Ya daytime same. Sometimes just play with him like move his hands and legs/exercise/talk to him, before putting him to sleep. Just try because different baby have different living style. Hope it helps

sometimes is the diapers problem too

my girl who is now 6 months used to cry often...

then i observe n c is cuz of diapers.

if i use drypers brand, she will cry when she pee...is like she don't feel comfortable with the wetness around her butt..

but after i change to merries, (si beh exp 1) she no more crying for ntg d...only will cry when she needs to carry and hungry only..

my mom used to tell me to keep the baby up till atleast 11pm...then he will sleep thru the night....

Yeah same goes here.. I noticed my baby cries when his diaper is full.. and when i opened his diaper, he start to pee right away.. Is like the diaper too full and can't filter anymore of his pee, so he cries..

I'm using huggies ultra for now.. maybe sooner later need to use huggies overnight..

i have a 2 month old daughter and her crying at night is inconsistent. so yeah i would assume it is either hungry, need a diaper changer or uncomfortable - wind, bored, too tired etc.

but more interested in the self sleep. now, wife and i would need to carry and rock our baby to sleep. when we put her in her cot, its a 50-50 chance of waking up. before we wanted to let her be and cry to sleep. but our doc suggests not to practice this as baby can suffocate if they cry too long.

so, hmm. my question is how best do we train our baby to self sleep?

My 3 months old daughter is starting to fight sleep at night (from 12am - 7am)....we feed her, cuddle her, rub yu yee oil on her stomach, sing lullaby, give her pacifier, whatever other advice as well but nothing seems to keep her asleep for more than 10 minutes each time. Sometimes she will just cry suddenly waking up and sometimes the pacifier will work and other time it does not.

For the past few weeks, she will only go into deep sleep by around 4-5am but recently that has changed to 7am which means it is now getting harder for her to fall asleep at night. We can leave her on the bed to play by herself for a while but it will turn into a cry for help (i think she wants to sleep but struggle) Both mommy and myself are really exhausted both mentally and physically as this has been going on for weeks now. Any advice from experts out there or where can we find professional consultation here in Malaysia?


Thanks everyone
*Desperate to find a solution*

its normal. u do everything, anything also cannot make the baby stop crying.

u just have to accept that this is a phase that you, your partner, and the baby is going thru.
but do remember, there is light at the end of the tunnel.
it will get better.
good luck and hang in there.

also, have u heard about "The Wonder Weeks" ?

They made a study on thousands of babies, and strange enough, all of the babies goes thru the same "fussy, crying phase" at the SAME age/week.
they calculate the week by the baby's due date, not birth date.
they also teach u how to deal with each phase.

go and research about it. its the only paid app i have in my phone.
its amazingly correct with my baby.

u can also find info online about it.

I think she at the age where this is normal. If she have problem sleeping you can consider make her more tired during the day then at night will be easier to fall asleep. As the baby gets bigger sometime must adjust sleeping pattern. Hope you can find solution for this

sometimes baby cant sleep at night & become boring nobody layan them...so they cry for attention...

The app name is called 'The Wonder Weeks vs 9' am I right?

Dont simply say stupid la..

Wait till u have ur own baby that will keep u up all nite.. All week.. All month long..

U'll desperately try to grasp anything that can make them stop crying or screaming.

sorry didnt really go online lately.

im not sure, but the app name in my phone and app store is just " The Wonder Weeks "

its for iphone.
if for android maybe similar name.

totally agree with this.
people who never have babies before don't understand the "joys" of having a baby, especially at night....

thanks thanks! will download this to try later!