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> Chinese wedding dinner ang pow, U invite me go y still i need to pay

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post Oct 15 2015, 02:51 PM

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Trend to earn money for their grand marriage and honeymoon?

Supposedly those people that invite his/her relatives, friends and colleagues shouldn't expect money from them.
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post Oct 15 2015, 03:04 PM

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QUOTE(kennykong85 @ Oct 15 2015, 10:02 AM)
ts butthurt, dont get marry in the future, coz karma will hunt u down, then by that time i bet some1 will be complainin on angpao not enouf la, this n that la.
solution:
1. ppl invite, if u dun wanna pay, dun go. if ppl ask y angpao so thin, slap them, problem fix.
2. dont get marrid, coz u dont need to invite so many ppl and look at their black face like prostitute selection.
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dont know need to say how many times... all butthurt than me.... i marry sign church go honeymoon liao.. i wont have karma cos i didnt burden my friends with wedding dinner and need them to fund it for me. the only karma is those that i have gave them they have karma muahahahhaa!
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post Oct 15 2015, 03:07 PM

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QUOTE(yeo50 @ Oct 15 2015, 01:56 PM)
Its not only the poor will ask for angpow but its the chinese tradition to give ang pow for wedding.  doh.gif  If you are poor then just dont go for the wedding. Nobody will force you on your throat to pay the FK ing Rm100. If the bride is your bestie, you wont even rant at the 1st place because Rm100 is nothing and just a respect and making each other happy.
Btw not that you dont need a super rich friend, but your attitude and personality wont even give you any chance to have one.
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then i bet u are not living in bandar utama area thumbup.gif this is why i dont wanna be ur friend tongue.gif Meaning u dont know any so called rich people at all.... pity u lar only can dream....
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post Oct 15 2015, 03:08 PM

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QUOTE(Joey Christensen @ Oct 15 2015, 01:51 PM)
You give RM70, better don't go. Memalukan diri sendiri.
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LOL this is y K tard earn 20k per month everyone knows hehehe! laugh.gif
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post Oct 15 2015, 03:09 PM

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QUOTE(dvinez @ Oct 15 2015, 09:58 AM)
meh dont want give just dont go la

i mostly oso no go, but those i go minimum RM500

not about money, it is appreciation and i am sure they wont die if they dont get yours
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ya bride get 11 ji mui la if i dont go. easy as tat... i already married still ask me go ji mui so weird........ FKing weird..... meaning she dont have other friend liao la obviously.... thats why need me go ji mui....
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QUOTE(akecema @ Oct 15 2015, 02:44 PM)
logic:

we no money. so lets make wedding at 6 star hotel then friend, close relative will 'paid' all expense
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This is certainly a wrong mindset... too bad it had become so common
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post Oct 15 2015, 03:16 PM

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post Oct 15 2015, 03:16 PM

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QUOTE(yeo50 @ Oct 15 2015, 03:12 PM)
kiddo, you think only rich people in bandar utama? I dont even want a useless friend who only know how to rant like you. doh.gif
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aiya majority ma, nah materialistic mindset like u i dont think u have many friends lor or either all same like u single mingle.... whistling.gif whistling.gif thats why u dont feel the pinch... one year almost 6times red bomb i see how happy are u...
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post Oct 15 2015, 03:17 PM

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QUOTE(HoneyPink @ Oct 15 2015, 03:09 PM)
ya bride get 11 ji mui la if i dont go. easy as tat... i already married still ask me go ji mui so weird........ FKing weird..... meaning she dont have other friend liao la obviously.... thats why need me go ji mui....
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seriously dont want to go just reject, just solve your own problem and she will solve her own problem

QUOTE(yeo50 @ Oct 15 2015, 03:14 PM)
lol, sendiri talk sendiri syiok. That is only your side of story. if given a chance to your bride friend to comment, sure another story. Useless kiddo married adi still brain like this.
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later no call u say bo jio look down me
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post Oct 15 2015, 03:18 PM

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QUOTE(yeo50 @ Oct 15 2015, 03:14 PM)
lol, sendiri talk sendiri syiok. That is only your side of story. if given a chance to your bride friend to comment, sure another story. Useless kiddo married adi still brain like this.
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lol i no need syok.... better than u dont have chance whistling.gif whistling.gif u give chance to her also no use, she is not pretty land whale. sure later u bodek me back.
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post Oct 15 2015, 03:20 PM

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QUOTE(dvinez @ Oct 15 2015, 03:17 PM)
seriously dont want to go just reject, just solve your own problem and she will solve her own problem
later no call u say bo jio look down me
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no body wanna look down at me, she say please so its hard. but the thing here is not about me lor. is about chinese wedding dinner mindset. chinese wedding dinner mindset is to ask people fund for their wedding.
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post Oct 15 2015, 03:21 PM

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Lain kali datang Malay wedding jer. Nak bagi sepuloh ringgit, bagi. Tak nak bagi, datang makan ajer. Lepas makan, nak balik ker, nak bergambar ker, nak borak ker, suka hati ko lar. Nak karaoke pon boleh.
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post Oct 15 2015, 03:22 PM

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QUOTE(yeo50 @ Oct 15 2015, 03:19 PM)
all just sendiri talk sendiri syiok from TS. Ask her bride friend come and comment sure another story. By the way if its good friend, Rm100 also cannot afford and poorfag like that her friend also should understand. But having a friend like her that only know how to rant here and there is hopeless..
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u can afford but doesnt mean u need to simply spend money ..... haiz..... can see youngster brain wanna showoff nia.... kesian....
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post Oct 15 2015, 03:25 PM

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QUOTE(yugimudo @ Oct 15 2015, 03:21 PM)
Lain kali datang Malay wedding jer. Nak bagi sepuloh ringgit, bagi. Tak nak bagi, datang makan ajer. Lepas makan, nak balik ker, nak bergambar ker, nak borak ker, suka hati ko lar. Nak karaoke pon boleh.
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la aq g kenduri org lain aq bagi hadiah xda la nk bagi duit semata2. ni cina punya psl, xbagi duit komplain, bagi duit kurang komplain gak.. yampah x ko rasa? nak bagi hdiah dieorg xsuka, nak duit gak... aq ngah ckp psl tradisi cina ni suka je kt duit. psl kawen pn duit2 je... aq xcaya 100taon lepas mmg semua bagi duit je g kenduri...org sekrg ni mmg materialistic gile...

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post Oct 15 2015, 03:30 PM

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QUOTE(yeo50 @ Oct 15 2015, 03:27 PM)
Even paying Rm100 for best friend or relative for wedding angpow is kind of show off? Seriously its wasting my time to reply a kiddo and poorfag like you. Bye!
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ya i poorfag, when ask u show current asset sure like kiddi only have masak2 sebiji dua and korek lubang to hide, bye bye babies biggrin.gif
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QUOTE(HoneyPink @ Oct 15 2015, 03:25 PM)
la aq g kenduri org lain aq bagi hadiah xda la nk bagi duit semata2. ni cina punya psl, xbagi duit komplain, bagi duit kurang komplain gak.. yampah x ko rasa?  nak bagi hdiah dieorg xsuka, nak duit gak... aq ngah ckp psl tradisi cina ni suka je kt duit. psl kawen pn duit2 je... aq xcaya 100taon lepas mmg semua bagi duit je g kenduri...org sekrg ni mmg materialistic gile...
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Aku rasa Yeo50 tak nampak point ko.

Wedding gift should be a sincerity, like a donation. You give because you want to, not because you are obliged to.

So, even u give RM5, those just married couple should take it with a smile, because it is still blessing from your friend.




But No. It is now capitalist. Under RM100 is poor fags. If give RM 50, mean no face. Apa lanjiao? I more like the example previous ktard has explained:

"Some old and rich people, when attend their friend's doter or son wedding, will give cheap angpow. No because he is stingy or cheapskate, but as a respect to his friend wealth. Only poor people will beg for more money."
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post Oct 15 2015, 03:38 PM

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QUOTE(HoneyPink @ Oct 14 2015, 07:12 PM)
Received a red bomb! Ur wedding u invite me go makan why i need to pay back in ang pow like i sendiri go makan buffet leh? suppose i go is give u blessing only wat....This is y many people hate going to wedding dinner.sit there like chicken/prostitute makan n go home sleep nothing to do n waste time especially not close punya. Give less than rm70 then komplain..... ang pow suppose is blessing only right..... why must give back atleast min rm100 ? just like paying for my own dinner nia no meaning....still need to sit there until butt kemek....
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Err. Does anyone force you to pay or complain you pay very less on that day? You can always choose not to pay tho.
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post Oct 15 2015, 03:48 PM

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QUOTE(yugimudo @ Oct 15 2015, 03:35 PM)
Aku rasa Yeo50 tak nampak point ko.

Wedding gift should be a sincerity, like a donation. You give because you want to, not because you are obliged to.

So, even u give RM5, those just married couple should take it with a smile, because it is still blessing from your friend.
But No. It is now capitalist. Under RM100 is poor fags. If give RM 50, mean no face. Apa lanjiao? I more like the example previous ktard has explained:

"Some old and rich people, when attend their friend's doter or son wedding, will give cheap angpow. No because he is stingy or cheapskate, but as a respect to his friend wealth. Only poor people will beg for more money."
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yes.... very true.... we can say that Yeo50 judge a book by its cover. see people wear casual with selipar, in his brain automatic i dont wanna friend this poor fag no money buy nice clothes wear like pencuri saja. this type of people belum masak lagi, still very green...

By the way what i wanna tell is just why chinese tradition change until so materialistic, last time people are not limited to angpow only. last time people bring sausages or chinese lat mei to congrat and blessed the newly wed. nowaday kasi angpow kurang kena maki or like ktard say within seconds jimui hengdai already spread thru whatsapp saying neh neh this fellow give rm30 nia later those leafover vege all throw away dont give them bawak balik.
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post Oct 15 2015, 03:49 PM

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QUOTE(yeo50 @ Oct 15 2015, 03:42 PM)
The whole /k who read your post knew it and hence just shudap b&tc$h! A disgrace to have a friend like you who being so cheapskate and sendiri talk sendiri syiok.  doh.gif
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post Oct 15 2015, 03:53 PM

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QUOTE(esdome @ Oct 15 2015, 03:38 PM)
Err. Does anyone force you to pay or complain you pay very less on that day? You can always choose not to pay tho.
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to prevent unnecessary argument from people all around the dinner, i pay also la up to typical chinese rate. just tat cant accept they say no gift, only money. u know how that feel? is like what?! so materialistic one why?

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