If you represent the majority of girls these days then /facepalm I'd rather be gay.

I'd argue that the segment involves senior citizens too. Basically Malaysians have this lack of critical thinking skills and rational discernment. It has been a worrying trend for years now, no thanks to the way our education system works.

And no, I am unwilling to continue a mature, factual discourse with a bunch of emotional immature boys that couldn't keep calm and actually discern what I said before hurling insults. Sigh... feminism has a lonnnng way to go.

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Added on August 11, 2012, 1:26 pmBe my guest It is not my responsibility to spoon feed you or anyone that missed the point of what I said, I am not your English teacher or your professor. If you fail at comprehension and believe I insulted you, yeah, not my problem

This post has been edited by ChocChristy: Aug 11 2012, 01:29 PM

So what sets you apart from other Malaysians that "lack critical thinking skills" ?
Weren't you part of our Malaysian education system at one point?

What sets me apart from people like you is I actually use my brain more instead of insulting people straightaway, like a certain "captain" around here. I survived and rise above the system, you apparently, didn't.

Apparently, you missed my point here. I was merely asking advice on how you rose above the system and you insinuated that I don't use my brain. How childish.

You weren't, reread what you wrote. You did not ask for advice, you were being snappy. Different things.

And reread the 2 posts you posted earlier, did you even use your damn brain to understand what I said? No, you didn't, you just assumed that what I said was because I had a crappy ex-bf. Sorry, I don't have an ex-bf. Who was the one who claimed that they'd rather be gay (apparently gay's a choice, what an insult to gay people)? Who's the childish one?

I don't have further prerogative to reply to you. Added you to the ignore list. Learn to be mature instead of trying to act smart please.



This post has been edited by ChocChristy: Aug 11 2012, 01:53 PM

It is so easy for hotheads like you to misunderstand text on the internet, hope you learn to grow up and reconsider how you "rose up from the Malaysian Education System" because you are not above any of us in any way;from the Malaysian Education system.

Being gay is childish? Adding you to my blacklist.

I think you care too much about the opinions of a few women. Relax...............................

I've read everything here, and you obviously owe this lady an apology. Not only were you twisting her words, but you are also a f*ckhead. Since when did she say that being gay is childish? And even the Prime Minister sends his kids to study abroad, because he also knows that his own country's education sucks. So how the f*ck did you not know about this and even dared to defend the Malaysian bullsh*t education system?

You are indeed an a*shole.

To the men who think I'm playing the white knight, well, F*CK YOU for your lack of rationality and dignity.

if you're a white knight, then I must be one too, because I agree with you .. I have no idea where and how these people managed to twist and misunderstand ChocChristy's question.

..try to be friend with them n know their bfs..or myb do nothing..

most of my close friends are guys. does that makes me a target by all their gfs? @.@

possibly.

As for me and my gf, we do make a point that I will stop hanging out with all my girl-pals once we're engaged and married.

Why?

Because I kinda hang out a lot with my girl-pals.

It is not a good thing.

I myself know that.

So you'd forsake your friends when you marry? I don't get it. Do you need to homogenise your character, and self identity too?

Less hanging out =/= Forsake.

Please do not oversimplify things like that.

Plus I like my personal space, and having another person whom I love dearly within that space would lessen my need to go out.

I'm an introvert. I don't really like going out.

I'm sorry but you don't make sense. IMHO, it seems to me a losing of self identity in order to adapt to married life.

I'm speaking from experience. If the person loves you for who you are, why do you feel the need to change?

A little OT here. Back to the topic, I believe it all boils down to security/confidence (or lack of it) of the woman, and the trust that the man inspires.

My girl loves me and trusts me alright. It is me who need to cut down on spending time with others, because I want to.