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post Sep 6 2013, 04:13 PM, updated 13y ago

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Gonna confess to someone by tomorrow during outing, I know what to do already but it wouldn't hurt right to get more tips from the community? smile.gif
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post Sep 6 2013, 04:14 PM

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QUOTE(abcde90 @ Sep 6 2013, 04:14 PM)
Watever happens stay calm.

Gud lak
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yea, I am prepare to accept any answer calmly smile.gif
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post Sep 6 2013, 04:18 PM

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well, take her out for a lunch, movie, find a romantic place for dinner, confess~

it sound lame a bit like this, but at least I know what to talk when confess
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post Sep 6 2013, 04:20 PM

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QUOTE(getitdoone @ Sep 6 2013, 04:19 PM)
If it doesn't work out , got alot of 14th floor . Maybe then we can know who u really R
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don't want la, later 2molo really got people jump, you thought is me, then you thought I as a ghost still post in lowyat biggrin.gif
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post Sep 6 2013, 04:22 PM

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can't go genting ar, last time bus crashed, scare now cable car putus biggrin.gif

I know must show through actions, but that is after relationship, how to show during confess? blink.gif
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post Sep 6 2013, 04:24 PM

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QUOTE(skloda @ Sep 6 2013, 04:23 PM)
go dinner , skybar , movie .. wear smart + nice perfume

then go home sms confess ..
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sms confess, isn't that lame? doh.gif
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post Sep 6 2013, 04:26 PM

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QUOTE(Tyler__Durden @ Sep 6 2013, 04:24 PM)
Hold her hand, look deep into her eyes, and kiss her.

Not a word spoken, yeah!
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better prepare myself to get slap if do like that



QUOTE(skloda @ Sep 6 2013, 04:24 PM)
success ok la ...

if she reject u on the spot .. more lame ... more awkward.
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it's ok if she reject me in front of me smile.gif I guess I have to take it as a man
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post Sep 6 2013, 05:14 PM

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I will prepare for rejection if she say no,
I will prepare my commitment if she say yes, as simple as that
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post Sep 6 2013, 09:58 PM

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guys, lol! 20 hours more to confess, haha!!! I didn't dare to hold her hand without saying anything, I think it will make her confuse, and to those who say rule 1, never confess, well, I agree too, but sometimes you gotta express how you feel, right?
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post Sep 7 2013, 02:28 AM

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haha, gonna tell you guys the result at night smile.gif

there is a huge debate between confess to her and don't say anything and just hold her hand, I'll see which one suits better during that time smile.gif

thanks for people wishing me luck smile.gif

ps: gonna fetch her at early morning, better sleep now biggrin.gif
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post Sep 8 2013, 01:28 AM

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just came back from dating, I succeeded smile.gif

edit: i will write full story at 2molo night I guess, gonna sleep now, too damn tired, went out at 10 am, now only came back, gonna eat with her at afternoon, then hang out with her at somewhere else, at night only free I guess smile.gif

This post has been edited by Ivan113: Sep 8 2013, 01:29 AM
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post Sep 8 2013, 01:38 AM

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thanks man, I felt totally different, it's like an extra burden and responsibility for me, because I now have to take care of her, this is not gonna be easy but I think I am ready for it smile.gif
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post Sep 9 2013, 09:21 AM

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sorry for not posting my story yesterday, I hang out with her from afternoon till late night yesterday, hardly have a time to write about it, now I am in the office, probably will tell the whole story today,

some of you might feel that I am lucky because I am no longer single, but there is just something that doesn't seem right, although she agrees that we start couple, but i just felt that there is something weird happening, I'll let you guys know sooner today, working in the office now, kinda busy at the moment, stay tuned.

and I need you guys advice, a little bit confused right now.

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post Sep 9 2013, 10:30 AM

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QUOTE(micyuki @ Sep 9 2013, 10:04 AM)
rclxms.gif Congratulations! Happy for u~
Agree with this. If couples are too busy keeping a score card for everything he/she did/received, I think it will not last.

That said I noticed that we, modern day people, are too preoccupied by feeling scared that the other would 'use' us. Well, but then it's understandable after some 'leeching' experience perhaps? Anyhow, what a sad mindset to have, among many other things...
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thanks! does anyone know any recommended couple iOS app for couple? we are both iPhone users, and so far now we are using Lovebyte, she loves it very much smile.gif
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post Sep 10 2013, 12:35 AM

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QUOTE(uglyduckling422 @ Sep 9 2013, 09:15 PM)
Congrats TS.
Hmmm..TS busy dating no time update
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yea, really busy ar, just came back from work, then invite her to hang out at my house after we had dinner, and we had some awesome time together!! we share stories, hug and kisses, and please people, I didn't piap piap, I doesnt find couple becoz of that, the summary for the day I proposed to her:

we went KLCC

1) had lunch with her
2) hang out at outside KLCC park there, where there are air pancut and taman
3) went shopping and jalan2
4) went aquarias
5) went to watch movie
6) dinner at Thai restaurant
7) it was raining during the dinner, thank God the rain went down to hujan renyai renyai
8) I proposed to her at under the two great twin towers, I talked alot to her and after that I asked her whether would she give a chance to both of us, she said not sure, then I ask her what is her reason to reject me, she say don't have, then I asked her whether she like me or not, she said yes, then I stopped asking and hold her hand, then SHE SLAPPED ME!! hahaha, no la, just kidding, I hold her hand then she smile, then we go back together smile.gif


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post Sep 10 2013, 09:27 AM

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QUOTE(aspire2oo6 @ Sep 10 2013, 08:09 AM)
TS that doesnt sound like a YES YES. That sound like a maybe YES. Sorry i dont want to spoil your success story but from my experience be caution.
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it's ok, I totally get your idea, I am not 100% happy though becoz I have the same thought like you, and I also have the same feeling like you think I should have, that is





the feeling of insecure whether she really does accept me or not





but it's ok, time will prove everything, I will try my best as a lover, whether she appreciate or not, that is another matter, I have no power over that, all I know is that I am in such a fragile situation where she might not satisfy even if I did my best, but then, in the end, I can only answer to myself that I should and I will try my best, because in the end of the day, whether she still accepts me or not, I will not feel sorry for myself.


on other news, I notice that the way she look at me when it's just me and her and we one gang hang out is totally different, is this normal?
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post Sep 10 2013, 10:51 AM

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QUOTE(AntheMz @ Sep 10 2013, 10:38 AM)
TS, how long you have know her before you confess?
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not long smile.gif it's a bad sign eh isn't it? but I got 2 of my friends that know each other for only 2months before start dating, now they have been almost 4 years together smile.gif
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post Sep 10 2013, 11:17 AM

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I know her for few months, smile.gif

but it felt like we know each other for years, I guess the chemistry is there

talk to you guys later, boss gave me some work that has to be done today smile.gif

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post Sep 10 2013, 05:28 PM

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I am an atheist, and I believe that no one can control our relationship other than us, well, this time is different a bit, she is a weak minded girl, so I have to protect her flex.gif
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post Sep 10 2013, 08:19 PM

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QUOTE(Tyler__Durden @ Sep 10 2013, 05:32 PM)
I believe you just call your gf stupid, lawl.
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she isn't, why weak minded sounds like stupid?

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