Go to Registrar of Civil Marriages.

Fill in form. Pay a fee. Wait 30 days.

Get witnesses. Sign papers.

Done.

I am a buddhist. My gf a christian.

We never think of this until lately.

How do we get married ? 

Any opinion is welcome 

this is legal process.

what i mean is after that.

I am a buddhist. My gf a christian.

We never think of this until lately.

How do we get married ? 

Any opinion is welcome 

Don't worry. Your gf will slowly brainwash you to Christian

I think marry in church is dream for most of the Christian girl.
Is hard to accept by Christian girl if they got to kneel down and serve tea for their mother and father in law, and hold joss sticks to pray her husband's ancestors.
But I think is not a big deal for Buddha guy to marry in church. (Think positively, you can save the "Ping kam" money for your honeymoon too.)

i'm not sure about others
but my family mostly christian
and during wedding ceremony also have to kneel down and serve tea one lor
serving tea is a tradition
nothing to do with religion one 

my family a lot of uncles aunties married non-christian
but no problem one
so it really depends on the individual
some of my cousins go to church
some don't

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.. uncles aunties from old generation.

new generation very picky now. everything also sin sin sin.. sinner.. repent. the L.O.M. will cast upon you his wrath and all non-believers if u dare to step foot in the church as a sinner.

going to church or not is one thing. when the topic of marriage comes, all the best to your family and extension families ya  

but uptil now still no problem for my family

don't know, but after joining LYN only i realised the people outside got so many problems
all these while my life very peaceful one
didn't know people got so many problems one 

says the girl born with a silver spoon in mouth

I don't think you understand what this phrase means. 

Born into a wealthy family.. go to 14th floor now pls

People who have had peaceful family relations are not necessarily wealthy.

People who have had peaceful family relations are not necessarily wealthy.

Xtians... mostly are narrow minded pest that wanna convert people into like them.... cannot question anything etc.
they even convert those deathbed patients....

Resistance is futile... u will b assimilated.

I am a buddhist. My gf a christian.

We never think of this until lately.

How do we get married ? 

Any opinion is welcome 

You must learn about Christian principles and become a Christian.
The first thing you should do is to learn about the Bible and believe in Jesus Christ.
Receive Jesus' love first and save your spirit so that you can go to Heaven.
This is very important !

Evangelical pest spotted

prepare to be assimilated to become the narrow minded non questioning drone.

Ask yourself, can you convert to Christian. If not, then be ready to break up. Even if she can accept, her family and relatives WILL NOT accept you. Do you want a marriage without blessing? It's awful. Just to tell you, this happened to me once before, and I ended up with the latter option I gave to you.

Absolutely. Marriage must be blessed by God; otherwise, it is against God's law.
I witnessed many relationships are broken down because of cross-marriage.
People think what I say is evangelical and I do admit that. But what I say is also true.
Christians values are to put God and Jesus Christ first in their life; you will soon find a lot of values clashes and find understanding each other hard. How can this marriage be a blessed one?

damn, i'm under Guan Yin...I can't marry christian women without converting? Darn...

just go register la
is only that if one party is not christian
then cannot married in church

Ask yourself, can you convert to Christian. If not, then be ready to break up. Even if she can accept, her family and relatives WILL NOT accept you. Do you want a marriage without blessing? It's awful. Just to tell you, this happened to me once before, and I ended up with the latter option I gave to you.

damn, i'm under Guan Yin...I can't marry christian women without converting? Darn...

then weird lo, got Guan Yin altar and christian cross at my house. Can i marry xtian girl at hotel/restaurant?

You must learn about Christian principles and become a Christian.
The first thing you should do is to learn about the Bible and believe in Jesus Christ.
Receive Jesus' love first and save your spirit so that you can go to Heaven.
This is very important !

I don't like christian like you. You are very judgmental. 

You are one of the Christian that do NOT look like Christ.

Initially I just wanted to type 1-line paragraph and leave it as it is but to avoid causing more misunderstandings, I would elaborate a little bit more.

Don't you think you shouldn't push others to accept Christ before you first accept them as who they are? If you yourselves do not show love and accept them as who they are, who are you to ask them to believe Christ? It's just like: hey why are you using company's photostat machine to print your personal document? It's a kind of stealing - but you yourselves are using company phone to make personal phone calls.

I mean the character, not the outward appearance, ok.

oh you mean christ-like? noones perfect like him. so yeah.

so my advice is just keep an open mind. as long as you love her and she love you... why not?
but the bible say do not be unequally yolked too. i will never get that verse.

Go to Registrar of Civil Marriages.

Fill in form. Pay a fee. Wait 30 days.

Get witnesses. Sign papers.

Done.

And you yourselves do not know which side you are supporting. Here you support TS to marry the gf, the other hand you ask TS not to "unequally yoked".

I'm just emphasizing Angelina to accept one another, not to be so judgmental and push them to accept Christ, is it that hard to understand? You are nit-picking my words, you aren't reading the meaning between the lines.

Buddisth is not a religion, is a way of life...is up to you...

And you yourselves do not know which side you are supporting. Here you support TS to marry the gf, the other hand you ask TS not to "unequally yoked".

I'm just emphasizing Angelina to accept one another, not to be so judgmental and push them to accept Christ, is it that hard to understand? You are nit-picking my words, you aren't reading the meaning between the lines.

Ts just go & ask either temple for the marriage arrangement or church?

As i'm a Christian myself and i did go to temple for marriage registration then only i go for a church blessings.

I didn't force my hubby into become a christian as we can't force our partner to convert just for the sake of marriage.

Normally Temple & Church allow for mixed marriage.

Last time when i was in KL, my hubby register at Then Hou Temple and then i ask for blessing at any Roman Catholic Church i choose.

Most of my friend also hv done it without any problem. Just ask properly which temple u are choosing or church ur gf were.

Good Luck

I guess only way is marry liao, tolerate each other. She pray to Guan Yin no need burn josstick, I burn, but i have to go church every sunday lo. My children then how? What will their religion be?

so we can be a Buddhist and a muslim at the same time? ahhh. interesting.

this thing got me thinking. why must we be oblige to have a religion? to think about it maybe religion is a system of belief. something the human race believe in to explain what their knowledge cannot comprehend. hence believing in a higher being.

agree....we are in a religion so that we could be guided to be the right path but we cannot be controlled by it...

I don't like christian like you. You are very judgmental. 

You are one of the Christian that do NOT look like Christ.

Initially I just wanted to type 1-line paragraph and leave it as it is but to avoid causing more misunderstandings, I would elaborate a little bit more.

Don't you think you shouldn't push others to accept Christ before you first accept them as who they are? If you yourselves do not show love and accept them as who they are, who are you to ask them to believe Christ? It's just like: hey why are you using company's photostat machine to print your personal document? It's a kind of stealing - but you yourselves are using company phone to make personal phone calls.

And I REPEAT, love human, not sins.

this thing got me thinking. why must we be oblige to have a religion? to think about it maybe religion is a system of belief. something the human race believe in to explain what their knowledge cannot comprehend. hence believing in a higher being.

u pray ur guan yin she pray her jesus la ... then u can accompany her go sunday church ma.. doesnt mean u go  u are christain ma... ur kid sure follow u laa u father ma zzz

I am a buddhist. My gf a christian.

We never think of this until lately.

How do we get married ? 

Any opinion is welcome 

And more importantly, God cannot accept this marriage.
It is written clearly in the Bible.

The reason why I am mentioning this is for the girl's concern.
If you do not convert, she will bear guilt for marrying you for the rest of her life. 
Because it is against God's will in accordance with Christian Principles.
If you really love her, you will need to consider her as a whole.

Roman Catholic can accept mixed marriage as long both of them go through the wedding course. but for protestant or angelican or etc, i do not know...

Anyone live like this before?

How can a man love someone without knowing the other person's religion?

People underestimate how much Jesus loves them 

Human beings are being created to love God foremost. This is the fundamental principle of life, fulfilling the purpose of Creation.

When a person deeply truly realises how great God is, he/she cannot stop talking about it (e.g., the majesty of His Creation)

God is our Creator who gave us birth so we a human being must honor Him. This is a simple truth that needs no explanation.

It is okay to be rejected by people, but if I am rejected by God, my life is meaningless.

And more importantly, God cannot accept this marriage.
It is written clearly in the Bible.

The reason why I am mentioning this is for the girl's concern.
If you do not convert, she will bear guilt for marrying you for the rest of her life. 

lol ur uncle is buddha?

lol ur uncle is buddha?

@erinlee if you cant catch it, haha, should be buddhist not buddha

And more importantly, God cannot accept this marriage.
It is written clearly in the Bible.

The reason why I am mentioning this is for the girl's concern.
If you do not convert, she will bear guilt for marrying you for the rest of her life. 
Because it is against God's will in accordance with Christian Principles.
If you really love her, you will need to consider her as a whole.

How different people interpret the Bible often tells us more about them than it does about God or the scriptures. The old barb "you can prove anything with scripture" is not entirely true, but lots of alternative and opposite opinions can find supportive texts.

I am especially bothered by those who use Bible verses to promote a God who is bent on condemning everyone to hell except Christians. And there are some who go so far as to expect God to eternally annihilate every Christian that doesn't belong to their specific denomination. That sounds more like tribalism than the religion of Jesus.

Don't get me wrong. You can make a Biblical case for such extremes. You can even promote genocide in the name of God if you cite certain verses.

But I've never understood why people would want to worship a God who was meaner than they are. That's not a God who deserves our worship. What kind of God would condemn Gandhi and the Dalai Lama to hell? Maybe an unjust, tribal deity. But that's not the God we see reflected in the life of Jesus, and it is not the God of healthy Christianity.

When Christians speak of God, we look first to the person of Jesus as the incarnation of God, the human face of God. Jesus did not run around trying to convert everyone to his religion. He reached out with compassion and understanding toward those who were outside his religion, and he treated them with love and respect.

He healed a Canaanite woman's child and the slave of an officer of the occupying Roman legions. He restored a demoniac living in a cemetery. He touched unclean lepers and a menstruating woman. He dined in the homes of tax collectors and sinners. His attitude toward those of uncertain religious virtue was remarkably tolerant, outgoing and forgiving. In fact, the only people who seemed to rile him were those who were certain of their own goodness and tried to cast everyone else in the shadow of their own rightness. He saved his harshest words for the moralists.

No wonder it was the outcast and marginalized who most embraced Jesus and his message. The people who failed to see him for who he was were mostly the Biblical literalists. Jesus didn't fit their Biblical expectations. No messiah was to arise from Galilee, they said. He broke one of the Ten Commandments when he healed on the Sabbath. He offered forgiveness freely to all instead of through the Biblically mandated Temple sacrifice monopoly. And he didn't throw out the occupying armies like the scripture promised. It was the Bible quoters who were blind to the good things he was doing. They couldn't see him as God's person because it didn't fit their Bible verses.

Too many good Christians continue to make the same tragic mistakes. They fail to see the goodness and authenticity of those outside their own circles. The fruit of the Spirit is "love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, and temperance." (Galatians 5:22) Wherever such Spirit is manifest, in any culture or religion, that is the Spirit of God being manifested. Christians name that manifestation Jesus.

I see Jesus in the Dalai Lama, and, were we to meet, I would be honored if the Dalai Lama could see the Buddha-nature in me. When we follow a God who is big enough to have been revealed in many various cultural expressions, we open ourselves to the possibility of being spiritually enriched by religious pluralism rather than threatened by it.

I worship a great God who loves this creation and its creatures. God will go to any length to be in communion with us, even unto death. God is revealed in every time and in every culture, not just in mine. And I believe God intends to lose nothing of what God has made. If God can make resurrection out of the evil of Jesus' crucifixion, then God will find a way to bring blessing, healing and new life to all.

--The Rev. Lowell Grisham

This is a matter of debate within the faith communities. Each of the world’s primary faiths would claim that it is the one way to God. I prefer to think of God as one and our responses to God as partial and inevitably flawed. Each faith, then, might have a piece of the truth.

Although English Biblical translators inserted “the” into the text, in the original Greek manuscript Jesus described himself as “way,” not “the way,” suggesting that we could come to God through him, but that other ways might exist, as well. That idea is offensive to some Christians.

It seems to me that we each make our choice as to which way we will follow. What matters then isn’t that our way be absolutely correct, but that we make a sustained and faithful effort to follow our chosen path to God. Our way must withstand scrutiny – we can’t just create a faith that suits our fancy – but it need not be the way that others follow.

--Tom Ehrich