QUOTE(HoneyPink @ Oct 15 2015, 03:25 PM)
la aq g kenduri org lain aq bagi hadiah xda la nk bagi duit semata2. ni cina punya psl, xbagi duit komplain, bagi duit kurang komplain gak.. yampah x ko rasa? nak bagi hdiah dieorg xsuka, nak duit gak... aq ngah ckp psl tradisi cina ni suka je kt duit. psl kawen pn duit2 je... aq xcaya 100taon lepas mmg semua bagi duit je g kenduri...org sekrg ni mmg materialistic gile...
Aku rasa Yeo50 tak nampak point ko.
Wedding gift should be a sincerity, like a donation. You give because you want to, not because you are obliged to.
So, even u give RM5, those just married couple should take it with a smile, because it is still blessing from your friend.
But No. It is now capitalist. Under RM100 is poor fags. If give RM 50, mean no face. Apa lanjiao? I more like the example previous ktard has explained:
"Some old and rich people, when attend their friend's doter or son wedding, will give cheap angpow. No because he is stingy or cheapskate, but as a respect to his friend wealth. Only poor people will beg for more money."