May I know what do u guys normally do to.. hmm, boost the relationship when its getting quite quiet for a while ?

Order her a bouquet of flower from bloomings.com?

Hmm, bloomings.. ? Safe or not ?

She's studying, and me too. Both of us are actually still uni students loh.

Birthday, anniversary... all in next year liao. Maybe mooncake festival ? hahahahahx...

hello guys!

Does anyone miss me? I know I know, all of you sure miss me till dead 

Sorry for lost in action for such a looooooooooong time but i am glad that all of you still will drop some message in this thread.

At last, I successfully giving him the "surprise" that I have planned for such a long time for our 100 days anniversary. He was pretty happy to receive them and it caused all of my efforts paid off!

Anyway, just a brief details of the surprise I gave him:-

1) A t-shirt which I think he will look nice wearing it

2) A bottle containing a secret message (100 reasons why I love him <= I think of this for few days  )

3) A souvenir that I bought during my vacation with my friend (to prove that I still think of him even I am enjoying with my friends)

4) A cd with 100 meaningful love songs (I even made the cd cover by myself to make it unique which only both of us having it)  <= This really gave me a headache as I needed to search for 100 love songs that didnt have any negative meanings and not the type of songs which guys are singing for their gfs

5) A decoration (a guy which was awarded as the best and No. 1 in the world) <= To resemble him as the best bf in the world

I know the above might sound silly to some of you here but I think all of the gifts have special meanings in it and I am really glad that he appreciates them.
You can refer to the above for some suggestions or you can also refer to http://www.lovingyou.com for more ideas. They have stated lots of nice ideas for maintaining LDR relationship. Hope that it would help!

Wow, nice. Thats good for u and ur bf. Im glad that u enjoyed ur anniversary. And thanks for the suggestion, I'll go and take a look at the site later..

Posting in uni now.. cough, paiseh to surf it here.

Swinburne University.
1 year.... my LDR's length will be 7 years...... so, u should be grateful thats she's only going there for 1 year. 

She will be going to Japan after 2 years in KL also noh..

I think sometimes being tolerant is a good thing too.

How is that so ?

hmmm....flirtatious? Like to flirt around? All of the girl that i talk with and joke around is just a fren wor....may be sometime i talk too much

Hi all, I need some advices here

So me and my GF are together for a month and I would say our relationship is quite fragile at this point. I wouldn't say we are in LDR because she is in KL and I am in Singapore now. Both of us are studying and my workload is getting heavier as week passes by but I think this shouldn't be an excuse. We do chat in MSN 4-5 days a week, sms everyday and I would call her on the weekend to close our gap. But lately she has been complaining that I am not being caring enough and I agree with what she said.

Is there anything I could do to make her feel cared? I really have no clue in these. I do go back KL once in 3 weeks to meet her. For those who is in LDR can  you share some ideas with me how you keep the close bond with your partner when you don't get to see her/him as often as you could?

Any input(s) are welcome!
Thank you in advance!

So...
What do u guys think about keeping ur partner's personal stuff?

When rindu always can hold can see can touch wan....

Is this good for LDR?

aiyohhhh...
this is LDR liao...
im talking about the alternative here....
of coz la being with your loved one is the best!

personal stuffs? hmm... how personal? how abou pillow? hehehe...

i have an idea. maybe each time when you go shopping, or any outin, you buy something for her and you note it down in the diary when you buy it, why you buy it and things like that. then when you guys meet with each other, give her as a surprise lorr...

at least can show that she's always at your heart eventhough for from each others and you always have her in heart, even when you go enjoy yourself lorr...

anyway, the things can always be a cheape thing. no need to be very expensive one. this is my idea lah... hope it works for you.

all the best, everyone.

okok, will wait for your updates.

mandy, so busy til no time to post here. you are the advisor leh... must always come in look look one. hehehe...