just threw away the greatest gift she could have gave to her husband .

There are marriage counsellors i think , send them there for help .


i somehow just stumbled upon this thread

i agree with u..

sex it's the time you damn love ur partner,want relationship get more closer,more love each other and want give to ur partner ur everythings . sex included in love . feel + sex = love

if im in the guy's shoe i'd be thinking- Is she having an affair?
but as for the girls, she might be afraid of the pain..but after sometime, the pain will go away slowly as the *** will get a bit looser n she might enjoy it by then.

But lastly, i still think figthing over sex really sucks, if they are matured enough..they'll think it's dumb

if both side agree then its ok lork..
juz rmb safety come 1st and no force..

No wonder Jedis arent allowed to love no force

it looks like majority voted yes ~~

i think the guy is selfish...

below is just my point of view as a guy...

GUY = learn to know your partner well during having a good relationship with, if u 'need', ask yourself to 'settle' by your own...when da time is right & long enough to know your partner well, then only start to learn & to understand your partner's body. sweet & direct conversation with her may help you to learn your partner body structure well, then only start doing what they so call 'sex', during the progress, u may also need to ask her about her feelings, try to persuit her in her way she likes most, if u can, of coz its great, but if u can't, try to help each other in both ways.

GAL = learn a guy well, listen to his heart & see what he needs. u may get difficulties in your partner, but references & opinions from friends & families also important part. relationship build strong enough, then only think of 'sex'. in these parts, ask for consultation from friends or doctors, try not to be shy to ask if you love your partner so much. info searching & know your body structure well also very important. different female has different levels of needs. prepare before having 'sex'. conversation to your partners also important, speak gentlely to him, tell him how u feels, pain, high, or other expression that can express to him, make him abit clever, instead of not telling him & make yourself more painful.

This post has been edited by Alexcsyan: Dec 20 2008, 03:01 PM