QUOTE(eaglehelang @ Oct 15 2014, 05:52 PM)
Bro, ideally yes. But in real life, some of us bring our hurts & 'old man' into our Christian life, CG, ministry.
Leader responsibility, yes, a lot. Care for the sheep, pray for them, counsel them, even when they look for leader middle of the night. If some CG members feel left out, leader is supposed to do something to make them feel welcome.
It's just some are not equipped enough to CG leader or were thrust into position(nobody liao they do lor). Or not the right personality to be CG leader, ie not a people person.
CG not social club statement usually refers to CG being gossiping center, which what I find it to be. Hence am guarded in what I share. Talk about general issues, the church, include court case on Allah issue, that one boleh. Personal matter better not, wait Tom, d***, Harry & their friends will know abt it.
Only very close friends share all.
Nope.Leader responsibility, yes, a lot. Care for the sheep, pray for them, counsel them, even when they look for leader middle of the night. If some CG members feel left out, leader is supposed to do something to make them feel welcome.
It's just some are not equipped enough to CG leader or were thrust into position(nobody liao they do lor). Or not the right personality to be CG leader, ie not a people person.
CG not social club statement usually refers to CG being gossiping center, which what I find it to be. Hence am guarded in what I share. Talk about general issues, the church, include court case on Allah issue, that one boleh. Personal matter better not, wait Tom, d***, Harry & their friends will know abt it.
Only very close friends share all.
The fact is that they never had the heart of a shepherd. You do not need to be trained in order to be that.
Oct 15 2014, 06:38 PM

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