hey, dont think like that... she can be your whole world but you cant expect her to put you in the first place oh... with no expectation, there will be surprise. with expectation, there will be disappointment.

anyway, seems like you are a bit down with your relationship. i think it's better if you could talk with her if you think it is disturbing you a lot. anyway, all the very best and meery christmas oh.

by the way, everyone, very sorry for missing in action for so long. miyoko reporting in.

anyway, merry christmas and happy new year to everyone!!! have a great holidays.

Mine failed too...

Anyway, guys, have a Blessed Christmas! I appreciate u guys a lot. Thanks for being there for me all these while. 

anyway, i wanna ask sumthing.... what can i do to improve a long distance relationship?

emmm..quite hard to believe all of u here are having LDR ???then I'm also on e of them..my gf is living in INDONESIA...damn miss her la wei...hehe

Haha. I know... I thought I cleared up liao. But then sometimes when my gf doesn't talk to me or etc, that just makes me go    and I start thinking bout the past. 

Sorry sorry for the late reply. Being sick for days already.

Not really anymore, I dun think I still having problem with her not telling the truth. At first I am not comfortable with her telling lie, I don't know why I am used to it already.    But recently, found out that she doesn't lie as much as last time already, very very less already. Mmm, good sign huh?   

Even though(IF) she in Malaysia, I will not do Friend Finder on her. Why? Because she doesn't like it at all. Morever, I now learning on how to give her some space, some privacy already.

What is your gf problem? For not telling the truth also? Maybe you should try to read back my story and those advices given by other forumers. You will then understand that we can't control our lover life. We do not own them.

I just don't understand, recently, I ask her whether I still control her a not, she said not really already. But, the fact is, we everyday will chat on the phone. Maybe I found out when she need some space, which is specially after her work.

Max: What about trusting her? What about if she telling tell lies, then you ask again and for the last time, if she still lying to you, then let her be. Slowly to put some trust on her. Less friend finder on her. Anyway, does she friend finder on you?

Good Luck & All The Best in your relationship.

hello everyone... sorry for not reporting in for such a long time. seems like you guys are discussing about trust issue. I would like to comment on the trust issue. actually, not only in LDR that trust is really important. in SDR too... in fact, trust is very very important in any kind of relationship. be it, boss and subordinates, parents and children and lovey dovey relationship. try not checking on bf/gf and it really does hurt their feeling if they got to know it. try not violate the trust that you guys build on each others. if you really wanna know about her/his whereabouts, just call and ask. and believe what she's/he's telling you. i know that there are cases of liars out there. however, for me, trust is very important. it would be impossible for me to continue with the relationship if my partner dont trust me. remember, it takes forever to build trust but it takes only one second to destroy it. all the best to everyone!

Hi everyone, long time no see. Sorry too busy with work How's everyone doing?

there's many girls who think like me out there. however, points to ponder is ---> everyone is unique. it's impossible to actually find another replica of me or you

erm... i dont really know what's the situation and what's both of you and your gf's temper is like. however, if you ask for my advice, i would say that the cause of your argument is really very petty matters. no need to argue mah... you suggest to her to format the pc, it's up to her to decide whether to format or not. you dont have to force her if she doesnt wanna format it. you gotta let go and dont take the responsibility into your hand. she gotta learn how to make decision mah... you give her your expertise advice and let her decide lorr...

then on the other hand, about her scolding rude words to you, did you do the same thing to her before? if you never scolded her with rude word, maybe you ought to talk nicely with her to discuss about this matter. well, about you not thinking her mom will scold her, well, it's again a petty matter. so, tell her that next time if you decided that you wanna fetch her, ask her opinion regarding it. simple ---> dont make decision on behalf of her. all the best, yeah.
so, if you have decided that you dont wanna breakup, you can still write the reasons in a piece of paper. nevermind if you dont wanna break up, just write down the reasons you think you wanna give up. then look into it and see what's the problem in your relationship, then work out solution together with her.

is totally over.......................

tht day she msn me and told me somthing,she told me tht she has no love feeling,i am the one stupid love her,so sad................

thx for caring,but i will continue treat her very very good hope she will one day love me...................

font=Arial]I think Long distanc relationship needs/requires TRUST from both parties. alhough there might be doubts but still, both parties should always remind each other what they have gone through and so on. If not, the long distance relationship won;t be lasting so long....
Guys....especially guys,,,, please be loya. every failure in a relationship is not our faults (GIRLS). u choose it the way then u got to bear for it. Guys are the one who always flirt and never be loyal. THey only say verbally that they are loyal but deep down inside, there's a boar....
Don't blame girl for the breakup...think what the causes....[/font]