My downfall is I forget to put God at the center and I tend to idolize marriage...

People tell me that we shouldn't look to marriage to solve our problems, because marriage is the beginning of our problems, couples have to solve their differences. They tell me to get my life right with God first before i think of such things.

The guy went rebel and self nominate himself as leader.

hahaha so desperate.

U know what he told Luffy?
can you believe this? Aiyo this is like power struggle.

I mean yeah, but in a way I also feel.....sad it had to happen like that. de1929 has been with us for a long time.

I'm still trying to understand what went through the thick head of his that he had to react like this.

It doesn't make any sense to me, before this he was quite neutral and okay.

I need all of your opinions. Talking about Dee.

I'm very inclined to follow this below.

Romans 16:17
I urge you, brothers and sisters, to watch out for those who cause divisions and put obstacles in your way that are contrary to the teaching you have learned. Keep away from them.

Matthew 18:17
If they still refuse to listen, tell it to the church; and if they refuse to listen even to the church, treat them as you would a pagan or a tax collector.
And yet I also struggle in my heart to show him Grace, as our Heavenly Father showed us Grace.
With the hope that he'll repent.

He seem stubborn and adamant when He said the few things are not negotiable.

1. Bible & Context is not important.
2. If the HS tells Him to "sin" like Bribe or Kill, He will still consider it.

Now we all know this is cult like, it's not in the Bible. If anyone can say Bible is not important, then we have lost all base for reference as to what is right and wrong?

In short, you guys want to "excommunicate" him? 
I stand with all your decisions. 2 Days of opinions then we decide.

Cool down Bro,
that is why I brought up

Romans 16:17.
In a way it's to excommunicate him.

This is the principal to follow when you have such people causing problem for the Church.
We are a body of Christ after all, living stones of a small Church.

We tried to advise him in vain, after countless time, he's still a block head.
I've also tried to give him chance but seem to lagi "sombong". So be it!

EXCOMMUNICATE!

Wasn't even an argument. Was just highlighting shifts in culture. Anyway noted the unwelcome message, seems like there can be a claim to thread ownership and participation. 

Better ask Ah Pek.

unknown warrior

I was just telling my story regarding my first hand experience of "Chinese custom" at my grandma house during CNY.

I apologized to my Christian brothers and sisters for my culture shock. hehe..

You mean like this?

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Yeah, it was from my sharing that the dude suddenly talk about it.

Easy.

Just type



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then type another one.



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Normally in this situation.

Have to be extremely tactful Tina, not wise to be too pushy when sharing the gospel.

There's always this wall of resistance caused by the enemy.
Need to pray for God to break open every form of resistance.

the Rule of the thumb is to understand that it is the Holy Spirit that testify and convict to the heart of Man.
We can only share the message.

So no point really going Rambo, doing this.

If that is so, then why after confessing sin to God through Jesus, I still feel guilty?

Today I'm making cendol and jelly. I called it "Jellydol."

haha bro,

Completely remove every trace including from your diary then I believe your healing can begin.
It is wrong because because you've turned into a form of idolatry. Bondage in the sense it enslave over you.
This is not normal bro, the way you talk, really shows until you let go, you're not going to move on.

King David's first child died as the result of his sin of lust with Bathsheba. She already belongs to Uriah in marriage.
He coveted after her and kill her husband by sending to frontline of the war.

Think for a moment. This is King's David very first child.
I'm sure you know in every culture the first born child is always the most cherished and treasured and loved.
King David had to learn to let go then only God gave him someone much better, Solomon. If he didn't accept the reality, it would have delayed the birth of solomon.

Oh yes, King David was in sort of denial of letting go because he fasted pleading that the Lord would spared his first and only son.
He said this:

2 Samuel 12:23 - But now that he is dead, why should I go on fasting? Can I bring him back again? I will go to him, but he will not return to me."
See, King David accepted the fact in that bold statement. You have to accept it too.

Keeping traces even in your diary is just opportunity for the Enemy to hound you.
I think this could be as bad as spiritual bondage with Idols where you need to renounce it completely. Just my opinion.

Yes you are right...i found out that my ex is a bit materialistic. Maybe the Holy Spirit revealed that to me. When i suggested we go fly on a trip to a western country, i blurted out share cost 70/30...she wasn't happy with that...she say i should pay 100%...it was expensive due to exchange rate. She waited until break up day...to call me Mr Calculative and say we are unsuitable. Sigh, love nowadyas. Even among christians...$$$ still rules.

I tell you its not the first time i face this...as guy...you need to provide 100%...girl is not gonna help ya...christians also think like this.

While I agree with the part of "No sex before marriage", I however, don't agree that sexual abstinence a realistic options nowadays.

It is still possible IF you are educated since young and it helps if you are raised as a Christian.

Not all can follow this rule you know.

Really, who told you that "break up is hard if you get involved sexually?"

Break up is always hard if one still linger on the memory of one's former lover.
You are old school. Surely not 100%..Around 80% is more realistic right?

How many young married couple that can own properties and cars nowadays?

I think both need to service the loans right?

Unless you are born rich.
Well, its between me and God then.

Now seriously how would they know? Do they use lie detector on you?

Sifu Yaokb,

Yes this was probably the answer i was looking for.

I just dunno how to put it into words.

Hey guys, please pray for my church member, he has just been admitted into ICU. He was stabbed and robbed outside his house this morning.