I would like to know how long does an erection usually last?
I'm having a problem maintaining my erection and sometimes I can't get it up before sex. Is it possible that I'm suffering from erectile dysfunction? I admit sometimes I get really nervous and that fellar below refuse to cooperate before sex. Could it be sexual performance anxiety? Meanwhile I suspect it could be due to poor blood circulation but how do I verify that. One of my problem is I always have cold hands and when I get nervous i'll have cold sweat. Please advice. I do not want to rely on drugs like <removed> or <removed>.

I'm only 24 years old and she is the first girl I'm havin sex with. Whenever I lose erection, she gets really frustrated and a lot of times she just want me to come and then go to sleep. I don't want this ED issue to affect our relationship. If I were to see an urologist, how much does it usually cost? Please shed some light on this issue.

may i know how long of you "thingy" ?

1. /k/ ppl is not ur doctor...
2. wat u gonna do depends on doctor says not /k/ ppl
3. if everything goes wrong, pls kindly refer back step 1 and 2...

See a doctor. Clearly you have some sexual dysfunction issues in your arousal stage that needs some help. You won't find much help here.

DSM Criteria for ED:

go to club more often to cure the nervous facing hot girls? u may start to control yr bro...

this advice is not yr friend but not costly to try.. at least u try suit from yr mental

did u...erm...fap too much? (serious)

fap is not a training?

depends on when lor...i guess

This post has been edited by cempedaklife: Nov 16 2012, 11:36 PM

Any recommended doctors to go to around kl or pj?
How much does it usually cost for consultation?

I think this doesn't do any help...does it affect the little brother?

Maybe. But how much is considered too much?
I'm afraid it is porn-induced ED

Sorry, I'm no guy so I don't have any urologist to recommend, nor do I know how much their consultations cost.

When I mentioned sexual dysfunction, I was referring more to the psychological problem. So probably going to see psychologists will also help, but they tend to be more expensive.
http://www.malaysiapsychology.com/sex_therapy.html

If budget is a concern, government hospitals do provide both urologists and psychologists too.

Bro, I understand how you feel coz I am same age as you and sometimes I have the same problem.

I would suggest that you need to exercise regularly at least twice a week, jogging and most importantly - STRETCH your bottom part will be a great help. I understand people these days sit for a long hours, so am I. So I suspect its poor blood circulation. Because whenever I skip exercise for that week, I will face that problem.

If you do not want to try any drugs. You can try eat oysters a day before that. There is no solid prove from Science, but it works for me. Oysters and crab is one of the highest source in Zinc, and Zinc improve sex drive.
http://voices.yahoo.com/do-oysters-increas...ve-1007085.html
http://voices.yahoo.com/zinc-healthy-amoun...4301.html?cat=5

Do give all these a try before you go to consult an urologist or physiologist, basically they will just tell you its your mental, just relax and try to listen more relax music.

Also, do not drink alcohol too often

So hope this helps, and look forward to your great news about she enjoy it.

1) Are you physically fit? (note: thin doesnt mean fit)

2) Do you watch porn? If yes, how long do you usually maintain an erection?

3) It could be due to stress or nervousness... I mean, I dont think anyone goes into a nervy situation with a boner.

- your stress could be due to the fact that your GF is always pressuring you so before sex you think :"OMG OMG OMG I have to perform". and you get nervous

Bro, do you get stimulated when watching porn? And how long does ur little bro stay active when watching it? If u r stimulated and ur lads is active enuff then maybe u r juz too nerveous, chill bro, go with the flow and try to enjoy it

slap her and tell her you're the boss
joking.

yes psychological factors could play a part. couple that with certain physiological factors and it gets hard, no pun intended.
on a serious note, i really do know a urologist, whom we have not seen for a while but was a good friend.
he has been practicing and specialising for a long time and he works around the klang valley.

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Added on November 23, 2012, 1:48 amadditional comment: if u wanna slap her make sure you just slap her bum. don't slap her face.



personally, i like being slapped.

This post has been edited by satricalwong: Nov 23 2012, 01:48 AM

Hi, i read about your condition and i might have some info. I'm running a therapy center in flamingo plaza ampang and we have a few options for male and female urological problems.

We are having a trade show this weekend in Sunway Hotel resort and spa. All the urologist in Malaysia are there. Maybe you can drop by. Look for QRS Asia at booth B14. In case you are not sure, check out our website www.qrsasia.com.my

About consultation, our spokesperson Dr Ismail Tambi (google him) runs a consultation clinic at Damai Service Hospital in Jalan Ipoh. Fee is RM60 per consultation. You can always get an expert's opinion about your condition. Just mention that you heard about him from Norman of QRS. Hope this helps. Ring me if you want more details o123259o3o

your gf should be more sexy and more notty~then can solve your problem..

1. Maybe yes, maybe no. But definitely not tip-top fit condition where I can just go and run a 42km marathon
2. As long as i'm still stroking it, it will stay hard until it comes. But I'm not exactly sure if it's 100% erected/hard. But once I stop watching and stop touching it, it will not stay erect for long.
3. I think the 3rd one could be one of the reason and I have no idea how to get rid of that nervous feeling.

if thats ur first time it might be problem with mental that causes ED, u give yourself too much pressure.

just relax, be confident, and most of all, dont stress out your little bro down there.

nice sharing...

i just notice, you're a female...with ed problem?

well, it's not i can't get it up
the problem lies in maintaining it or keeping it rock hard for a certain amount of time
sometimes halfway through, it will soften a lil and i realize my other body parts (eg abdomen) will get tired and eventually it will just fail on me

i wanted to try medication, but i suppose i am too young for it and it's not good to rely on it

Stress can take effect at any time. Before and also during erection.

Better to seek medical advice.

Your state of mind affects the little fella. The more you want the least it will cooperate. I found that if I relax and don't think about it it comes (no pun intended) spontaneously. See a urologist. They will usually prescribe you one of those diamond shaped blue pills. But don't depend entirely on them.

would u mind sharing his contact n working place?

i was thinking of quitting porn and fapping for a while...not sure how much it will help

You can overload your mind with porn so much that ordinary sexual encounters will not give you the desired Stimulus. Your expectations may be a bit too high and it will affect your "performance". Lay off the porn.

I was thinking about that possibility too
I've read about porn-induced ED

I really hope I can solve this problem as soon as possible and this is taking a toll on my relationship

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Added on November 29, 2012, 8:31 amI realize one thing, halfway through intercourse i can feel my abdomen/thigh muscle getting tired and that's when my erection becomes weaker than it should
Is that possible for the cause of my ED - weak muscle?

This post has been edited by galaxy_godness: Nov 29 2012, 08:31 AM

have you try Kegel? I do not know how much it will help but if it is due to weak muscle, then I guess you should give Kegel a try... it strengthen your muscle...

its normal that when you're trying to put your rod in it will sometimes become soft bcoz u put all your focus into 'putting in' then u cant maintain the 'horny feelings'.. so make it as fast as u can

while its inside and u move it in and out.. it will become hard again.. no worries

and yes too much of porn will make u cannot cum in the real situation. you n the girl might be tired already while you're still stroking yourself hard..

what about if shot very fast? is it common? sometimes after bj, it shoots

or while doing it... it shots fast .... cannot tahan more than 5 mins also

premature ejaculation ??

5 minutes is ok, need communicate with your partner, don't do it too fast when nearly "feelsto shoot" stop awhile, play2.... then continue

.... but shoots within seconds is a problem =_+

P/S: me not pro, hihi

This post has been edited by esto: Mar 21 2013, 11:09 AM

meaning how long can it last while being stimulated?

Frankly, i do not know, you may ask other who "experienced" in this matter

problem is if try with new gal, very fast shot because too syiok

Hi there

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if ur gf stroke ur cock, will it up?

nervous can cause this issue, from wat i heard lar..

Stop porn. Period.

And stop fapping.

Is this a known cause for ED?

Yes. Make got 5000 times only. Don’t waste it.

Read more about erectile dysfunction here!

https://dosinghealth.com/2017/10/05/erectile-dysfunction/

Of course la.. You push it to hard..

Can see why oldies have many children because they dont do this stuff

At your age, most highly likely its mentally induced ED caused by porn and frequent masturbation.

It sounds mostly as a psychological issue. either you are too nervous as been the first time and everything that brings to the table. Try to realx and also ask your partner to do some foreplay first to relax you a bit. If it persist go and checka doctor. sometimes even a GP can help you with basics.

They don’t watch they make one.

Haha but at that time their only entertainment is banging wife. So need to really take care of their manhood

Nowadays you go to the 'wrong' masseur, then they hit the wrong point...

Before go to see doctor/specialist, maybe you can try to take some men's supplement like tongkat ali , maca , ginseng. PM me if you need more info

Yes. Frequent masturbation is one of the known cause for ED.

If I may, are you married yet ?

nah fam , from what i read if you do masturbation frequently it does not make you have ed .but if you do it in the wrong way mybe it will induce it.and for your information we us man must be careful from doing any kind off excersice that say it will make your penile longger because if you read in thunder place forum you will see many man suffer with their erection after doing that excersice such as jelqing


This post has been edited by Power rot: Nov 26 2017, 03:33 AM

from your information that you give mybe you have ed from your phscyholgy or you have venous leak
Venous leak was a disease that make your penis not firm enough and cant hold it for too long . This happen because your vein in the penis cant keep the blood to stay in the penis.the cause of disease was no truly know to medical. it mybe you born with it, trauma,testrone low ,or some nerve condition or mybe pryoneis disease.
So what the advice i can give .you must go to the doctor and talk about your condition
You must follow what the doctor say but in the same time you must keep seeing him until your problem solve
P.s venous leak was rare but it was very common to a young guy because mybe their born with it and if you have this it mybe very tricky to treat because this was the hardest ed cause to treat
and the final treatmen for it is a penile implant

This post has been edited by Power rot: Dec 2 2017, 03:03 PM

Wow. Really ?

Those are very interesting facts.

Thank you so much for sharing.

Try kegel exercise to improve blood flow to your penis.
Exercise is most important to improve your blood circulation.
Supplements to improve your testosterone level ,take zinc and magnesium (normally they come together )

stop fapping,dont drink ice and workout more.

you might want to consider seeking advise from counselor, hypnotherapy, might be your mental issue.

does your dildo stand up early morning?

i think he will not reply our comment because he post this thread about 5a years ago

why drink ice give you ed?

U can treat ED with supplements. I'm almost 50 and been using Citric Q. Got no problems in the bedroom.

Is Citric Q sold in pharmacy? Need doctor prescription paper?

This post has been edited by river.sand: Dec 5 2017, 03:37 PM

What is Critic Q ?

Its a supplement from US. FDA approved. I take 1 tab every 2 days. OK

You need to seek medical help from a doctor. ED can be a sign of a serious problem (like, buy your tombstone now type problem) or nothing but a simple blood flow issue to your joy-stick. Only a good medical examination can tell if you want to start kissing your loved ones goodbye today or if you should go ahead and plan for the long term. Don’t be dumb and assume —like so many idiotic men— that “Oh, that’ll never happen to me. It’s probably nothing and I can just buy this click-bait remedy off of the interwebs … I mean, what could possibly go wrong.”

No. Get your junk looked at (more like your heart). There’s a reason why in the US Navy, they refer to doctors (or at least used to) as “Pecker Checkers” (PCs). In men, the penis has a lot of interesting (and fun!) uses. For doctors, one of those uses is a halfway decent barometer of your health. If there’s something preventing you from getting a good erection, then that something is worth getting looked at.

Try google citric q, all result came out are from product selling website.

What is the US company that producing this drug/supplements?

Read more on FDA approved drugs
https://www.livestrong.com/article/421353-w...u-look-younger/

"Federal law classifies vitamins as a dietary supplement, which places them under the general category of food and not drugs. As a dietary supplement, the FDA has no duty or authority to "authorize" a vitamin for sale. A vitamin manufacturer has the duty to ensure the vitamins it sells are safe before entering the market, but the FDA does not have to authorize or approve the vitamin before the manufacturer sells it"

Go to the gym and lift weights 3 times per week. On werkends run 10km. Ur small head will thank you later.

interesting.

You mean penis size can grow naturally by lifting weights and long distance running ?

This thread discusses about erectile dysfunction, no? Not about penis size. If u got ED than ur penis size not important anymore.

Have you experience ED before ?

It’s a common belief that masturbating too much can cause erectile dysfunction (ED). ED happens when you can’t get or maintain an erection. This is a myth that’s not based on facts. Masturbation does not directly cause erectile dysfunction in men.

This idea overlooks some of the complexities of masturbation and the physical and mental causes of erectile dysfunction, many of which have nothing to with masturbation or porn.

Source

Doctors say: Men have several night-time erections. On average, a healthy man has 3 to 5 erections during a full night's sleep, with each erection lasting 25 to 35 minutes.

This is an answer on your 1 question. I think the main problem with your psychological state. Most diseases come from the head. You can try quality viagra and analyze your behavior during sex. In the same time, a physical condition also can affect your erection. And don't worry about the relationship. If a girl loves you she supports you

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Kindly PM for details. I can provide good personalized recommendation. Have a great day.

Firstly Dr ismail thambi is one of the top urologist in Malaysia. Best for you to go seek for advice.

Secondly I advice is go check your hormones. Thyroid, DHEA and total testosterone level (if you have budget get ur free testosterone check as well). If the results come back all good meaning it psychology problem then you should know where you should go.

If results came back u have low thyroid (low thyroid ppl will have low energy level....sensitive to cold.. Etc) just take some thyroid same goes for DHEA.

however if low testosterone then u have get testosterone cream to improve it.

psychological and emotional issues are always number one in a young individuals. illnesses, if there is any, will be Anxiety, Depression, Diabetes and a few other chronic diseases. At 26 tho' quite a bit have to be investigated

Is Premature Ejaculation = Erectile Dysfunction?

No.

One is cum too early & another is can't stand.

There are several factors to consider. At your age 24, you shouldn't be having this issue but again, it's due several factors.

1. If you are on the couch, exercising less... binge a lot, put on weight... you might want to jump off the couch, go out and start some exercise. Running, Swimming and biking all of these can push your sex drive up and help your little brother a lot!
2. You should ease off the alcohol.
3. If you are the one who tends to get nervous, why not try some fore play longer... stay calm, for f*ck sake... it's not that the pussy will run away at the moment... you already have her on the bed... take it easy, go slow, relax. Light some candle or soft music.
4. Bro.. honestly, if you are not active in sports, time to take one up...

Seriously, it helps...

How you know it helps? You used to be ED too? After exercise then no more ED ?