Went to club few times already but still did not succeed in getting any girls but only danced . how to approach a girl when they are dancing at the dance floor ? What should i do or what should i say to them ? any sifus please helpppp

hm..so far my experience is..once dance for sometime we hug > exchange num and go out next day. or dance and have eye contact with her whole night > kissed on face and lightly on the lip > exchange num.

As long dont stick too long with a girl that have male friend at her table. some male friend of her will come to separate u both. u must take action fast. if the girl like u.. she will dance with u again 2nd round once her friend not around.

1. Have a smile on your face or at least a face that shows you are having a good time.

2. Proper eye contact.

3. Confidence.

4. Dance but not to the point that you are waving your arms around and giving out high fives to random strangers.

5. Don't sing to the song that is playing.

6. When on the dance floor, it's okay to be with your friends but make yourself accessible. Try not to be too close to your group of friends. Imagine, say if there is a girl you like but she's bunched up with her girlfriends.. Chances are you won't approach her. Same thing.

If the girl likes you, she'll make frequent eye contact with you and flash you a smile or 2. From then on just position yourself closer to her but don't go all the way. Let her come closer to you too and if she leans in. You're in No talking necessary for the first approach, talking comes later. They say it's a numbers game and it's true to a certain extend but remember to always be a gentleman

expert expert thank you will try it out next time but usally when a girl goes to dance floor within seconds already 'FISHED' by other boys too many boys on the dance floor --

Only approach girls who want to be approached.

Only approach girls who want to be approached by you.

You can tell who they are - they're the ones who glance at you, who make eye contact with you, who smile back when you smile at them. If you're getting those signals, then you don't need any pick-up line or any special technique; just go up to her and say hi.

But the vast majority of the time, you will go to a club and see dozens of hot girls completely ignoring you. There is nothing you can do about them. They are not there for you. They are not there for guys who are handsomer or richer than you. If they choose to layan a guy who is not you, that's just your luck. Do not get butthurt about it.

On the other hand, there is a way to make girls pay more attention to you at clubs...

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This post has been edited by vincenteoh88: Sep 9 2012, 08:28 PM

I assume you are not very good looking. You got plenty of money? Booked a vvip room and ask her if she would join you?

so only money can get girls ka ?

haha it doesnt matter la after that day you wont even remember who is she (approaching ONLY)

Have fun.

Sincerely have fun.

The next time you go clubbing, tell yourself, "I'm going to have fun, I'm going to enjoy myself, I'm going to talk and laugh and dance and get juuuuust drunk enough. All of us are going to have a fantastic night tonight."

Notice how there's no mention of girls in there? That's right. You can't enjoy yourself if you have too high expectations - like you're going to pick up a hot chick and take her home that night. You cannot go clubbing with that kind of objective in mind. You will never have fun like that.

Go clubbing because you enjoy clubbing - because you enjoy hanging out with your friends. Talk, laugh, dance, be loud and happy, be the most fun gang in the club that night. Then step away from your friends for a minute, sip your drink, and look around.

You may suddenly notice that the cute girl 2 tables away is smiling at you.

smack their honky tonk badonkadonk

Then what would you expect from such place?

depends on which club u go ba

don't do the pelvic thrust . . . http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T1ZcIAAFU7I

awesome

Then you have to show you that you're better than all these other guys. It does help if you're physically attractive because honestly, when you go clubbing you'll be looking for the hottest person to grind with anyways so there's nothing personal about it. If there is something you can do to improve your chances with the ladies, do it then when you hit the clubs next time they'll notice you more

I don't know what you wear to the clubs but personally I like to keep things simple and classic. A nice khaki pants and dark colored polo t works well or a dark jeans with a grey shirt with rolled up sleeves. Converse shoes, because they are easy to dance with and look good with any pants I have. To finish everything off, an amazing looking watch.

getting girls and then what would you want to do next?
and so you decided to get your gf on a club and no where else? a place with easy targets?

I don't think he meant meeting a girl in a club and asking her to be his gf. He's just there for fun For the moment

YESSSS the girls there cannot be gf 1 i just wannna have fun thats all

dont simply approach girls or do some eye contact with them
like last time i saw a guy go do some eye contact and talk to the girl next thing u see a look a like KL Gangster scene in the carpark