Don't understand why you call those comments and questions as "attack". I thought every thread is meant for discussions ? I hope the rules can be clearer.

Bro De1929,

Can I request that you don't enforce what God has done for your level of Faith to people who can't accept it at the moment?
And
Bro Luffy,

Can I request that you don't be too hard on De1929.
Can I request both of you to just shake hand and agree to disagree?
For the fellowship sake?

If you welcome him here, don't say I didn't warn you. You don't know who He is but I know that trouble maker.

Why don't you just check his history first? This guy has an unreasonable hatred for Christians.

De1929, there are something it's better for you to listen.

This fellowship will turn into another RWI arguing for the sake of arguing.

It will be a waste of time and turn into bad testimony.

This is not the purpose for our fellowship thread. And you are frankly very stubborn headed.

hi all, i know this is a sin, but i cant help feeling this way.

this is probably not the right place to post, but i need to get this off my chest. i dont think im a bad guy n when im in my right of mind i would never think of harming or wishing ill towards others. in fact if and when some misunderstanding or whatever comes up that causes a breakdown in relationship between someone n me, im usually the first to concede and apologize even when the other side is mainly to blame.

but every once in a while ppl deliberately harm me in some way and i lose hope in humanity n become cynical. on the surface i appear normal n unfazed, but deep down i want nothing more than to inflict intense agony upon them and anyone they care about. i wish for bad things to happen to them and even imagine scenarios where they are in great need and i'm the only whos capable of helping, but i dont. instead i just stand there watching, smirking as they slowly drain away..

i know many others probably feel or have felt this way as well; its probably human nature, but no one seems to want to talk about it seriously. i know im sinning, but i cant help but feel the way i do... i start asking myself things like why God doesnt do anything, why he prefers to play the role of the silent observer when things are going to poop, why he doesnt just zap these ppl into oblivion because i know i definitely would and the world would be a better place.

the bible says to forgive, but i find that i have a hard time forgiving these ppl. especially when its something big. sure on the surface ill normalize relations and be friendly, but deep down i still wish them ill. sometimes its not just the actions, its the way they did it, the look in their eye when they did it. their eyes, it conveyed the message like they knew what there were doing was wrong n the pain they would cause, but no sht was given.

then im left mentally hurt while they walk away and forget about the whole thing only come back sometime in the future with the intention of reconciling as if nothing happened or it was something very minor to be swept under the rug and wish for things to go back to the way they were? in these times, i cant help but feel that they are doing this because it is in their advantage to do so and as a result i hate them even more. like theyve taken out massive debt, spent it all, defaulted and a couple years later go back as if nothing happened. but i digressed and having ranted long enough, will stop here.

Dafuq. I'm starting to think their your teachings are going off track and not us.

Before pointing to proverbs for proof that only the strong survive, here's what the New Testament say about strength.
Matthew 5:5 Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth.
2 Corinthians 12:9-10: But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me.  That is why, for Christ's sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.
Nowhere does it say that only the strong will survive
In fact is says the exact opposite. God protects the weak. Only the weak can be transformed by God

Because if the person is 'strong', he's not submissive.
Those who are truly 'strong' of faith are very humble people. Humble people don't force others. Humble people don't aggro people like how you're doing now.

Humble people do not call others names and snark
The moment you start bragging that YOU run the standards, you are applying human standards against God.
That is not true strength.
As TS I kindly ask you to go out, take a walk and stop jeering all of us as weak compared to you. Fellowship doesn't mean we're doormats.
I do NOT want to see another snarky comment from you. Not against me, not against my BF, not against anyone else in this thread. 

proven i'm right, now that sophiera already reached her limit

Ya, maybe need some time and event to 'wake' up another person to see the blind spot.

Last time, my leader rebuked me kaw-kaw and yet I still can't see my pride until for many times only realize 'oh, that's pride'. I keep justifying my wrong doing that time.

what are you trying to prove? why are you recommending these mega churches?

does smaller church does not welcome newcomers? i wondering where you get the idea from? Jesus said i am the way the truth and the life and He also said Go and preach to the world of the Good News, preaching to them in the name of The Father, The Son and The Holy Spirit.

if small church does not welcome new members how would they grows?

I don't think I need to say anymore. The post kena report liao.
So folks, I'd like to point to a link
http://carm.org/signs-practices-of-a-cult

There is a very fine line between standing for your beliefs and condemning everyone who don't agree with you. The latter is what we call cult behaviour
I don't necessarily agree with Pehkay's theology. But do badger him every post and try to change him in public? No.

Do I rub his personal life in his face as proof of his failure? No.
But Dee had provoked every single person on this forum. Both on a theological and personal basis. Apparently doing wrong in the name of God justify the means.
This is what drives even our fellow brothers and sisters away from God. If own family also cannot tahan you think unbelievers will?

Time to ignore. Kacau lagi, report.
Oh is this too harsh, one may ask? Here's what the Bible says about people who cari gaduh
I give you Titus 3:10

Titus 3:10-11 New International Version (NIV)

Warn a divisive person once, and then warn them a second time. After that, have nothing to do with them. You may be sure that such people are warped and sinful; they are self-condemned.
Case closed.

You can engage him in RWI but pls not here.

Thank you but I don't want to be engaged in any unreasonable flame war or influence anyone to take sides or trouble the moderators.

I can still voice or questions the same subject matter in other threads or forums. Not just on Christianity but Buddhism and Islam too. The other religions are not afraid to face my questions but why a single member here who is not even the forum owner or moderator ?
I read the rules in the first page,  the rules are put up by the TS which I am not sure if they are valid or not.; not she did not state this thread is ONLY for Christians and no one is allowed to ask questions.

The same unreasonable person here said I am a Christianity hater; how about church members who influence and help their converted ex Buddhist friend to destroy antiques and furniture that contains statue or faces ? Will he consider them as haters ?
I don't like to guess but I think he must be a pastor being afraid of my influence and speaking more  for personal interests.

I don't agree this is a good way to preach a religion.

Give you room to prove what? I don't understand you.
You want to achieve what? Attention? Your Dignity?

If you keep on arguing with everyone, what is the point?
Even If I give you freedom with lots of room, you'll be wasting your time posting when no one wants to listen.

Your Pride is the issue here.

Bro, first of all, you must ask yourself, did he mention anything about worship team?

Why are you talking about something that's not the point of issue?

You're simply tembak and assuming things to discuss for the sake of discussing.

Bro, I think you're going all over the place. You're not focused. I don't know what happened to you but this has to stop.

He mentioned he is a newcomer,  so maybe he wish to give the church a chance and to find out. How could he trust any religion without first checking it out ?
I will not be brainwashed. It can be harmful for some people when they find out later that it's all really placebo effects.
I explained gods and placebo effects in a thread I started in RWI.

I  only read beginning part of wiki. .Actually placebo effects need not be medical. People who make prayers are good examples.
About my thread, what you want to ask, just ask there. No need to read every page.

Adoi De1929,

I think you better stop lah.
The Job of the worship team is to usher in the congregation to worship God.

Prayer is another matter.

You're like mixing up things. Are you going through some sort of stress until dunno which to differentiate?

The focus and worship and the reason for why we are here is our Saviour Jesus Christ.

We are here to encourage one another in the Lord.

So stop your argument with everyone and stop inviting arguments from outside.

Can you or you still refuse and want to go your way?

One of the hardest things to realize or 'see' of ourselves is Pride.

Matthew 7: 3 - Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?

Proverbs 13:10: "Argument only comes by pride, but wisdom is with those who take advice."

http://www.wordofhisgrace.org/pridebist.htm

You haven't seen doesn't mean I haven't seen.
I (more or less) know what is happening in this forum la bro. I know who is who.

God taking care of us, doesn't mean we go looking or inviting for trouble.

Have you not understood this principal when Jesus was tempted by Satan to throw himself off the cliff?

Haiyo De1929. 

May I ask, why is it that we still have to thank the lord even if he didn't answer out prayers?

Please don't misleading others thanks

May I ask, why is it that we still have to thank the lord even if he didn't answer out prayers?

Looks like this article explained a lot about a person like de1929's character.