below is just my point of view as a guy...

GUY = learn to know your partner well during having a good relationship with, if u 'need', ask yourself to 'settle' by your own...when da time is right & long enough to know your partner well, then only start to learn & to understand your partner's body. sweet & direct conversation with her may help you to learn your partner body structure well, then only start doing what they so call 'sex', during the progress, u may also need to ask her about her feelings, try to persuit her in her way she likes most, if u can, of coz its great, but if u can't, try to help each other in both ways.

GAL = learn a guy well, listen to his heart & see what he needs. u may get difficulties in your partner, but references & opinions from friends & families also important part. relationship build strong enough, then only think of 'sex'. in these parts, ask for consultation from friends or doctors, try not to be shy to ask if you love your partner so much. info searching & know your body structure well also very important. different female has different levels of needs. prepare before having 'sex'. conversation to your partners also important, speak gentlely to him, tell him how u feels, pain, high, or other expression that can express to him, make him abit clever, instead of not telling him & make yourself more painful.

This post has been edited by Alexcsyan: Dec 20 2008, 03:01 PM