This....eh sorry out of topic...my friend is coming back from Germany next year..if he brings spanish fly....will he kena lock up? LOL

mebbe ur sex drive too high and ur gf feels u only wanna have sex wif her.. maybe concentrate on ur communication with her.. show her u dun just want her for her body.

if they know what is that. just say medicine

Your stories are common TS, below are real life examples:-

Case 1: The problem is the guy, bad body odour, not hygiene, weird sex hobby that turns her off that she wouldnt tell u directly.

Case 2: The girl is bi-sexual, as times passes by, she prefer sexing with female than male.

main problem is most likely with you. Also, do get her excited not only about sex, get her excited emotionally and mentally. further more, put some spice in your love life.

maybe she beh tahan with ur ham sapness ...... that y she try to control u not play too much

2nd day of our meet up/dating.
- We have lunch, dinner, movie and also sex (both of us is virgin).

Wondering is it that easy to get sex? 2nd day already get to have sex. nice.

TS: something had happen in u & her romance. U need to find out the core. Don't just sex sex sex sex, u need to know more on her feelings. U must investigate this issue, it must had something that she kept in her mind/heart that not willing to tell u for some reason. all the reason she gave u while having sex if just a lie for her to settle the unwanted sex situation.

add-on: its not easy, u must be patient and be a good listener if she tells u what happen.

This post has been edited by skydrake: Sep 14 2012, 05:37 PM

Building up the asmospere / mood is very important before sex . Girls even women in their thrirties , forties or fifty like to be pamper /cuddle & hear lovely sweet nothing . Tipu tipu abit lah ,bro coz for girls / women maybe the first couple of months are excited coz new to partner but as times goes by ,they will feel like being used /pakai like a sex object by us ,men As for us men it's understandable that we can be into sex straight away most of the time but women ???????? Emotion ,mood , enviroment ...ect all these play a very important part in a woman sex life .My 2cents worth .

This post has been edited by limking: Dec 1 2012, 10:55 AM

both of u must be desperate.

yet again, too often pre-marital sex will destroy a relationship.

you are the guy, and do you think having sex all the time in your relationship is healthy?

When you marry her, no fun d loh?

Dont always give it to her whenever she's in the mood. Let her wait, fondle her, caress her and foreplay her without orgasm. After 3 days, i confirm she cannot tahan d and need to release.

I have sex, but sometimes i refrain us from having sex for 2 months? 3months? why? this is to keep her excitement high. But once she marries me legally. Habis la.

try to understand her,women is very3 complicated creature,,im a woman but i rarely understand women,,they r soooooo confusing,,but soo adorable,hehe,,just b patience,,dont bullet train her,,slow n steady won the race

Stuff i read up based on statistics in the change of behaviour.

1. she really just wans a shoulder, someone who will listen, someone to talk to. she not just meat for u to have sex 24/7. Sex isnt everything, communicate more. Feeling loved it better than just having orgasms.

2. there's a 3rd party that she did not tell you about. and now she doesn't know wat to do. might have found new sex excitements with some1 else and lost them with u. if so, u'll have to face it.

3. something happened, at her workplace or her family something.

Just talk to her man. And listen. NEVER cut her off. NEVER make her feel defensive, else she'll lock herself in and she wont tell u wats wrong. Then u'll need all the luck in the world.

you re not enuff skill~

Women are not complicated. Complicated implies an intricate system that in the end is functional. Woman are just confused, capricious at best.

There's a reason why many men fail at understanding women, and once you know what that reason is, you will understand them.

I don't mean to laugh.
But can anyone actually able make any sense out of this statement?

"Woman are just confused, capricious at best." BUT "Women are not complicated."

I beg to differ, they are complicated because they are always confused and capricious. They are confused of that they want. They are confused why they are capricious-A BIG PROBLEM.

Scenario:
BF: "Hi baby, how are you."
GF: "FINE! *A long face"
BF: "Everything alright?"
GF: "I said i'm FINE!"
BF: "What's with the long face?"
GF: "I dunno".(I personally hate this answer very much. I usually shove ice-cream or chocolate into her mouth and see what happens next. )
BF: "OK"
GF: "*continues with the long face".

How the f*ck any BF wouldn't find women and this situation NOT complicated. If women don't know what they want, even the most pathetic "man-gina in s2peMocls list" wouldn't be able to be one. This is how complicated women can be.

This post has been edited by RUI: Dec 8 2012, 08:10 PM

Hmm... I could've sworn I had explained the difference in the original post. Solipsism had made you oblivious to it. As I had said, complicated would still mean a functioning system. Confusing can indicate a dysfunctional system. Seriously, if you're too lazy to dig through a dictionary, just admit it.

Obviously a failed conversation between a mangina and a typical girl.

This is how my conversation would have gone.
BF: "Hi. how was your day?" (I will not use terms of endearment unless she deserves it)
GF: "FINE! *A long face"
BF: "You sure?"
GF: "I said i'm FINE!"
BF: "Cool."

At this point, the GF will either continue sulking quietly, or go into rage mode. Given that she goes into rage mode, this is probably how the conversation will go.
GF: "You're supposed to ask me 'What's with the long face?'
BF: "Not anymore."

And that will be the end of it. Guess what I just did? I punished bad behaviour. If she'd calm down and talk, I'd reward her with being empathizing. No "complication" involved. Yeah yeah, you manginas and girls will say "any girl will dump you in a heartbeat if you treat her that way", well guess what, they (yes that's right, THEY) didn't. If you don't have the balls to try it, don't claim to know it.

This post has been edited by s2peMocls: Dec 9 2012, 02:05 AM

A women's mood are always changing like the sea, now a mangina can either follow the waves and sunk into the bottom of the ocean, or navigate through it with compass and direction(game).

TS, this seems a little direct downturn mood from previously horny into such a sex limited kitten.

try talk to her, or get her some medical attention.
even myself are afraid, if my wife suddenly say dont do such things, we are married for quite long already...and i cant have it less for even one day..

Complicated can be functional while confused/capricious MIGHT BE dysfunctional.
Why not either both functional or dysfunctional? Why have a biased view on an exact same scenarios?


Let me analyze the loop of your action. You punish her for being "childish". Later in the evening, you "demand" for a make up sex. She sulk and "withhold" sex from you. You further punishes her for "withhelding sex" with intention to CONTROL you. You refuses to submit. At the end of the day, Yay! you get to bang a tree for the weekend and she moved on with another dude/"mangina" in your dictionary blaming spannar for destroying your relationship.

Geez. No wonder you hate competition so bad. Whenever someone gets in between; you get blown away like a plastic bag.
Do as s2peMocls suggest, you will get to f*ck a tree for the weekend and blown away like a plastic bag when smallest competitor sets in.

That's why this "navigation" work IS complicated. Slightest mistake drops it to the bottom of the ocean.
But, the good thing is that you always have a next round with another woman. Maybe you will do better the next time.