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SUSjayqc
post Jun 20 2012, 02:05 PM

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QUOTE(yaokb @ Jun 20 2012, 09:56 AM)
Exactly how old are u jayqc??
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QUOTE(yaokb @ Jun 20 2012, 10:42 AM)
no, I think he should tell us himself.
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QUOTE(Jonrev @ Jun 20 2012, 10:44 AM)
erm.. lets say he is old enough to frequent prostitutes and sometimes give them money cause he feel pity for them and not pity for TS mum or any married women that is facing this issues. Hurray to humanity cheers.gif
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QUOTE(cutiepooh @ Jun 20 2012, 10:43 AM)
I don't think he will tell us.....
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QUOTE(yaokb @ Jun 20 2012, 11:04 AM)
this is an open forum where all our real identities are obscured.

what anyone thinks of me will be of no consequence, unless i am insecure and need their approval.

I say what i think is right and i will stand by it.

oh. so i guess i better start. Right?

I'm 51.

jayqc?
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I am 21.

QUOTE(cutiesbaby312 @ Jun 20 2012, 10:31 AM)
i think jacqc is a sadist who lives a pathetic life  doh.gif
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sadist - someone who obtains pleasure from inflicting pain or others.

I hope you can reconsider the usage of the word on me. tq.

QUOTE(cutiepooh @ Jun 20 2012, 11:10 AM)
Even if he tells us but it will be another lie for us  smile.gif. Some think he is old enough to talk and some think that he might be still a kid. For me,  I think he is a very stubborn & ego guy. A person who makes himself right to cause other in suffering. He only care about his own feeling. This type of person is dangerous, be his friend he might push you to die, be his colleague he might step on you or be "Gold finger" as long as he got the benefits, others die just non of his business. For family, as for his replies. What's wrong with the men have an affair. He will indeed cares other woman who got his kid rather than his own family. He doesn't know how to weigh the right & wrong. He allows the guilt eaten him up. He can told us, 20 years of marriage. just blame the mom didn't wear a pair of eyes to meet the husband.
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the highlighted points are indeed judgemental. In addition, I supporting others doesn't means I will follow their footsteps.

QUOTE(catherinessc @ Jun 20 2012, 12:18 PM)
I look down on u, seriously... shakehead.gif

or maybe I shouldn't judge u base on this comment..perhaps u r also from such a family? Poor kid...


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Ain't you judging me now?

This post has been edited by jayqc: Jun 20 2012, 02:09 PM
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post Jun 20 2012, 02:24 PM

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QUOTE(cutiepooh @ Jun 20 2012, 02:13 PM)
Nontheless, We can only advice or give opinions here. We can't against anything for TS. Stay or leave he has done the wrong. When it comes to the right time, solution will only have one or two we don't know. TS makes the decision.


Added on June 20, 2012, 2:16 pm

You highlighted people's judgment on you. But you indeed judged on TS mom and commented/made judgement too for others.
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in my first post in the tered, I said I believe, my assessment can be wrong on that.

QUOTE(yaokb @ Jun 20 2012, 02:17 PM)
Ah. 21, Unmarried. Single without gf?

possibly parents still happily together.

jayqc. I am sure you love your mom.

if you found out today that your dad has a kid and a mistress, what will your first reaction be?

a) Yahoo! i have a little brother/sister!
b) shit.
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Ask him whether the mistress better looking than mom or not and she local/age

This post has been edited by jayqc: Jun 20 2012, 02:24 PM
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post Jun 20 2012, 02:35 PM

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QUOTE(cutiesbaby312 @ Jun 20 2012, 02:29 PM)
jayqc, ur replies really........  doh.gif  doh.gif ur a goner.. and lets pray the same thing doens't happen on u. Oh no, more like stay where u are.. don't get a gf/wife to hurt them for your happiness - pleasure.

im gonna leave this thread for ur unreasonable debates. kthxsbye
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I am not going to debate with someone who likes to go for personal attack. by calling me a sadist. 'little people' will do all sort of things including personal attack. Do you know what a sadist means? I hope you do some research on that.
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post Jun 20 2012, 02:44 PM

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QUOTE(cutiepooh @ Jun 20 2012, 02:33 PM)
Only one thing can judge you now, you really experienced it. Your mom is a china lady and you are the son. Based on the reply you answered me on page 5 So if I have not experience it, i cannot give advice. Just found it is a waste to talk to a person like you. doh.gif  doh.gif  doh.gif  doh.gif
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Yr quote
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Accept it and so easily? Don't ask others to take your advice cause you are not really in TS shoe.


My quote
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So if I have not experience it, i cannot give advice. if in that case, 90% of the advices here given by other fellow members to not need to be followed since how many had not experience such a issue be4.


I hope you can understand what I meant by now. If still cannot understand, please attend some english classes. If you need one, feel free to contact me, i will pass you british council's number.


Added on June 20, 2012, 2:45 pm
QUOTE(yaokb @ Jun 20 2012, 02:39 PM)
wow. really?

was i wrong when i said i am sure you love your mom?

jayqc.
you must know when to further your arguments and when to retreat in order not to appear an absolute idiot.
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your are indeed wrong. I do not really love my mom.

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post Jun 20 2012, 03:08 PM

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QUOTE(cutiepooh @ Jun 20 2012, 02:49 PM)
Don't act smart like your English is better than anyone here. you are trying to distorted all the things. Don't try to hide your identity. Show your face then. If you got no face. I give you a plastic surgery number so you can change another face. Who wanna get your contact. I think you keep it to the china lady since your post mentioned it you do know some of them are really nice. You are a sick kid. A person like you, no love is forever alone and it is worse than an animal. A child with no love? Oh no, Is that you worth no one to love from the past....You indeed need some love. Learn to be a good boy. I feel you are very lonely boy. A person like you don't even need a number, See you face and start talking can give you a big slap on your both faces.  shakehead.gif
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Firstly, I am not acting smart. I am just telling you to read my whole sentence just in case you have missed it unintentionally.
secondly, Why do I have to show my face here? It is a forum sweetheart. If everytime someone wins an argument or someone loses an argument, then they are many faces shown in this forum.
thirdly, I am not an animal. just because i m single doesn't mean i need to be worse than an animal.
fourthly, I have enough love from various people. thanks for yr kindness. If you want to shower me some love since you say i no love, I would whole-heartedly accept yr love.

QUOTE(cutiesbaby312 @ Jun 20 2012, 02:57 PM)
Yes, I truly understood what sadist means and I do not need extra English classes.

You derive happiness from having extra pleasure out of the marriage in which you supported whole heartedly. Sadism quoted from Wikipedia: Sadism is the derivation of pleasure as a result of inflicting pain or watching pain inflicted on others.

When you endlessly pointed back TS mum's was at fault and how she had to accept the fact now, you're indeed a person who loves to watch others in pain just to satisfy your needs physically and mentally? That I don't know. I really pity your mum. Try to do a recap in your life, who GAVE birth to you?
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I strongly believe that ts's dad has been a playboy long before he known ts's mom.

QUOTE(Jonrev @ Jun 20 2012, 02:58 PM)
no wonder, you are 21 years old and you do not love ur mum. u just started adulthood but acting like you know what is best and what is right. I lol when u say u will ask ur dad whether the mistress is prettier than ur mum, y ah? u also want to join in the party?
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maybe I put it in another way. I love my dad more.
the highlighted part, I can only give this doh.gif


Added on June 20, 2012, 3:12 pm
QUOTE(ngsyin @ Jun 20 2012, 03:07 PM)
You must have gone through something within your family that makes you feel okay for men/dad to seek pleasure outside. Is it due to your mum? Can see that you don't have a good relationship with her...
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to me as long as men play outside safely and can still take care (provide financially) of/(to) the family. come home everynight and still loves the wife. I consider him a good man. of coz, if he can restrains from playing outside, I consider him a better man.
to me i prefer man to eat outside than to be a gambler. I hate gambler.

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post Jun 20 2012, 03:19 PM

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QUOTE(cutiepooh @ Jun 20 2012, 03:17 PM)
Too many faces you are taking role on each replies. If you can strongly believe in something why can't I strongly believe that your replies is indeed an inhumanity acts?  Duhzzz...
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okay fine then.

off topic, are you an emotional person? try to control yr emotions if you are one.
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post Jun 20 2012, 03:28 PM

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QUOTE(cutiepooh @ Jun 20 2012, 03:22 PM)
Now you wanna off topic already whistling.gif  whistling.gif Are you a lost kid? Come one la. 21 only not 61. Continue your story if you think others were wrong.
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again i did not say you all are wrong. i m just standing by my own viewpoint.



@yaokb,i will learn to love my mom.

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post Jun 20 2012, 03:38 PM

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QUOTE(Jonrev @ Jun 20 2012, 03:28 PM)
kiddo, who needs a hubby who gives me money and come home after having a happy session with the girls outside? what is the difference between this and a prostitute? how can u say he still take care, love the wife when he is outside playing around? my house is not a hotel, it is a HOME.
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y cannot? i met some men be4, they are able to.

QUOTE(cutiesbaby312 @ Jun 20 2012, 03:34 PM)
Chill gents and lads, it's pointless to argue or debate with someone who had shaped their distorted thoughts since he was a toddler. smile.gif
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speechless

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post Jun 20 2012, 03:47 PM

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QUOTE(ngsyin @ Jun 20 2012, 03:38 PM)
Wife is not a prostitute, dude...
If you are the wife, will you be happy if your husband go cari makan outside and comes back as if nothing happens??
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but if the husband want to curi makan outside, ntg you can do to stop that right? probably you will say divorce.

QUOTE(cutiesbaby312 @ Jun 20 2012, 03:44 PM)
One word - Heartless or LACK of love.

He doesn't understand what love is, thus no point asking him to stand in mum/wife's shoe. He will continue to use MONEY and MAN power to do the talking. As long as I got BIG heart and BIG money, i can take care more woman if i want to.  rclxm9.gif  rclxm9.gif  rclxm9.gif  doh.gif  doh.gif  doh.gif

Society doesn't need more heartbreaker like you jacqc. Cut the crap before karma finds you
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pity the chinese woman and the kid and the father. no one stand by them.
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post Jun 20 2012, 04:02 PM

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QUOTE(cutiepooh @ Jun 20 2012, 03:52 PM)
You met those men who painted you with the wrong pictures. Why didn't you meet those nice one. Take the good example, the guys here who disagree your replies? You cannot use the bad or the worst one to compare. Then you will never improve and change. You should see and meet those who are good, better or best. It is never too late to love your mom. But please don't force yourself to love her if you never think to do it by giving all you heart.
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the guys over here i have doubt whether they will not eat outside. If a girl beautiful girl willingly sleep with one of the guys here, i doubt he can control it eventhou he is married.

QUOTE(Jonrev @ Jun 20 2012, 03:52 PM)
lol.. u very funny. the more u reply this way, the more i think that u are the illegitimate child of one prc and ur dad, tats y u dun really like ur mum and u come here rant rant rant all day long so that ppl can pity u doh.gif

ps: its just my opinion
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So what if i m the illegitimate child? i m still his child.

QUOTE(cutiesbaby312 @ Jun 20 2012, 03:53 PM)
why you want to pity the chinese lady and son when you have your biological siblings and mother in hurt?  doh.gif Care for families well-being before reaching out to care for others.

We did not side anyone in this point but definitely not siding TS dad at all.
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Did i not encourage ts to care for his siblings and mother? no right. in fact i ask her to take care of the mother if my memories still serve me well.


QUOTE(Lucifer96 @ Jun 20 2012, 03:53 PM)
1. Yes on divorce if nothing could be salvaged. Take the 50% of what he have, and never look back.

2. No one in their right frame of mind would take pity on a man that turn his back on his faithful wife that took care of his family and gave birth to his offspring.
It's not right. No matter what you say to justify that twisted mind of yours.
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he also work hard like a dog to provide for the family.
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post Jun 20 2012, 04:18 PM

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QUOTE(yaokb @ Jun 20 2012, 04:11 PM)
fyi. i have been married 23 years, and never once have i succumbed to such temptation.

why? because i chose not to.

love is not just feeling. it is an act of will.

when you choose to get married, you are saying to your spouse. i am yours exclusively and similarly you are mine.
it takes will power to abstain from the many temptations in the working world, but not impossible to do.

to succumb to such temptation is to act immature, to put your own interests before the interests of your spouse and family.

if you succumb, you are in effect saying, i am weak and i have no self control.

every other reason is just an excuse.
wife not loving la, no longer beautiful la, got seduced la. got tricked la.

such men never think, my wife has given up everyone else to be with me, therefore, i must reciprocate the sacrifice and remain faithful.
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you are indeed a good man. I can never be like you.btw, yr wife is cutiepooh?


QUOTE(cutiepooh @ Jun 20 2012, 04:11 PM)
Do you ever think of it, If one day he has no $$$$ anymore even spent up all his saving and EPF becuz of the short-term happiness, he might need to sell whatever he can to survive. Nah, Don't tell me he is a rich man or something. What if he were not a rich man with retired age? Start over again and build a new family with the newborn baby and the lady? How many men will really do it for real? How many ladies are willing to start everything with the man who left nothing in the end? Will the family generous enough to forgive the Husband aka dad?
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if I, i will be responsible.


Added on June 20, 2012, 4:19 pm
QUOTE(cutiepooh @ Jun 20 2012, 04:16 PM)
You made a judgement for the rest. You think and doubt that every guys and men have the same thought like yours. Point is you still stubborn, When you were wrong you didn't want to admit it and pulled everyone around you to die together. You are helpless kid. shakehead.gif
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okay fine, i am an animal, sadist, helpless kid, illegitimate kid , wat else?

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post Jun 20 2012, 04:25 PM

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QUOTE(cutiesbaby312 @ Jun 20 2012, 04:20 PM)
Dont make me laugh when you say you'd be responsible for the wife/kid outside when you AREN"T even responsible and keep your promise to the marriage. Rubbish! doh.gif


Added on June 20, 2012, 4:21 pm

Very well said. Salute to man like you. smile.gif
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okay. 'If'. i m not planning to get married, so it is alright.

QUOTE(cutiepooh @ Jun 20 2012, 04:23 PM)
So you are telling us you are gonna marry one girl, then go out and eat all the way you like. Show the world, you choose the Chinese lady and then tell the god you can be the man to bear all the consequences. Heck, I pray no one to marry you and no one can let you play all the way you like.
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okay. no one will marry me.
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post Jun 20 2012, 04:29 PM

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QUOTE(cutiepooh @ Jun 20 2012, 04:27 PM)
Loneliness the best to describe you.  doh.gif
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okay lar, i m lonely while you have many people surrounding you waiting, lining up to shower you with love.
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post Jun 20 2012, 04:34 PM

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QUOTE(cutiepooh @ Jun 20 2012, 04:29 PM)
Then you should ask yourself why.You think if you want to marry then marry so easily ar. shakehead.gif


Added on June 20, 2012, 4:31 pm

Ok la, I guess you want the number of others to shower you with love even no one lining up and waiting for you lar.
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okay. no one wants to marry me, i live alone and die alone. sad.gif
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post Jun 20 2012, 04:37 PM

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QUOTE(Jonrev @ Jun 20 2012, 04:34 PM)
this kiddo provide us with good entertainment for the past few days. He's just immature, at 21, i doubt he is working. flaunting money to buy him 1 hour happiness using his dad's money and telling the whole world that women are just a tool, Shame kiddo.. Duh.. no one in their right mind will think of marrying this type of men.
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go on more personal attacks on me. just because my views are different, i m labelled immature. women as usual. btw, those money i spent on girls are my own money. I worked like a dog during sem breaks. and i never thought for a sec women are tool. I have great respect for women.

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post Jun 20 2012, 04:46 PM

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QUOTE(Jonrev @ Jun 20 2012, 04:44 PM)
oh, then i should be proud of u that u are in college, but work like a dog to spend on girls to buy u happiness? oh wow... impressive! smile.gif  good job kiddo. great respect for women by paying them to service u?
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you are pulling two different things together. what's wrong with me buying happiness? it is not against the law right? I m still single and i have my needs.
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post Jun 20 2012, 05:00 PM

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QUOTE(cutiepooh @ Jun 20 2012, 04:48 PM)
Work like a dog so sanfu already still wanna spent on girls ( Don't know what girls you are talking to, maybe the previous replies some china ladies) and fool around. The more you reply it shows that you really didn't have any good points for a girl/good gf to shower you with true love. That's why you need to use $$$$$ to spend on them. Duhz!!! No wonder you were telling us what's wrong if a man having fun outside. Big mistake doh.gif  doh.gif  doh.gif  doh.gif  doh.gif  doh.gif  doh.gif  doh.gif  doh.gif  shakehead.gif


Added on June 20, 2012, 4:51 pm

Ya shame on you. Parents raised you up and you were not earning the $$$$ to save in the bank or help the family but buying your own happiness. A spoilt and very damaged kid I can see. Shouldn't study anymore you should work in Bintang Parade.
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I am spending my legitimate moneys on girls. I do not see any problem wit that. just like you girls spent money on luxury bags, some spent on gadgets, some on vacation etc. as long as you have excess money and not borrowing money for those extra needs, what is wrong with it? as if you never spent yr excess money on things that make you happy. in addition, you buying luxury bags is like donating more money to those rich businessmen. while i m maybe helping people to meet end meet. have money to sent home to their family members, sent money for their siblings to study., put rice on the table etc.


QUOTE(Jonrev @ Jun 20 2012, 04:54 PM)
No, of course it is not against the law. But u say u dont treat them as a tool, well to pay for service is already treating them as a tool to release ur lust. But well, continue paying for your happiness.. we all dont really care also.
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watever i say, you sure will twist and turn it around. i m always on the losing side debating with you.
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post Jun 20 2012, 05:19 PM

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QUOTE(RUI @ Jun 20 2012, 05:14 PM)
Take a step back fellas. This is one lonely troll that's seriously deprived of attention.

So he must be smiling wide that so many people paying attention to him. Good job troll!
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say watever you think. but i tell you honestly i do not toll in CC. i only troll in another sub forum. trolling here will get my account suspended.
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post Jun 20 2012, 06:18 PM

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QUOTE(cutiesbaby312 @ Jun 20 2012, 05:41 PM)
jayqc lives in a state of denial that he thinks that whatever he's doing is contributing to others' needs such as feeding the ones waiting at home.

fyi jayqc, girls buying luxury items doesn't destroy family. but the way u buy happiness is simply wrong. nt many guys like u at ur age proudly announce to the world that yes, I DO go for prostitution. Better keep it low otherwise the probability of you searching for girl is below zero. But well, that doesn't matter to you right?

On the other hand, the probability is u getting disease is most likely above 50%. Ahh.. that doesn't even pinch my arse. Just a light nudge to your fresh brain. You have more to experience kid. Please mix with the right people with right mindset.
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thanks cutie for yr concern. when i play, i always play safely. of coz i would like someday our govt legalize prostitution. in doing that, we can curb diseases by having medical check up on those working in tat industy once a year or so. anyway, tat is my dream .

QUOTE(DeeteeCG @ Jun 20 2012, 05:43 PM)
well said.

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post Jun 20 2012, 08:37 PM

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QUOTE(n00b13 @ Jun 20 2012, 08:14 PM)
doh.gif  This is derailing the thread even more, but...

Calling someone stupid for his views is not curtailing his freedom of speech. Calling someone stupid for his views is freedom of speech. The price you pay for the freedom to speak is people judging you for what you say. Say something good and people will agree with you and admire you. Say something stupid and people will think you're stupid.

So if you don't want personal attacks against you for speaking your mind, don't say stupid things.
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there is no right or wrong in this. as the saying goes to each his own. If this is about being raped. and i whole-heartedly support the cause, then i m stupid and totally wrong. but in this case it is not.;

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