I am freaking annoyed with my girlfriend. Almost day in day out, talking about travelling to singapore or to bangkok or whatever hell hole place. End of the year is the time I have to spend my savings on housing assessment and auto insurance and she wants us to go to SG in december to attend her friend's wedding.

Fuck. What is it with girls and travelling?? What the fuck is it so glamorous about it. Spend all their savings on a trip and come back with nothing in the accounts then rinse and repeat.

Someone explain it to me cuz I am blowing my top off.

ask her use own money leh

FB influence kut

They are too used to their daddies giving them spending money

Cukurlah saya masih single...

want to update facebook and instagram ma...

and you are the one who pay, not them. Sure they don't give a shit.

You ask them pay and see.

we know who is the alpha in the relationship...no balls to speak up eh?

she wan to enjoy her youth wif u.
can wear sexy and take many beautiful photos wif u.
so u must be proud of her too.
then later merrid d, cannot travel so often, even worst deliver baby... u wish u can go holiday tat time.
trust me.

She want to go, then ask her pay for hotel, u pay for flight lo (if you're financially stressed la). Most of /k earning 20k per month, so it's nthg to them

it's not girls.

It's you girlfriend and some other shallow, vapid women.

I tell you this as a girl. Year end is when I do my car insurance and road tax renewal. I also sometimes travel but all on my own expenditure so ok la.

Sorry la bro you GF needs a slap. A reality check. She's a brat. Tell her to go on her own. If she sulks then you;re likely dealing with a really spoilt, selfish brat and perhaps need to look at this relationship long and hard.

Personally I can't stand grown ass women like this who are damn syiok sendiri and selfish.

This.

Everyday tell me "you see, this friend XXX life so good, everyday get to travel, you see, that friend YYY life so good, everyday get to travel"

but when times comes, already got money for travel

"Why you no spend for me also want meh"

kecian

We are sharing half half. This gf better than the previous one. That one I pay 100%. Economy not doing that good end year. Business is affected.

Cukurrr my gf always force me to Split for flights n hotel payment.

Onli food i have to pay for her.

Cukuuurrr

attention

comparison

show off

U need to earn more than she can spend

get a cheaper car with lower road tax and insurance, or a gf that dun spend so much

lol suck to be you , having a gf liddis

I must admit. Her travelings are not over the top. It's just that the money spent can be better used for savings. I don't get it. They have zero savings and when Shit happens then what?

Only recently she buy insurance after I persuaded her to.

Big boobs though. Can't complain.

...no need so ganas boss

Houlier than thou much?

Its kinda stupid that ppl think car insurance and renewal is only made at year end. Lol.

u think with ur dick , thats the problem .
You should keep thinking with ur dick all the time if you don't want to complain, case closed. next.

blowing ur top off? ask her to compensate by blowing u while vacation la.

Perempuan memang suka melancong .. Memang dalam genes

Travel within Malaysia lor. What is all the fuss about?

Haiyo brah...coz of big boobs u wont complain...so many big boobs submissive girl out there..

Dump this one, save $$$ and get a NL gf

Just go for the holiday and piap her lah. Why need to complain?

Hello, some people's renewal anniversary is then, or perhaps you don't own properties/ cars/ medical or life insurance/ mutual funds, so I'm going to assume thats why you don't know.

Why you butt hurt. ARE you shallow and vapid?

Plenty of those in their 20s are. All head in clouds, don't have their shit together and look down on the responsible ones. And then when need savings... ha. The fun begins.

This post has been edited by daylight_dancer: Oct 31 2015, 02:30 PM

+1 LOL

So much judgemental. Macam la pandai sangat. You're the one butthurt here over someone elses gf. U jealous ah?

maybe thats what she want to achieve this yr next yr?

couples do sit together discuss goals together right?
list out commitments, everything settle first..

i also do that.. with my right hand
all i can say i consider myself lucky cos my right hand dun demand much..
now first goal already achieved, nego with with right hand to get left hand another watch.

she just got back from thailand last week

ahaha kid. You so funny. Go play far away with kids your age k.

Ofcourse judgemental. I judge stupid, shallow people accordingly. And yes, I mmg pandai. Like, duh. *eye roll*

TS posted a question, people answer. Hence the 'judging'. Get over yourself, goodbye.

This post has been edited by daylight_dancer: Oct 31 2015, 02:33 PM

what's wrong with bringing your right hand or left hand to vacation once in a while?

Why you always meet the similar type of girls wan?

Kesien...no guys wanna spend money on you

How about you explain to her that u want to save money for other purposes?

why r u here again?

this

Hahaha typical. when one has no facts, one goes for the blow below the belt.


Ha. Thing is, you need people to validate you hence the personal pokes. Oh grow up.

This post has been edited by daylight_dancer: Oct 31 2015, 02:37 PM

Relationship is about give and take. But if you feel unfair amount of giving against take, better assess it again whether you can accept this conditions. Don't want you only say cannot accept after married.

Also don't think of changing her, man don't change and neither is women.

Siau.

But ofcourse. How else does one survive in this crazy world if not 'siau'.

K disengaging now.

What an unhappy life u r living.

I always date the youngest.

3

Gip me if u r nt using it

Since she willing to pay 50%-50%, go lah.

Her friend's wedding some more. She would also like to 'show you' off to her friend(s).

Can travel by coach, take MRT, stay in cheapo hotel, eat at food court or hawker center.

If careful with the money, you won't be spending so much lah.

Oh...if the friend is Chinese, need to give ang pow though.

In S$.

Already did but she says you go and save up and do whatever you want. Always finding reasons not to travel with me. Diew

Flights 500 return to kuching.
Passport renewal 200
Accommodations 500 per pax for a few nights.

That kind of money can buy me a few unit trusts.

Then you need to put your foot down and train her liao.

Spoil her too much then she become like your last ex.

woah. ggwp. lulz.

deswai i always act poor in front gf. hahahahahahahahahahahaha padahal...

You need to explain to her your financial condition and your planning bro. At least from there if she still insist meaning she might not be looking at the big picture.

and.. Singapore trip for friend wedding still ok.. u can budget maybe around 200-300sgd per person including angpow.

Thanks buddy. Yeah. Calculating which account to pull the funds from now. Diew.

date older women la dude. Older women like dudes who know what responsibilities are. Young girls ah... the problem these days is they want everything the easy way. It comes to a point where they are so selfish.

I had a poor colleague (in her 50s) lament over how selfish her 25 year old daughter was.

Oh.

I thought you over in West Malaysia where you can just hop on a coach to Singapore.

If really, really want to save money, hop on a bus to JB. Then take the SBS bus to Singapore, even cheaper.

Anyway, all the best.

LOL at least someone sees what I mean. Baru kena called names by some immature pr*ck here. Oh well. Win some, lose some. Wait till the bugger gets a partner who is selfish/ vapid.

She's 3 years older than me dude. *sweat*

i suggest you break up and remain foreveralone

Meh whatever. Some people act their shoe size. Can't please the world, now can I.

Uh oh. Maybe daddy's princess lah. That's why.

not only dad. mummy too

Get a gf who don't use facebook and instagram.

emotionally stunted. better run while you can

just tell her you got financial commitment. if she doesn't understand that, no point keeping her around any longer.

GF?? no thx.. ask her.. got money?.. if yes.. then onlygo

totally opposite , i always wanted my gf to travel more with me, but she dun like spending money on travel

We should trade. You guys are match made in heaven

Yup she said it all already.

Your gf still perangai budak budak, not yet woken up to reality. Either that or she expects you to pamper to her every whim because you're her bf.

to them, traveling is social status.
Poor financial management

U tell ur friends .. ask her show u her account savings ??

LOL most people are trolls and keyboard warriors here. They can simply talk kok online. Ask them to meet face to face see if they dare to say that to your face? I can help to video record it for you.

inb4 a wild negative remark appears based on my reply.

ask her to fork some money out instead of relying on you

Funny thing is since Air Asia give the cheap tickets to certain destination on certain time period, almost all my FB friend is going to the same destination on the same date lol

While you spend for weed

no thx

I love my gf very much

LOL I know right! when it comes to facts, they have none, so the name-calling begins. What to do, for some people, reality si not something they can or want to deal with.

yes, young girls nowadays think with their bub n puss je. ikut suka je x kesah other factor. i got a best friend wit immature girlfie. oh god i hate the girlfie so much because of her my friend started to abandon our groups of close friend, ffk us, going travel to a place in advanced while knowing we are planning to go there in a group in future and etc etc.
a beta male he is.

Ouch

travel is ok as long as not too often and budget friendly

sometimes you work office environment damn bosan wan go look see other place makan angin ma

that's why they escape to online.
While you continue to do what makes your real life fulfilled, pay bills, be financial independent, go where you want, maybe post some useful comments, handle immature comments once a while etc.

am waiting for someone to say that i say all of these to appear submissive and to get girls

So, did you manage to get girls?

lol gaduh in this tread > ts case

Your company so lousy?
Nvr give bonus?

because they feel insecure. they want to show off to the people that they don't like that they can also travel to bangkok and singapore (or apple picking in Australia).

hahahaha no need lah. already got a wonderful partner irl.

that's the whole issue here. a lot of oxygen is required to keep the boob cells alive and it's depriving her brains.

Hahahahah don't la say my girl till she stupid. Ngaiti

This year very had economy man. My clinic not doing great.

Well, I don't think you want more ppl to fall sick right?
Oh wait. Typhoid disease.

Oh well no harm taking some R&R

calm down.. see it as a break for yourself as well lo, since 50-50 anyway.. and its a friend's wedding, not tiba2 one..

Yeah thanks buddy. Oh well at least my fsm still all green. That's good.

fukken loled.