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Nothing we can do..what can do is trust...although wil jealous

Quite true actually, particularly if the guy is single. Most guys are hormone charged horny pricks waiting to score with a lady, regardless of whether or not she is attached. This condition is made worse when the woman they are "friends" with responds to their sexual inuendos.

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Added on September 27, 2012, 6:11 pmThis is so true....

This post has been edited by s2peMocls: Sep 27 2012, 06:11 PM

Guess it depends completely on how hot the other girl is to pose a psychological threat.

I applaud you for being the person who does it because you chose it.

However, to those who have to distance themselves with the opposite sex merely because their partner is insecure, then they have my sympathies. It's a sad way to live knowing you can't have close friends of the opposite sex. It speaks highly of the lack of trust and communication between the couple to begin with. Especially so if they were your friends way before you met your partner. This partnership will only work if they are like Lucidus who does it without being asked.

no, just admit it LAH .. most Malaysian little boys kenot tahan.

I'm also offended on behalf of guys that you think that most of them are "horny pricks".
would you like it if I said that because you are a guy, you're a potential rapist?

This post has been edited by spunkberry: Oct 10 2012, 05:50 AM

My best female friend got promoted a few years back to family friend status. No longer she is my friend only, she is our friend now.

Well Luckily i have Gynophobia so it wont be any problem to face this kind of situation

They are, even the married ones. Put a very available chick in front of them, and they're ready to drop their pants. I've got proof of this guy who is married flirting with a girl already has a partner. I plan to show it to his wife.

Don't get me wrong, girls are sluts too, but you need to have the right kind of bait, and most men don't have it.

Whatever rocks your socks. I kinda feel insulted.

lol I agree with leo-chan.

well. in my opinion, i dont like it because the girl whom are closed to my bf is actually a girl who like my bf few years back. and got scolded by my bf's exgf. now he is mine and i also dislike that girl but i couldnt scold that girl cause my bf will sure argue with me. idk why some girls are so b****y. that girl ALWAYS take picture next to my bf, sit next to him no matter where they go (classmates gathering). so kinda dislike that girl. she hates me n i too no doubt.
how to kick her off!! >.<

my gf get angry even i talk nicely to the mcd girls..but still i love her. =)

just be friend with her... ^^

I'm a guy and I have 3 best buds that are girls, 2 married and 1 single, and I still remember all of them telling me "best friends sometimes outlast relationship and even marriage" (don't know suay or what..the friendship really outlasted one of the marriage).

You can say that if the BF loves you then they must sacrifice something, same thing can be said, if you love your BF, then you should accept and sacrifice....what happens then when your BF ask you that question?

If you scared your BF get it on with his best bud, I tell you now, guys normally do not get it on with girls that they are already familiar with, guys will get it on with girls they just meet and begin as only normal friends...why I know this....I see most of my guy friends that gets divorce because of this....they meet someone fresh and new..not the old friends

Lolz, this is sad...

How to stop your BF from being too close with a girl.
a) Buy BF cheating Insurance
b) Call Police to Lock the BF in Jail
c) Call Police to Lock the Girl in Jail
d) Find a Boy to marry the Girl
e) Leave them alone and trust your BF
f) Tell your BF your worries

The answer is sooo obvious when this question is asked. It's only the fact that someone is being very insecure.

How about just leave this BF and find another one who's GAY or do not have any female friend. (This is the only way to solve the problem if that's what "you" want)

keep your enemy close =)

I am a married man. My wife works as a therapist, using electricity to massage the body. One of the therapist is a male. A single who is in this 30s and in his facebook likes jav movies with fantasy perverted idea like father with daughter-in-law, neighbour with lonely wife, friend's wife etc. As colleague sometime they massage each other to heal the body. Bear in mind woman need to unhook the bra and lower down the panty to just above butt crack area. The massage can be 1 or 2 hours on each . Just imagine the longest they spend 4 hours together doing each other body. Sometime only 2 of them are around. I had discussion with my wife that I dont like his colleague to massage her. To say I am not jealous I would be lying. I spoken to her about that and she said nothing will happen between them. She told me that they treated him like a "sister" .I trusted her on that but I told her I don't trust him and dont let your guard down. How else he will get close and enjoy the benefit of massage if he dont act like one as their "sister". I told her the acid test will come only when he "accidentally" (for being drunk (maybe both got tipsy)/lied about uncontrol urge) & touch you inappropriately or worst have sex with you: Would you forgive him (after all your "sister" gave excuse "drunk/uncontrolled urge"; or blame yourself for being too close/too open/too touchy with your "sister". The problem is only we will know when the test come.

I told her, what about that you being so comfortable with his sisterly present that he might be the pervert who had hidden camera? The only advice for me to her is to be careful, & I want to hear that she will be careful, that's the only thing I want to hear from her. I don't want to hear about your sisterly relation/your professional therapist/ or just treat yoiu both like doctor & patient, full stop.

I am sometime bog down by this hoping that the test will not come one day. I trust my wife BUT I DON'T TRUST THAT SHIT HEAD. As a man, I know that I shouldn't be so insecure, and being insecure is not sexy. I told her that I trusted her to work there. She told me not think too badly.

Lastly as a man, I know that I am capable to seduce by the sight of body, by the touch of soft skin and I believe that I will try not to succumb to that by avoiding too much with the opposite sex and trying my best not to do things that I know she would not be happy, and I trusted her too. My only problem is that what if "ACCIDENT" happened. Just hope that the acid test.......

Nothing wrong. I'm sure you have close male friends.

I feel yah man. Shit happens.