Chinese wedding dinner ang pow, U invite me go y still i need to pay
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 Oct 15 2015, 04:37 PM
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QUOTE(yeo50 @ Oct 15 2015, 04:30 PM) its your choice not to follow. Nobody force you to follow this ang pow tradition. But dont need to rant like TS only. This is what /k/ is for.... for people to rant in here ma... dont u find it fun? when we can analysed majority people thinking and finish on hand project? U cant do this in other places... only in /K/.. this is an awesome place! |
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Oct 15 2015, 04:39 PM
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QUOTE(SaberCortez @ Oct 15 2015, 04:37 PM) My friend wedding, that time we all student, he graduate so invite us for wedding, none of us brought gift or anything, and they layan us like we the king there. But chinese wedding, kanasai so demanding. +1 |
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Oct 15 2015, 04:39 PM
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keyword = foreveralone
rugi only, cannot revenge back... |
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Oct 15 2015, 04:40 PM
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thats why i kahwin punya time i only invite rich ppl come,poor ppl can fark off i dont like see them at all including my close friend,dont make my ceremony saham jatuh..my dinner after pay all bills still got untung rm9k hahaha can use for honeymoon..best decision ever
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Oct 15 2015, 04:41 PM
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QUOTE(jeremy05 @ Oct 15 2015, 04:39 PM) keyword = foreveralone hahaha rugi only, cannot revenge back...  plus those that low profile wed one also rugi  |
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Oct 15 2015, 04:42 PM
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QUOTE(mollymurder @ Oct 15 2015, 04:40 PM) thats why i kahwin punya time i only invite rich ppl come,poor ppl can fark off i dont like see them at all including my close friend,dont make my ceremony saham jatuh..my dinner after pay all bills still got untung rm9k hahaha can use for honeymoon..best decision ever nah nah nah see! got proof dekat sini ! hehehehe! |
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Oct 15 2015, 04:44 PM
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QUOTE(yeo50 @ Oct 15 2015, 04:42 PM) Its also my choice to speak for the chinese tradition. If you dont like to follow its your business,nobody forces you to pay or go. which starts from the 90s |
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Oct 15 2015, 04:44 PM
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QUOTE(yeo50 @ Oct 15 2015, 04:42 PM) Its also my choice to speak for the chinese tradition. If you dont like to follow its your business,nobody forces you to pay or go. A tradition is a guideline not a rule.You can choose to put RM50 in the angpow instead of RM100-RM200 |
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Oct 15 2015, 04:45 PM
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I met some wedding planners from Cantonese speaking part of China, they say at their place they dont take ang pau anymore, or just symbolically open the ang pau to receive the wishes and give back to the guests
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Oct 15 2015, 04:45 PM
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QUOTE(HoneyPink @ Oct 14 2015, 07:12 PM) Received a red bomb! Ur wedding u invite me go makan why i need to pay back in ang pow like i sendiri go makan buffet leh? suppose i go is give u blessing only wat....This is y many people hate going to wedding dinner.sit there like chicken/prostitute makan n go home sleep nothing to do n waste time especially not close punya. Give less than rm70 then komplain..... ang pow suppose is blessing only right..... why must give back atleast min rm100 ? just like paying for my own dinner nia no meaning....still need to sit there until butt kemek.... you can choose not to follow the tradition and appear empty handed. afterall they can't force you do donate mar. last time my friend invited his church mates (20+ tables) all which are non chinese and they really did came empty handed or with small gifts instead of cash.... end up RM30K he have to telan  :x:x |
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Oct 15 2015, 04:46 PM
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QUOTE(s3iryu @ Oct 15 2015, 04:45 PM) I met some wedding planners from Cantonese speaking part of China, they say at their place they dont take ang pau anymore, or just symbolically open the ang pau to receive the wishes and give back to the guests thank you for sharing!  |
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Oct 15 2015, 04:47 PM
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QUOTE(yeo50 @ Oct 15 2015, 04:45 PM) because tradition has no time frame lol, then everyone is following a tradition one way or another |
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Oct 15 2015, 04:49 PM
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QUOTE(Bonchi @ Oct 15 2015, 04:45 PM) you can choose not to follow the tradition and appear empty handed. afterall they can't force you do donate mar. yeah since is not a must follow me consider rm50 or empty handed saja last time my friend invited his church mates (20+ tables) all which are non chinese and they really did came empty handed or with small gifts instead of cash.... end up RM30K he have to telan :x:x and then when people cucuk belakang i just say u so poor then dont held wedding dinner la... u didnt say ask me sponsor also. shoot it on the face! |
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Oct 15 2015, 04:51 PM
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QUOTE(HoneyPink @ Oct 15 2015, 04:46 PM) thank you for sharing! And God those ppl can really drink, 2 person drink 2 towers of beer, then come another 1 add 1 more tower |
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Oct 15 2015, 04:53 PM
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QUOTE(s3iryu @ Oct 15 2015, 04:51 PM) And God those ppl can really drink, 2 person drink 2 towers of beer, then come another 1 add 1 more tower wahhhhhh, drink beer like drink water no drunk? |
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Oct 15 2015, 05:02 PM
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QUOTE(HoneyPink @ Oct 15 2015, 04:53 PM) wahhhhhh, drink beer like drink water no drunk? beer is water .... to cantonese (ayam one) last relative wedding we had 40 tables and 20X50L kegs of beer... all vanished so things to note when you're inviting alot of cantonese. This post has been edited by Bonchi: Oct 15 2015, 05:02 PM |
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Oct 15 2015, 05:03 PM
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Bugima my fren ask me to go to his wed n pay atleast 150. 150x500= 75000. Wadefarkkk
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Oct 15 2015, 05:08 PM
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QUOTE(yeo50 @ Oct 15 2015, 06:04 PM) haha chinese always business minded. wan untung ma. If not how to be so successful and rich. Then when people pay lower amount, they complain.. hahahaha.. kek logic, like that better don't invite liao. |
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Oct 15 2015, 05:08 PM
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QUOTE(hellkvr @ Oct 15 2015, 05:03 PM) Bugima my fren ask me to go to his wed n pay atleast 150. 150x500= 75000. Wadefarkkk this is what people called taking advantage on other people. Karma will hit back triple |
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Oct 15 2015, 05:10 PM
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It start as a tongkat ,now everybody want tongkat and abuse it.
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