betul3!

Old time people happy and celebrated to grant happiness to the bride and brideroom.

Old time people want to give angpow and they honest want to give angpow.

Now its like it is everybody responsible to pay the angpow and force to do that if not got shame.

No wonder many amoi nowaday got pregnant and some of it got anal at UTAR. Now many ahboy dont want to get marry and they want to have fun only.

Why dont the ceremony be like old time and blessing.

This post has been edited by grinders: Oct 15 2015, 06:35 PM

Just give what you think is good enough. If they complain, better, next time they will not invite you .

It's courtesy to help the bridal financially as it is expensive to belanja whole kampung.
You dont know cause you still single, but ask your parent how they puke blood to get the dinner in place lar, try imagine all come empty handed and you'll never smile again.

No prob. Just invite them over.

I'm sure you can fork out RM180, right?

Kennot brain. 1st he told me I cant comment because "chinese tradition". Then he just admit this is started from the 90's.

I jammed already.

The point of this kind of rant is simple:

Dont make a wedding dinner with expectation that your guest will pay off your expense.

That is ridiculous. They are not only your guest, but your loving friend and family. If they want to give basket of potatoes, just accept it. Dont put value on gift. If you put value, then it is not gift, it is considered payment. Who the fark want to pay to attend a wedding dinner that is basically is about you gloating that you now have a steady pusseh??

Then dont do it big lar.

Ukur baju di badan sendiri.

If cant afford, do small/medium. If can afford, defuq u want to squeeze other people money?

Wow they better then fellow Malaysian chinese.

Here still like cavemen force people need to pay big angpow.

Malaysian too much tongkat. Ceremony also want tongkat and lazy.

This post has been edited by grinders: Oct 15 2015, 06:39 PM

Just give RM50 and dont go.

last time got one fella ajak me go wedding even though i dun know him tat well, summore dare to indirectly tell us minimum rm150...bugimak, i ffk his wedding

If do like this. Many will come and happy to celebrate the wedding.

This post has been edited by grinders: Oct 15 2015, 06:41 PM

i agree, whole heatedly and i find these weddings are silly endeavors, but then i might be branded as un-chinese

its hard to argue with him for a reason, hahahaha, a small search on his name will bring you some entertaining results

thats why he sounded sooooooo familiar

Lets put it this way.


Tak suka/ tak sokong/ tak setuju, dont come.

Nobody is forcing you.


Why you butthurt? Cainis dont eat for free. Dont if you are not cainis. By all means . Go ahead.

whats the problem here who trolling around go report this post? lol

really? google like this https://www.google.com/search?q=yeo50&biw=1...OCh0yBwEB&dpr=1 ?

low yat search,

lol

That was good in the past

Now getting out of hand with uber expensive hotel

Overseas chinese now already liberal culture toward the force angpow wedding money.

They all live happy cos no more tongkat to get married

They work hard to earn money and let other dont have to pay angpow when come to their wedding.

Meanwhile in Malaysia

Ts be a man.

Go to the wedding. Pay whatever sum you like.

Be a man.

Alright...... thank you for your encouragement