Also I dont think TS husband is ready to become a dad. There is a lot more responsible rather than only donating a sperm to become a dad. It doesnt mean that if he is FINANCIALLY ready and he can become a dad. Remind u that becoming a dad is totally different from a sperm donor or a sponsorer. In order for a man to become a father, he should be ready psychologically as well. Apparently by leaving his baby most of the time at the nanny and did not consider his wife's opinion of not wanting the 2nd baby is totally WRONG.

TS, try to talk to your hubby. Refuse to have sex is not an ideal way either. Need to communicate with him. Along the way u will need to be patient and skillfull. As for the CNY family part, try to be patient as it is just temporary...

P/s: I am really annoyed by a post earlier. U know who u are. It shows u are just someone insecure and likes to blame others for your own act. I can say u are not a true man but just someone very childish and inconsiderate.

Anyway, good luck to u TS, I hope the best for your family.