hi de, I am afraid reputation has to be earned also
if everyone gives you the same input, you might wanna look into that input. this helps to increase our self-awareness.

...all the losers...

No you really have an issue with your pride.

You're even willing to use God as a leverage to ask people to help you clean your reputation?

How vain can you get? 

It's not the tone but how you express yourself.

To you everyone is wrong, you think you're the only one who is right.
That is why you fight with everyone who doesn't agree with you.
When people advise you, you don't want to accept and ...

...you retaliate by being judgemental.

You asking the HS but you don't have a base principal to rely on.
It shows when you think the HS will even go against his own principal as outlined in the Bible.

You have a baseless principal. When you do this you can use the word "the HS say so" for almost anything just to justify yourself.
It will be up to your whim and fancy. It's no longer about God but about justifying you and whatever you say.

That is pride.

...You have a baseless principal...

Pride is about yourself and alevating yourself.
That was how Satan fell anyway, it was about him trying to elevate above God.

Pride is about yourself and alevating yourself.
YOUR principal works.

and base on what you say above, you seem to hint;
it's no longer about the Bible or God, it's about you.
all about you.

No Satan wanted to be God. That was the problem.

Yesterday and the day before, the whole counsel of friends in here are all in  agreement you are the one who is proud and is in error.

When? About?

I still remember 16 years ago when I am not a disciple, the brother who studied the bible

He: Do you think you are proud or humble?
Me: I don't know. Think half half.
He: No, choose one.
Me: I think I am humble.
He: I think you are the most prideful person in the world. Who got people who is humble say that he is humble.
Me: [more sober] Yeah, true also.

Thinking back, i feel its quite hilarious also. But, on the serious note, actually all of us has our own pride to overcome. Realizing and acknowledge that it first steps. Because this is one area whereby usually other people can see clearer than us. When input comes to us, the response of a (just examples)..

prideful person: No la, we got. I am not like that one. Actually ah bla bla bla....or just counter-attack the other person...you bla bla bla...

humble person: [regardless you think it is true or not...] oh, thanks for pointing that out to me...I didn't realize that i am like this ... i will reflect more on it and pray about it... or [if you think it's true...] oh, thanks for point that out to me...yeah i think you are right...[if you have hurt another person..] sorry if i have offended you in this way...i will work on it...

Then there is this thing i call it 'spiritual pride'. Basically, this group of people, we just proud because they are 'more' spiritual than others and thus looking down on those 'less' spiritual. It is kinda related to being self-righteous. The group of people usually do more , serve more, perhaps leaders in the church. They feel that they are 'higher ranking christian' than many other 'normal' christian.

"I think" - this is also something i learned from a sermon by David Guzik. sometimes, it is better to use "I think" than being overly-confident of your own insights or opinions.

I dig back my old post and maybe this diagram can also help us to be aware and how temptation to be proud is related to our 'success'.

http://www.findingsteve.net/chart_diagram_pride.asp
Roman 12:3 - New International Version
For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought , but rather think of yourself with sober judgment , in accordance with the faith God has distributed to each of you.

Maybe you might want to separate it first.

I know it hurts when input comes to us, but if we take it positively, it actually helps us to be a better person.

Last week, my church bro pull me aside and gave me input too. He told me that i tend to stare at people. It hurts but then I thanks him for bring it out to me. I totally didn't realize I did such thing.

We have organized a xmas party this 25/12. Anyone who is keen can PM ya. 

The "pride" that they refers to is not the mindset but rather your thinking that you are the hero, the strong one among the others. That, we who don't have "God's grace??" are wrong.

Lol ... I think you are confused with the word mindset  ... it's good to have a positive mindset toward the Lord.

Do you see how you always swayed aside things that don't go along with you?

.... did I say that other mindset is wrong? I only states that it's better to have a positive mindset towards God.

My point is that it is NOT about the mindset and its relation to "pride"

Satan thought to himself, He's better than God; or He thinks He knows better than God.
Same thing when I see your attitude boastfully telling me Bible knowledge is not as important but solution is more important.

Bible = Word of God = God Himself.

You're saying God is not important, Solution is more important.

I'm not saying you're Satan but you're falling into the same trap as how Satan fell.

I don't think you understand what is the real meaning of pride. Why don't you just check with the dictionary since you say you're not that good in English.

There are a few more examples of your pride.

1. Explained above
2. You think you're better than tinarhian
3. You think all of us are wrong in the mindset, you're the only who is right
4. Using God as leverage to convince Steve to clear your reputation. (This really takes the cake)

You cannot bring glory to God in pride. There's no such thing as OH it's to God's Glory even if I do it with self centred pride.

Bro, the Bible is the word and the truth of God.
It is our guiding principle to know who God is.

Christianity cannot be based on "whatever".
Even to help poor children or widow rather than to celebrate Christmas, what does the Bible say?

In the Book of Ecclesiastes, it says: There's a time for everything. (Ecclesiastes 3:1), ...There is a proper time and procedure for every matter.... (Ecclesiastes 8:6)

We cannot go in life and simply do things just because there are all kind of needs in this world.

Even When Judas mention this:

“Why wasn't this perfume sold and the money given to the poor? It was worth a year’s wages.

What was Jesus response?

"You will always have the poor among you, but you will not always have me.”
There. Do you think solution is more important than to know the truth?
Do you think Jesus do not know there are hunger, famine, people struck with critical illness, all kind of needs?
Here we have Jesus walking on Earth, This is the perfect time, why didn't he just zap and solve the world problem right away?
God could have done that if He wanted to. Think about it.

Man will always think short term solution, and Man in his pride will always think He is right.

Many people do not know if

They follow God's proper will, the solution will be better. Why? Because it is divine solution.
And how to know his will? The Bible is the foundation.

You just displayed what you are accusing me of ...

Well ... <back to lurking>

De1929 sounds like a crazy pentecostal.

Crazy due to the fanatic and twisted approach. Pretty sure you are a pentecostal.

i think shouldn't link someone with any denomination like pentecostal

totally don't understand what you mean 

Seem like my good intention to help you to see yourself has been seen as attack to you ya. And this is what you 'repay' back me. blaming me. attacking me back.

Alright, I am done with you 

Well whether you are a pentecostal or not, you certainly aren't christ-like which drives people away from Christianity.

De1929, I think by now 99% or maybe 100% of the people in this forum see that you are on the obvious wrong track and continue on that path in spite of much correction n rebuke direct or indirectly. Hopefully you could 'wake up'.

To all, alright maybe we all move on n change next topic please

Pro 27: 5-6
Better is open rebuke than hidden love.

Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses.

or you prefer to hear what you wish to hear?