Gonna confess to someone by tomorrow during outing, I know what to do already but it wouldn't hurt right to get more tips from the community?

Watever happens stay calm.

Gud lak

yea, I am prepare to accept any answer calmly

tell us a bit bout your plan?

What's your plan? Can only give tips if we know what you gonna do.

well, take her out for a lunch, movie, find a romantic place for dinner, confess~

it sound lame a bit like this, but at least I know what to talk when confess

If it doesn't work out , got alot of 14th floor . Maybe then we can know who u really R

don't want la, later 2molo really got people jump, you thought is me, then you thought I as a ghost still post in lowyat

y not do it in a more romantic setting with a gift or some short senseless trip to genting or singapore without reason

1st thing 1st, expect the worst good luck brah!

haha what will your words be? do tell

can't go genting ar, last time bus crashed, scare now cable car putus

I know must show through actions, but that is after relationship, how to show during confess?

go dinner , skybar , movie .. wear smart + nice perfume

then go home sms confess ..

Don't forget your skinwear : perfume.

All the best

sms confess, isn't that lame?

Hold her hand, look deep into her eyes, and kiss her.

Not a word spoken, yeah!

success ok la ...

if she reject u on the spot .. more lame ... more awkward.

This post has been edited by skloda: Sep 6 2013, 04:25 PM

better prepare myself to get slap if do like that



it's ok if she reject me in front of me I guess I have to take it as a man

u think u can take it as a man , by that time ur heart broken into million pieces...

anyway good luck

That's better than confession.

Personally, I would say most of the time if you confess, she won't give you any answer.

get her a gift

Before that, has she show positive signs or not?

Have you show yours?

at least if she reject, u can blame the cold weather
or confess after lose in casino, then easier to blame casio

1) dont be nervous or you'll screw up.
2) dont force her to give answer. your target is to let her know your feeling.
3) dont put hope high, expect the worse. when you fall, not that painful.

This post has been edited by shinkawa: Sep 6 2013, 04:47 PM

kalau berjaya ---> hotel
kalau gaXal ---> eat yourself.

good luck

what do you plan to say TS?

I will prepare for rejection if she say no,
I will prepare my commitment if she say yes, as simple as that

don't use sms yo brah, confess face to face more sincere

if after confess but without any reply, then what we must do yo brah?

First of all, be calm and be yourself tomorrow. Your nervousness might make you look uncomfortable around her and might put her off.

Carry on with your initial plan as it's from your heart and it should reflect your true self.

Don't expect her to jump up and down and tell you that she feels the same way (though that would be nice). Give her time if she need's it and as said by others, be prepared for the worst.

With that being said, all the best for tomorrow. May your love life be blessed and hopefully you will share a good news with all of us tomorrow. Keeping my fingers crossed for you.

have you prepared for a rejection?
or you only prepared for acceptance only?

Just hold her hand. if she let you hold, already done. no need talk too much.

hi, rule no.1, never confess

rule no .2, do your best, at the very best as you could, reach into her and touch her heart.

she'll hold your hands first before you confess.

very good advice, but how?

*slight modification from an earlier suggestion;

Hold her hand, look deep into her eyes, lean in and ask her "wanna kiss?"
if she kiss you then
if negative reaction.. pull out a bag of hershey kisses and offer her one

dont confess
just grab her hand or hug her from behind and said I want this moment to be forever with you

make sure you bring condom along

guys, lol! 20 hours more to confess, haha!!! I didn't dare to hold her hand without saying anything, I think it will make her confuse, and to those who say rule 1, never confess, well, I agree too, but sometimes you gotta express how you feel, right?

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This post has been edited by vegas007: Nov 3 2013, 11:57 AM

walk close to her and bump her hand with your hand?

Try hold her hand first. If she give you hold her hand then try confess in a quite place.

good luck !!!!god bless you!!

success or fail please update here too!

good luck!!

Come on la, he ask her out, she accepts.

She already knew he likes her, it's just a matter of whether he's going to swept her off her feet like a real man would, or he's going to try on a sissy way and do an elaborate pointless confession. That's like a guy telling a girl, I have a p, you have a v, which is pretty obvious.

Don't confess, just do eeeet!

No need to confess! Just walk, bump abit bump abit, then make her happy, she will understand already lah. Your next step is to then send her back and hold her hands before she leaves, then at night send her a few messages and tell her there.

Success rate : 80%

Lol if sked the shiat out of her then screw up d.
Just tell her face to face, gently, look into her eyes....
Ts please at least bring her to a nice and grand restaurant, don't go places like mc Donald to confess, it will ended up being a joke if fail.

haha, gonna tell you guys the result at night

there is a huge debate between confess to her and don't say anything and just hold her hand, I'll see which one suits better during that time

thanks for people wishing me luck

ps: gonna fetch her at early morning, better sleep now

Good luck & all the best,TS!

Your success rate is based on what movie?
In reality it don't work that way.

Its also depends what type of girl he is going after.

Those childish type might work

Those experience few mature guys that method dont work at all

to confess too quick, she may thinks that u are a freak.

too slow, she may thinks that u are boring type.

get the timing right

do what you can do best, but you have to tell us about the girl, what she likes and enjoy doing,

maybe we can provide more accurate advise

Bring her to nice place like nice park where many couples there (i remember last time titiwangsa got nice one but now i dunno still a hot place anot?) then do some simple confess... well... i got it from few movies... but its worked because i use that way too... too big move will scared her... remember that... we are not in paris... doing big move confession works there... not here...

Ts how how how? Success?

you should bring her outdoor, places like beach or waterfall. or maybe at the hill.

after all this place, then u bring her to a nice and comfy restaurant. and start your attack phase there.

curious to know, how how? yes or no?

TS where youuu?? Tell us the result!

So how liao

TS busy piap2 liao.

just came back from dating, I succeeded

edit: i will write full story at 2molo night I guess, gonna sleep now, too damn tired, went out at 10 am, now only came back, gonna eat with her at afternoon, then hang out with her at somewhere else, at night only free I guess

This post has been edited by Ivan113: Sep 8 2013, 01:29 AM

do ur confess first b4 do anything, save budget liao

congratz TS, very happy for u!

thanks man, I felt totally different, it's like an extra burden and responsibility for me, because I now have to take care of her, this is not gonna be easy but I think I am ready for it

oh, dont worry about it, juz enjoy the process, take it calmly and treat her like a princess! she'll go head over heels for u...gud luck!

congrats bro.. do share your experience here..

might be useful for me tho

Do share with us your story so we can confirm whether its a yes yes or maybe yes or macam yes

Wow congrats ts, i too just started new relationship this week, feel happy for you too.

Well done,TS!

Treat her good yo ts, don't let her slip away

why you not yet share with us

Maybe TS now busy..
Busy piap2ing

grats bro. hope u guys be happy forever.
but seriously NEVER think she will be a burden...coz if u think that way, one day this topic will appear during ur argument with her....then it WILL be very very ugly..

coz if she really loves u back, she will try her best not to be ur burden and help u back in life....a real relationship is about give n take continuously, no such thing as "i did more than him/her....so wad have she/he done for me??"

A nicer word its call leveraging. If your partner appreciate the relationship just tell her directly she will understand.

sorry for not posting my story yesterday, I hang out with her from afternoon till late night yesterday, hardly have a time to write about it, now I am in the office, probably will tell the whole story today,

some of you might feel that I am lucky because I am no longer single, but there is just something that doesn't seem right, although she agrees that we start couple, but i just felt that there is something weird happening, I'll let you guys know sooner today, working in the office now, kinda busy at the moment, stay tuned.

and I need you guys advice, a little bit confused right now.

This post has been edited by Ivan113: Sep 9 2013, 09:21 AM

Congratulations! Happy for u~

Agree with this. If couples are too busy keeping a score card for everything he/she did/received, I think it will not last.

That said I noticed that we, modern day people, are too preoccupied by feeling scared that the other would 'use' us. Well, but then it's understandable after some 'leeching' experience perhaps? Anyhow, what a sad mindset to have, among many other things...

thanks! does anyone know any recommended couple iOS app for couple? we are both iPhone users, and so far now we are using Lovebyte, she loves it very much

You dont feel the lovey dovey from her...?

Worse comes to worse she only view you as rebound bro...

its normal even she said yes not necessary is yes yes.

Don't forget to buy her a small inexpensive gift like an shiny pendant or a leather purse when you confess. Do it in a romantic fine dining restaurant too! Rent a limo too if possible, you gotta turn that NO into a YES!

Slow poke, its already a yes, not sure if its a yes yes tho

Confess buy gift? Lol limo to show off apa? U over do means she over expect. So can you over delivery later?

This post has been edited by aspire2oo6: Sep 9 2013, 04:18 PM

Just give her a kiss on the lips. If she didn't slap you, you're good to go. If she slap you......tell her I'm still single

Why you worry? you are a capable man earning big bucks as some manager what. If you cannot deliver then make way for another man who can lor, so simple. A woman's gotta look out for her own well being mah, right?

Its never about how much I earn. I have a strategy I reward my partner by stages and requires effort rather than jewelry FIRST

Its like flame I will slowly make the flame big bigger and bigger. So your partner can keep feeling the progress. Most relationship fails because they put too big fire they cant afford or able to maintain the flame then it dies.

Usually I dont give what my partners wants. I surprise her things she wants.

Rather than u keep big flame then what next small flame?

That's my opinion.

This post has been edited by aspire2oo6: Sep 9 2013, 04:59 PM

What is the wierd thing happening, I would like to know?

It's ok, u have your methods, but women have a lot of suitors, so they'll choose the man who will give FIRST.

Congrats TS.
Hmmm..TS busy dating no time update

so how was it TS????good news or bad news?update us..hehe

yea, really busy ar, just came back from work, then invite her to hang out at my house after we had dinner, and we had some awesome time together!! we share stories, hug and kisses, and please people, I didn't piap piap, I doesnt find couple becoz of that, the summary for the day I proposed to her:

we went KLCC

1) had lunch with her
2) hang out at outside KLCC park there, where there are air pancut and taman
3) went shopping and jalan2
4) went aquarias
5) went to watch movie
6) dinner at Thai restaurant
7) it was raining during the dinner, thank God the rain went down to hujan renyai renyai
8) I proposed to her at under the two great twin towers, I talked alot to her and after that I asked her whether would she give a chance to both of us, she said not sure, then I ask her what is her reason to reject me, she say don't have, then I asked her whether she like me or not, she said yes, then I stopped asking and hold her hand, then SHE SLAPPED ME!! hahaha, no la, just kidding, I hold her hand then she smile, then we go back together

Nice story TS! I keep refreshing my browser to see updates hahaha.
Dunno why lol.

congratulation to you! dono why feel so happy for you, and im feeling sad lol.. anyway.. TS, how long you have know her before you confess?

TS that doesnt sound like a YES YES. That sound like a maybe YES. Sorry i dont want to spoil your success story but from my experience be caution.

if its yes, not yes yes, why she allow him to kiss kiss hug hug leh?

Why girls let other guys hold, hug and kiss even they are not couple?

I seen and experience a few. Its a skill of interrogation if a person is uncertain they have alot in their mind that they didnt tell you so they hesitate awhile. Like if someone is lying their eyes will always move or look away when they answer.

This is just my opinion. Even my previous partner similar she give uncertainty then she said Yes after 5 days later i ask back why you hesitate but said yes then she give tons of reasons. But within that time frame i proven her i am worth so much after 3 weeks later i ask again and i get a straight YES without any hesitation and with that i am still with her today

This post has been edited by aspire2oo6: Sep 10 2013, 08:21 AM

Hi 5 bro, it happened just as I've said. She goes out because she likes you, you confessed but she didn't give you any answers, UNTIL you hold her hand.

Now, to make it a yes yes, get her nekkid.

it's ok, I totally get your idea, I am not 100% happy though becoz I have the same thought like you, and I also have the same feeling like you think I should have, that is





the feeling of insecure whether she really does accept me or not





but it's ok, time will prove everything, I will try my best as a lover, whether she appreciate or not, that is another matter, I have no power over that, all I know is that I am in such a fragile situation where she might not satisfy even if I did my best, but then, in the end, I can only answer to myself that I should and I will try my best, because in the end of the day, whether she still accepts me or not, I will not feel sorry for myself.


on other news, I notice that the way she look at me when it's just me and her and we one gang hang out is totally different, is this normal?

i also have same feeling as you, my gf say yes, we went out my action prove otherwise

i guess it is normal if she behave differently during 1 on 1 outing and group outing, afterall she cant ignore her friend and you can abandon your friends too

TS, how long you have know her before you confess?

not long it's a bad sign eh isn't it? but I got 2 of my friends that know each other for only 2months before start dating, now they have been almost 4 years together

not long, means few days only? I'm not sure whether its good or bad sign, cause I don't have the chance to try before, so now I'm gathering experience from others