I would like to know how long does an erection usually last?
I'm having a problem maintaining my erection and sometimes I can't get it up before sex. Is it possible that I'm suffering from erectile dysfunction? I admit sometimes I get really nervous and that fellar below refuse to cooperate before sex. Could it be sexual performance anxiety? Meanwhile I suspect it could be due to poor blood circulation but how do I verify that. One of my problem is I always have cold hands and when I get nervous i'll have cold sweat. Please advice. I do not want to rely on drugs like <removed> or <removed>.

I'm only 24 years old and she is the first girl I'm havin sex with. Whenever I lose erection, she gets really frustrated and a lot of times she just want me to come and then go to sleep. I don't want this ED issue to affect our relationship. If I were to see an urologist, how much does it usually cost? Please shed some light on this issue.

Any recommended doctors to go to around kl or pj?
How much does it usually cost for consultation?

I think this doesn't do any help...does it affect the little brother?

Maybe. But how much is considered too much?
I'm afraid it is porn-induced ED

1. Maybe yes, maybe no. But definitely not tip-top fit condition where I can just go and run a 42km marathon
2. As long as i'm still stroking it, it will stay hard until it comes. But I'm not exactly sure if it's 100% erected/hard. But once I stop watching and stop touching it, it will not stay erect for long.
3. I think the 3rd one could be one of the reason and I have no idea how to get rid of that nervous feeling.

well, it's not i can't get it up
the problem lies in maintaining it or keeping it rock hard for a certain amount of time
sometimes halfway through, it will soften a lil and i realize my other body parts (eg abdomen) will get tired and eventually it will just fail on me

i wanted to try medication, but i suppose i am too young for it and it's not good to rely on it

would u mind sharing his contact n working place?

i was thinking of quitting porn and fapping for a while...not sure how much it will help

I was thinking about that possibility too
I've read about porn-induced ED

I really hope I can solve this problem as soon as possible and this is taking a toll on my relationship

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Added on November 29, 2012, 8:31 amI realize one thing, halfway through intercourse i can feel my abdomen/thigh muscle getting tired and that's when my erection becomes weaker than it should
Is that possible for the cause of my ED - weak muscle?

This post has been edited by galaxy_godness: Nov 29 2012, 08:31 AM