Pity for the organizer cos not allowed poor relative to come and enjoy the wedding.

What the ceremony for if unfortunate relative cant come. If want to come they need to pay money.

The organizer not honest and want to make money out of other.

The origin culture give angpow and the amount can be less or more but now it is force to give big angpow. Poor relative give less angpow the organizer will make fun of it.

Sound like a "tongkat" .

I dont think the origin of this culture people give angpow to pay the bride wedding.

They no hardwork until cant afford and force people to pay money.


The name angpow also have nothing to do to pay the dinner?

It start as a tongkat ,now everybody want tongkat and abuse it.

Old time people happy and celebrated to grant happiness to the bride and brideroom.

Old time people want to give angpow and they honest want to give angpow.

Now its like it is everybody responsible to pay the angpow and force to do that if not got shame.

No wonder many amoi nowaday got pregnant and some of it got anal at UTAR. Now many ahboy dont want to get marry and they want to have fun only.

Why dont the ceremony be like old time and blessing.

This post has been edited by grinders: Oct 15 2015, 06:35 PM

Wow they better then fellow Malaysian chinese.

Here still like cavemen force people need to pay big angpow.

Malaysian too much tongkat. Ceremony also want tongkat and lazy.

This post has been edited by grinders: Oct 15 2015, 06:39 PM

If do like this. Many will come and happy to celebrate the wedding.

This post has been edited by grinders: Oct 15 2015, 06:41 PM

Overseas chinese now already liberal culture toward the force angpow wedding money.

They all live happy cos no more tongkat to get married

They work hard to earn money and let other dont have to pay angpow when come to their wedding.

Meanwhile in Malaysia

Your generation will be the new pioneer of happy and intelligence generation.

Many will follow this because it give good positive to the society.

This post has been edited by grinders: Oct 15 2015, 08:29 PM

Do you know that Many Malay wedding now. The Guest no need to bring angpow. If want to bring ok and if one come without angpow also ok.

You come , eat , enjoy the ceremony and pray them good life then you come home.

I ask my friend last time why he dont ask money when visitors come and this is before the wedding.

He replied that he want people to come and share the happinnes he and his family got.

My relative heard that. They easily give angpow of rm1k when the day of ceremony and wish them all family happiness.

Because he dont ask for angpow many want to give him angpow generously. All the money they got from angpow they donate it to the new build masjid in progress nearby and orphanage house.

We happy, they happy and community also happy because he donate large sum of money to build the masjid project nearby.

This post has been edited by grinders: Oct 15 2015, 08:50 PM