same thought.. haha

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Added on October 11, 2008, 4:10 pmnot bored ka? after marriage, do wat le?

This post has been edited by yiivei: Oct 11 2008, 04:10 PM

You must be crazy to ever get bored of sex.

Sex is important in a marriage, however
1) It should never be done without consideration for the other party, and
2) It should not be withheld for no good reason.

If for some reason, sex is withheld, then both need to work out the underlying reason. Perhaps it is that time of the month, or she is upset with something you did, or he had a bad time in the office. It is in the interest of the marriage that issues like that be resolved first. The sex will then come quite naturally.

Edit: I just read the TS's post.
In the case of the TS's friend, it may be wise to actually learn how to have sex. There's alot of stuff on the net which will help them better their sex life. The guy should not push the matter, neither should the girl run away from it. There is absolutely nothing to be ashamed about.

Bottomline - Communication is key.

It is very possible to get bored of sex. It happens more often than you think. That said, sex is not the problem. The real problem is -- the relationship. Loving couples can't get bored of sex simply because there's alot of affection going on. If however the relationship is hurt, it is hard to even think of wanting to have sex with your spouse.

The lack of sex in most old couples however, is usually due to a lack of spice/romance in their relationship.

This post has been edited by ionStorm: Oct 11 2008, 05:10 PM

Actually, it's more possible that the lack of skill on the bed is causing the couple to gradually lose interest in sex. Guys don't know how to please girls, and girls don't know that sex is supposed to be enjoyed, not run away from like its some sort of a dinosaur strapped with miniguns and a tactical nuke. You can't run away from a tactical nuke anyway.

Agree with you. Too much of sex with the same partner will get bored someday. Unless you are talking about sex with different people.

Apparently you didn't read what was more important.



Any lack of skill in bed can be learnt.

really important...sum girl geli o taknak maybe she never try it..after try maybe it make sumone want it 4 all time..it's can make u smile every time n can make u feel young..it's can avoid stress and moody..
but remember,please play safe...hehe!!

Is it by using condom, then it's safe to have sex? Anyone just using condom nia and not taking any pills can avoid pregnancy?

If possible, use both methods. It will reduce the risk of pregnancy by 98%. If you STILL get pregnant after that, then its time for your boyfriend to falcon punch you.

wether before or after marriage , if the partner "doesnt matter male or the female" not comfartable with it, juz let it go ! not like they not gonna have sex at all! obviosly the time will come............

this problem accurs only if :

i . he/she is a player .....
ii. not in true love "juz for f*** sake."

even these kinda people get married also because they can have unlimited sex anytime they want .........

"in another word sexual harrasement" even if u force ur wife 2 have sex it's still sexual harrasement............

IF HE REALY LOVE'S THE GIRL HE WOULD UNDERSTAND AND GIVE HER MORE TIME .............
IF NOT JUZ f***ING DUMP HIM..........................................

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Added on October 14, 2008, 6:48 pmU GOT THAT RIGHT

This post has been edited by white.lion.clan: Oct 14 2008, 06:48 PM

for me i will not using condom lo... is like wear sock wash foot.... no lo....

For me sex is important is certain relationship.

because diff ppl has diff thinking, especially in a relationship man and woman always has diff thinking.
Man may think sex can make their feeling better but woman may think sex can make their relationship go worst.

but in ts case,
the man thirsty for sex quite a lot, while the woman afraid or not use to it after she tred it.
So now both also require partner understanding of,
the man hope the woman more understand his "physical need",
the woman hope the man understand her mentally scariness.

Its either asking the man to think some other thing which is important in a relationship other than sex. And also respect his partner and not treating her just a sex toy/slave;
or ask the woman to get use it as in the future they might need it alot, and sex is one of the way to make husband and wife better. If she still afraid of something, she really need her partner to comfort her for that, not other friend

Sex is just intercourse with each others...

those who really love each other are called making love

oppsss its very important ...

sex is a wonderful thing.
i think that guy got no skill about sex.
or they need longer foreplay.

sex is needed to tame your hubby d***

sex is not so important during a relationship, but however it is part of relationship and it is not to be taken lightly by any couple. both the guys and girls should have an understanding and respect to the girls as to whether she want to do it with you or not, if she do not want it...guys should not forced her into it but however i would say that sex is a "tool" to maintain and strengthen the relationship of the couple

sex is important to produce the next generation if follow the laws of nature.

dump him ~~~~~

haha, im too scientific...