So rajin and good..Should be given moderator tag in this thread..

see..see..i said she's a good advisor adi..haha..miyoko malu malu kucing adi..

Gomen..I understand what are you going through as my gf is also very very buzy with her work.Like i said in my previous posts,my gf gets stressed easily and normally,i wont get a replay at all if she's buzy.this can happen for a few days with me not getting any messages or calls or anything.
I also cant take it and in my brain its like 'walao,so buzy till like that meh?'
But eventually,i learned to thing like what you said and dun kacau her.Anyway,you only can advise him about his health and ask him to sleep more unless you're staying with him..I always ask my gf to take lots of water.
Dont worry too much k..Im sure he'll be happy inside to know that you care about him..

wah..good lar..buy him more and maybe he'll ask you to spoon feed him..haha..romantic..

go and find her during lunch hour or when she finishes her work.

Sometimes,when he/she doesnt want or do not have the heart to do something,it's just useless to ask him/she to do it.As in messaging/emailing or calls..

Im sorry to hear that,jdreamer.really do.Try coping up with your daily life and keep on posting here to share everything inside k.I definitely know how much you're going through now but I mysely do not know how to take this if i was in your place now.
Anyway,you take more rest for the day and try to start the day after this like a brand new day.

Best wishes.Move on k.

This post has been edited by max_cjs0101: Sep 15 2006, 01:24 AM

Haih..Problems.Who wants them right?Now,jdreamer,words cant help you much now as its something inside your brain and heart and you misses her a lot.I need to tell you that everytime when you are alone,you'll surely thinnk about her.Its the same if you go for vacation alone or maybe worse coz she's not with you to enjoy the place.The only thing you can try now is not to be alone these days and whenever the memories pops out,you straight away do something to not think about it.You have to do something about it.I know its difficult to forget someone but you just have to try.Dont resort to drugs and stuff coz its foolish.I felt like you before and immediately drank a lot of beer till admitted to hospital and it sucked.Now,by all means,try to keep all her things she gave you and try avoiding thinking bout her k.

Miyoko,i've had more harsh words through my ears before.Not harsh exactly..Painful..I cant help much with words but i can give you words of encouragement.Everyone is buzy with their daily life,work and sorts.And when ppl like us are left alone to fend ourself and not paid much attention to,we feel sad and hurt inside.You need to know that you were a free girl before you met your guy.Jdreamer,you need to know this too.we were once all carefree people with only our friends and family with us and need not special attention from anyone to feel happy inside.I dont know how to put this but i hope you all understand that what im saying is,we have to quit feeling bad and not nice inside when we are left alone.We need to be independant and should try not to let another person cause pain to us.Im sorry if you dun understand coz i dont know how to put it.Anyway,you can find me or pm me and i'll try my best to help and advice..Or even a yamcha session or something to try talking,sharing and saying things out.Miyoko,I hope you dont take it too badly and signs of braking up.

Try to keep it controlled la k..I myself oso very 'fan' now..haih...

Distance..distance...Calm down and think properly k..take more rest oso..

What do you mean?
Its okay la..No nid to move from anywhere also.This is a sub forum of kopitiam and you can post freely.Always remember this,"A girl who leaves a man which only has her in his heart is the biggest loser."Move on k..

I know exacly what you will do and happen..You'll continue to call and sms her till she wont like it and will say you are disturbing.I cant tell you what to do but if i were in your case,i'll give her a long sms saying bout stuff last time and telling how much i love her and stuff.And dun forget to say the world is round.If you can forget me,so do other guys can forget you.

Ask her what you did that made her angry or what?By now,if i were you,i'd be feeling angry but still sad.Ask her whether she really dont have feeling anymore for you and really like the guy.Im following this and i'll try to reply asap.

This post has been edited by max_cjs0101: Sep 16 2006, 01:40 PM

Just message and ask more..Tell her,let's clear everything up without unanswered questions..

Ya..go on..before she suddenly hangs up,straight tell her,let's clear and explain everything before we go different ways.Or maybe meet up with her to talk(i suggest not to coz you'll end up crying and begging) trust me.

Oh..better than you huh?So,the question is how are you feeling at the moment?

But that's plain selfishness and the person who will lose the most will be her.

Ask of course.I know your heart cant stand anymore and wants to seek info and many stuff.You are confused and lonely now.Seek clarification..

I'll be offline from now..Can somebody guide him for the moment being?I'll be online at midnight i think.

This post has been edited by max_cjs0101: Sep 16 2006, 02:12 PM

Jdreamer,im back adi..can ihelp in anything?