meh dont want give just dont go la

i mostly oso no go, but those i go minimum RM500

not about money, it is appreciation and i am sure they wont die if they dont get yours

ts toking like ppl need his angpow
some might be that kind, but i very certain it is not all

my case 2-3 of my relative angpow enough to cover all already
end up if dont want pay just dont go, problem lies in ownself

angpow is not a gift, can only be considered as a loan
they will give u back later, and for calculative person, you actually earn double if you are single when they invited you

so harsh lol
but i kenal some that give rm50, then later complaint ppl cheapskate gave only rm50 back on his wedding

seriously dont want to go just reject, just solve your own problem and she will solve her own problem

later no call u say bo jio look down me

they dont want gift then dont give lo, since u already asked. next time just gift no need to ask.

actually rm100 no big deal la, go out supper rm30-50 oso fly already
sometime they may not meant what you think though, if you wanna give me an oven i rather you give me empty red packet


i have a lot of acquaintance but i dont join them for other activity other than necessary one
i only attend and entertain my best friend, other tak layan, only layan those i think it is worth
no face given even my wife side relatives which frequently hold activities for angpow and act rich

most also like this

1. they note down to return it at your wedding
2. need to keep all the collected moneh in safe place
3. calculate and pay/topup for the dinner in limited time


those dono probably haven kawin

yea no one say must go, just give an excuse even if it is a lame excuse

if wedding only already headache, will have more headache to come
Eg:baby born, full month, birthday, anniversary, house warming

still the decision to go or not to go, to give or not to give, is on your own so dont blame other

i have no normal friend, i have only acquaintance and best friend

it seems that you are very reluctant to reject the offer, worry about no face problem? if that is the case you and her = same same.

gift melei colleague RM100 damn happy dia

actually no need to argue, end of day if you not willing to give just dont give
if you give because of face problem, then have to blame yourself not the one invited

you got choices, and you decided it
1. reject invitation 2. give amount you willing to 3. follow rate 4. give nothing

girls usually transform that day lol, more power than transformer/supersaiyan

next time not close friend just reject la, unless you think they are worth your blessing
going to these kind of occasions is wasting time in my opinion, i prefer to sleep at home
those "normal friend" if you got trouble most of them wont help you oso

imagine if you want to pinjam RM10K, imagine if he is willing drive you to clinic in case of emergency at 3am, if you think he will then go he is worth
for those i go i am willing to give at much as i can afford, it is a token to show my gratitude toward our friendship or relationship, not about money at all