QUOTE(merchant9 @ Aug 27 2020, 03:11 PM)
Thanks for sharing your experience.
I appreciate more insights to working life in Australia is like, but it all depends on what kind of job we might find when we land in the future. Comparing what you mentioned with our lives now in Malaysia, i think they are about the same but my husband always say his after work hours or weekend hours are R&D for the job he does as it is also his hobby.
That is quite a long working hour for your wife. Hope things turn better soon. How long have you been in Australia? Any children?
If my work involved playing games or designing them perhaps I would say the same thing. I am on the computer almost all day long too as I generally enjoy being on the computer. We've been in Aus since March 2017 - I'd say we adapted alright but we're more introverted and have few friends but as long as we're happy I think that's fine.
No kids yet, we are thinking about one next year but worried about how Covid may affect things. My company made redundant every single staff who were on maternity leave. Only 1 came back as her supervisor left. While wife is quite valued in the company and there are lots of female team leads which I suspect will influence things somewhat - not 100% sure the same thing won't happen to her. I think she deserves a break from her job for a while.
QUOTE(Rand @ Aug 27 2020, 03:35 PM)
I suppose that's why I decided to migrate. Disappointed with the BN government at the time and how they are apparently untouchable by the law, really convinced that they were going to mess up the country. I've since come to realise that the politics here is pretty rubbish as well but overall... I still think its probably better than Malaysia somewhat. After coming over I have also realised that those unfair bumi policies and political nonsense never quite affected my day to day life and I feel a little silly for being so up in arms over these things. However, I will say that the recent political shenanigans in Malaysia have me glad to be here instead.
If your children are educated here I think they probably will end up being better critical thinkers, less conservative and be more social and open. They'll probably suck at memorizing though. I don't have any children yet (although that is set to change soon) so I cannot cannot speak from experience. Maybe someone else can contribute on this matter.
I personally hate the race based politics and the fact non-bumis will always be 2nd hand citizens. It also feels like crap when a certain portion of the population are given better treatment not due to merits but luck of birth. If one can exploit it well, they'll be set for life.
It's not perfect anywhere, sure - but I'd rather be a second class citizen elsewhere earning a stronger currency and living a (possibly) better life elsewhere. There's tensions with China + America, but at least there's no large scale corruption all the way to the top office. Not to mention if anyone ticks of the royals they can get into trouble without any way solving the situation amicably. I personally think Malaysia has a much better long term future compared to Aus if it can get on par with Singapore - but maybe not in my lifetime.
I think I'm more moderate-conservative while my peers back in Msia are a lot more liberal. We have a surprising difference in political views - they being stuck in a highly conservative environment probably encourages them, but I prefer the middle ground. Like the recent BLM rallies I find myself opposing it whereas they are highly in support of it. We're plenty critical of each other, and I think the parents upbringing of children matters more than the education provided - I'm an example of a crap student in school, always top 10 last place in class and terrible at memorizing stuff I don't have an interest in. Due to the job of choice, I'm lucky to be able to migrate over to Aus.