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post Dec 9 2012, 05:26 PM

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QUOTE(RUI @ Dec 8 2012, 08:10 PM)
Scenario:
BF: "Hi baby, how are you."
GF: "FINE! *A long face"
BF: "Everything alright?"
GF: "I said i'm FINE!"
BF: "What's with the long face?"
GF: "I dunno".(I personally hate this answer very much. I usually shove ice-cream or chocolate into her mouth and see what happens next.  biggrin.gif )
BF: "OK"
GF: "*continues with the long face".
rolleyes.gif What s2peMocls and Tyler_Durden - and even you - fail to realize is that this behaviour is not unique to women. Men behave this way too. I've seen my guy friends upset for various reasons and unwilling to talk about it. I've seen them prefer to indulge their hurt and resentment rather than open up to the person who made them hurt and resentful. I've been like this. And I bet so have you - all of you.
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post Dec 9 2012, 06:55 PM

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QUOTE(RUI @ Dec 9 2012, 11:08 AM)
Let me analyze the loop of your action.
You're not analysing, you're extrapolating.

QUOTE(RUI @ Dec 9 2012, 11:08 AM)
You punish her for being "childish". Later in the evening, you "demand" for a make up sex. She sulk and "withhold" sex from you. You further punishes her for "withhelding sex" with intention to CONTROL you. You refuses to submit. At the end of the day, Yay! you get to bang a tree for the weekend and she moved on with another dude/"mangina" in your dictionary blaming spannar for destroying your relationship.
Again, you're displaying solipsism. Her withholding sex is punishing my behavior of "demanding" make up sex. This pretty much renders the rest of your extrapolation invalid. And why would I demand make up sex when I'm not even asking for forgiveness? This proves that you don't even understand simply dynamics of relationship and you're just grabbing straws.

QUOTE(RUI @ Dec 9 2012, 11:08 AM)
Geez. No wonder you hate competition so bad. Whenever someone gets in between; you get blown away like a plastic bag.
Faulty extrapolation on your part implying you know how to apply to the situation, or that you know me well, which you obviously don't in both instances.

QUOTE(RUI @ Dec 9 2012, 11:08 AM)
Do as s2peMocls suggest, you will get to f*ck a tree for the weekend and blown away like a plastic bag when smallest competitor sets in.
That's why this "navigation" work IS complicated. Slightest mistake drops it to the bottom of the ocean.
But, the good thing is that you always have a next round with another woman. Maybe you will do better the next time.  icon_rolleyes.gif
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For a moment I thought you'd have some fibre of rationality, but nope, you're just making up crap pretending to understand simple concepts, but actually not, and acting like you the intimate lives of others so you can level personal attacks while at the same time be devoid of substance. It is so pathetic of you, as usual.


Added on December 9, 2012, 6:59 pm
QUOTE(n00b13 @ Dec 9 2012, 05:26 PM)
rolleyes.gif  What s2peMocls and Tyler_Durden - and even you - fail to realize is that this behaviour is not unique to women. Men behave this way too. I've seen my guy friends upset for various reasons and unwilling to talk about it. I've seen them prefer to indulge their hurt and resentment rather than open up to the person who made them hurt and resentful. I've been like this. And I bet so have you - all of you.
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And your guy friends constitute the majority of men ya?

Anyways, is it your understanding that the GF 's source of grief is the BF, thus she pulled the long face at him when he asked "How are you?" Because your explanation certainly sounds like it.

This post has been edited by s2peMocls: Dec 9 2012, 06:59 PM
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post Dec 9 2012, 07:12 PM

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QUOTE(s2peMocls @ Dec 9 2012, 06:55 PM)
Anyways, is it your understanding that the GF 's source of grief is the BF, thus she pulled the long face at him when he asked "How are you?" Because your explanation certainly sounds like it.
Doesn't matter who the source of grief is. Being upset, and being unwilling or unable to articulate that feeling, is an entirely human attitude and not specific to men or women.

QUOTE(s2peMocls @ Dec 9 2012, 06:55 PM)
And your guy friends constitute the majority of men ya?
If you're trying to imply that you have never felt that way, well... you are exactly as un-self-aware as I thought.

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post Dec 9 2012, 07:22 PM

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QUOTE(s2peMocls @ Dec 9 2012, 06:55 PM)

Again, you're displaying solipsism. Her withholding sex is punishing my behavior of "demanding" make up sex. This pretty much renders the rest of your extrapolation invalid. And why would I demand make up sex when I'm not even asking for forgiveness? This proves that you don't even understand simply dynamics of relationship and you're just grabbing straws.

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The rest are crap loads of denial statement that proves your inability for self-reflection. I will just focus on this one.
You DEMAND MAKE UP SEX so that you forgives her. It's never a bargain for a guy to offer sex in return for forgiveness. Women don't need them like how you do.
Of course, since you never reflect on your action. You never realize what an @ss you have been.
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post Dec 9 2012, 07:30 PM

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QUOTE(n00b13 @ Dec 9 2012, 07:12 PM)
Doesn't matter who the source of grief is. Being upset, and being unwilling or unable to articulate that feeling, is an entirely human attitude and not specific to men or women.
The source of grief matters. You are equating avoiding conflict with creating conflict. Unwilling and unable are VERY different things. Being unable to articulate feelings is NOT human attitude.
QUOTE(n00b13 @ Dec 9 2012, 07:12 PM)
If you're trying to imply that you have never felt that way, well... you are exactly as un-self-aware as I thought.
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Pfft... I've been articulating my feelings ever since I was born. Howevever, as a young boy, I was very quickly told not to. But I've not even once made it such that it becomes someone else's burden to open up my emotional faucet, and giving him/her a difficult time at it. Women on the other hand, had been encourage to express their feelings, and this is how they do it?

Grow up.


Added on December 9, 2012, 7:33 pm
QUOTE(RUI @ Dec 9 2012, 07:22 PM)
The rest are crap loads of denial statement that proves your inability for self-reflection. I will just focus on this one.
You DEMAND MAKE UP SEX so that you forgives her. It's never a bargain for a guy to offer sex in return for forgiveness. Women don't need them like how you do.
Of course, since you never reflect on your action. You never realize what an @ss you have been.
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WOW... I demand make up sex to forgive her? Hahah, you're a freaking idiot, I'd have make up sex AFTER I've forgiven her. If I had to forgive her after I had sex with her, then it's just no longer make up sex, it's power sex ya moron. BTW, didn't I already tell you your extrapolation is FAULTY?? Yet you keep head butting that issue as if you're oblivious to how flawed your "logic" is.

Talk about self reflection. LOL!! Look, if you don't understand relationship dynamics, quit pretending like you do, you're just giving me ammo to make you look like the ignorant idiot that you are.

This post has been edited by s2peMocls: Dec 9 2012, 07:44 PM
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post Dec 9 2012, 07:35 PM

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QUOTE(s2peMocls @ Dec 9 2012, 07:30 PM)
Pfft... I've been articulating my feelings ever since I was born. Howevever, as a young boy, I was very quickly told not to. But I've not even once made it such that it becomes someone else's burden to open up my emotional faucet, and giving him/her a difficult time at it. Women on the other hand, had been encourage to express their feelings, and this is how they do it?
And once again, you turn the topic to a screed against women? laugh.gif

Good Lord, you're like a button labelled "Press For Misogyny." rolleyes.gif

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post Dec 9 2012, 07:43 PM

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QUOTE(n00b13 @ Dec 9 2012, 07:35 PM)
And once again, you turn the topic to a screed against women?  laugh.gif

Good Lord, you're like a button labelled "Press For Misogyny."  rolleyes.gif
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While I find women "confusing", you are downright lost.

Someone said women are "complicated", I explained the situation, then someone idiot came in and said "derp di derp women are confusing because.." supplementing a conversation manginas can relate to. So I said "this is how I will handle it", then you responded to the derp guy buy saying "NAWALT and it's not just women", I disagree and I turned the topic against women?

WTF?????

Oh yeah, one more thing. So your retort is basically "I've got no substance so I'll just call you a misogynist, I think I will win the argument that way" LOL.

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post Dec 9 2012, 07:47 PM

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QUOTE(s2peMocls @ Dec 9 2012, 07:30 PM)
I forgiven her. If I had to forgive her after I had sex with her, then it's just no longer make up sex, it's power sex ya moron. BTW, didn't I already tell you your extrapolation is FAULTY?? Yet you keep head butting that issue as if you're oblivious to how flawed your "logic" is.

Talk about self reflection. LOL!! Look, if you don't understand relationship dynamics, quit pretending like you do, you're just giving me ammo to make you look like the ignorant idiot that you are.
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Think like an @sshole. Behaves like an @sshole. Definitely looking like an @sshole.
I'm just enjoying looking at what type of @sshole you can project yourself to be. Go on, keep telling yourself your are not. biggrin.gif
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post Dec 9 2012, 07:51 PM

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QUOTE(RUI @ Dec 9 2012, 07:47 PM)
Think like an @sshole. Behaves like an @sshole. Definitely looking like an @sshole.
I'm just enjoying looking at what type of @sshole you can project yourself to be. Go on, keep telling yourself your are not. biggrin.gif
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So like n00b13, you're just going below the belt even though you had implicitly expressed you really ARE clueless about relationship dynamics. Good going. Come back when you've gained some experienced and reached like.... level 2.
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QUOTE(RUI @ Dec 9 2012, 11:08 AM)
That's why this "navigation" work IS complicated. Slightest mistake drops it to the bottom of the ocean.
But, the good thing is that you always have a next round with another woman. Maybe you will do better the next time.  icon_rolleyes.gif
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Not really. The best way is to ignore their tantrums, just as you don't reward children when they're throwing tantrums for not giving them their toys.
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post Dec 9 2012, 07:57 PM

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QUOTE(Tyler__Durden @ Dec 9 2012, 07:55 PM)
Not really. The best way is to ignore their tantrums, just as you don't reward children when they're throwing tantrums for not giving them their toys.
Because all women are children and you are their father? Does that make you a pedophile? laugh.gif rolleyes.gif
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post Dec 9 2012, 08:05 PM

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QUOTE(s2peMocls @ Dec 9 2012, 07:51 PM)
So like n00b13, you're just going below the belt even though you had implicitly expressed you really ARE clueless about relationship dynamics. Good going. Come back when you've gained some experienced and reached like.... level 2.
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You got wha whaatt? Level 25? If learning "relationship dynamics" like you did will degrade my intelligence to your, level 0. I rather stay at level 0 in relationship dynamics. At least I keep my intelligence and common sense.
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post Dec 9 2012, 08:14 PM

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QUOTE(RUI @ Dec 9 2012, 08:05 PM)
You got wha whaatt? Level 25? If learning "relationship dynamics" like you did will degrade my intelligence to your, level 0. I rather stay at level 0 in relationship dynamics. At least I keep my intelligence and common sense.
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Yes, the kind of intelligence that think impotence and emasculation to be different things, and make up sex and power sex to be the same things. And the kind of common sense that says "hey that is the wrong way, but I'm going to go there anyway".

Real champ. Women must be tripping over themselves and ditching their men for you, you wonderful white knight you...

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QUOTE(s2peMocls @ Dec 9 2012, 08:14 PM)
Yes, the kind of intelligence that think impotence and emasculation to be different things, and make up sex and power sex to be the same things. And the kind of common sense that says "hey that is the wrong way, but I'm going to go there anyway".

Real champ. Women must be tripping over themselves and ditching their men for you, you wonderful white knight you...
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That's what a Level 25 "relationship dynamic" hero does. Twisting and putting words into others mouth as their ultimate skill to champion his extremely hilarious idiotic ideology. What i'm more interested to see is if there is any other stupid ideology coming from level 25 "relationship dynamic" hero like you. Maybe it get even more funny when you got urself upgraded to level 26. rclxms.gif Couldn't be more excited. biggrin.gif

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post Dec 9 2012, 08:39 PM

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QUOTE(RUI @ Dec 9 2012, 08:24 PM)
That's what a Level 25 "relationship dynamic" hero does. Twisting and putting words into others mouth as their ultimate skill to champion his extremely hilarious idiotic ideology. What i'm more interested to see is if there is any other stupid ideology coming from level 25 "relationship dynamic" hero like you. Maybe it get even more funny when you got urself upgraded to level 26.  rclxms.gif Couldn't be more excited.  biggrin.gif
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Yes, I'm totally putting words you did not say in your mouth ya?

quote=RUI,Dec 5 2012, 04:48 PM
You do sounded like both impotent and emasculated.
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quote=RUI,Dec 6 2012, 12:49 PM
I admit. I never know any of these adjectives.
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Second one does sound a lot like an admission rather than sarcasm laugh.gif
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QUOTE(s2peMocls @ Dec 9 2012, 08:39 PM)
Yes, I'm totally putting words you did not say in your mouth ya?

quote=RUI,Dec 5 2012, 04:48 PM
You do sounded like both impotent and emasculated.
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Oh yeah, you completely ignored the explanation on how I got to this conclusion. Why not you quote that too?
Oppps...Another killer skill a level 25 "Relationship dynamics"(Idiot) hero has... How could I not know that? biggrin.gif

QUOTE(s2peMocls @ Dec 9 2012, 08:39 PM)
quote=RUI,Dec 6 2012, 12:49 PM
I admit. I never know any of these adjectives.
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Second one does sound a lot like an admission rather than sarcasm laugh.gif
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I'm not a buffoon like you do.
That explains my ignorance on adjective to describe a buffoon like you. nod.gif
Catch the sarcasm yet?

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post Dec 9 2012, 09:53 PM

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QUOTE(RUI @ Dec 9 2012, 08:47 PM)
Oh yeah, you completely ignored the explanation on how I got to this conclusion. Why not you quote that too?
Oppps...Another killer skill a level 25 "Relationship dynamics"(Idiot) hero has... How could I not know that?  biggrin.gif 
I'm not a buffoon like you do.
That explains my ignorance on adjective to describe a buffoon like you.  nod.gif
Catch the sarcasm yet?
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What? NOW you want to defend yourself? Hahahah. You pick a completely random and irrelevant quote and then you mix up you vocab, and then a few threads later you're like "You're out of context!!" while in between you had committed similar comprehension errors. Anyway, thanks to you I've got plenty of ammo to shoot you down with, and they're not made up of stalker-style personal insults laugh.gif
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QUOTE(s2peMocls @ Dec 9 2012, 09:53 PM)
What? NOW you want to defend yourself? Hahahah. You pick a completely random and irrelevant quote and then you mix up you vocab, and then a few threads later you're like "You're out of context!!" while in between you had committed similar comprehension errors. Anyway, thanks to you I've got plenty of ammo to shoot you down with, and they're not made up of stalker-style personal insults laugh.gif
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Since your twisted head brought the discussion to Pluto. I find no reason to continue the discussion with any logic. To deal with those beyond reasoned; one will have to be unreasonable themselves.
Of course, if you are talking from Pluto, you can even "nuke" me if you want to. laugh.gif
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QUOTE(RUI @ Dec 10 2012, 10:57 AM)
Since your twisted head brought the discussion to Pluto. I find no reason to continue the discussion with any logic. To deal with those beyond reasoned; one will have to be unreasonable themselves.
Of course, if you are talking from Pluto, you can even "nuke" me if you want to.  laugh.gif
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Yes, in your head that kind of personal insult makes much more sense than real world social dynamics laugh.gif

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