http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YRq0w0uit9I

I will punch the living life out of her if caught doing to any baby..

Not able to see as block in office.
But surely is about the bad maid torturing the baby, right?

For me, not only punching that maid... I would punch the parents as well. How could a parents ever left the small child with a maid alone at home. We know this people are not trustworthy.

walawei...

i had daughter..same the infant age.

really really sad....
why la got inhuman human like this... :rage:

the saddest thing is that the poor baby has to suffer until someone finds out, or even until his able to talk.

report to police and the agency.....

it makes me think twice n thousand again if i want to give my bb to someone to take care! But i need to work! how?!?! I really wondering how could anyone torture bb/kid.

Yeah, even relatives is not 100% trustworthy... we do read from papers that some bad bbsitter is relatives too. So.. must be very selective when choosing someone caring for our child, best if could get our parents (grandparents of the child). As we surely know whether they have "mental" issue.. as we grow up in their arm.

If no other option, I would rather send my child to daycare center instead of leave them alone with maid. At least daycare were licensed and they got a few more adults to keep an eye on each other and with so many parents send in their kids.. anything wrong.. sure someone will notice soon enough.

I cannot watch -- tak sampai hati, I don't have the heart...

What can we do about the situation? The most ideal solution would be, one parent stay at home (and in our culture, most probably the mom) to take care of the kids instead of having to hire a maid. OR, if you are hiring a maid, think about having other 'adult' supervision at home, parents, relatives etc, so that they can keep an eye out on the maid. OR, only hire a maid if your kid is big enough to tell you what's going on...

BTW, I thank God everyday for the fact that my kids are being taken care of by my parents..

I have a colleague who is delivering soon and wants to look for a trustworthy maid, I told her no such thing but she dont believe me.

We have 2 maids, a indonesian and a cambodian. Indonesian is easy to communicate and very intelligent but cunning at the same time. Forgetful too cause she recently throw the house keys into the dustbin outside. Cambodian is dumb and can only communicate with English, very hard to get her to remember things even though it is routine work. She steals.

What more is there? I believe I already have the least problematic maids out there. I'm grateful. Trust them? NEVER!

I wonder y ppl think a maid (a stranger) alone in the house with the kids is save. Won't they worry the maid will get bored and get out of the house with the kids without the master's knowing it... or leave the kids at home while she go out.. or worst.. simply do anything to the kids.

If couldn't get any close relatives or someone we know for long time to take care of the baby/kids, won't daycare centre is still a better option? Of coz some ppl worry baby/toddler is too young to send to daycare, I would suggest one of the parent to take long leave and stay home 1 yr. If can't do so.. no need have children. They are too busy to be parents at all.
What's the point having a baby and dump it at home with a maid.. praying to get a good maid. If the maid is so good, the child might love her more than own parents... what's the point?

bloody hell!! I can't bear to watch the whole thing. When she flush the water right on the face of the baby, I can't stand already. If this happened to my baby, I will do worse on her. She will regret the day she did that to my baby. I don't care if I go to jail for that...I will torture her until she beg me to kill her.

Shit...i am so pissed right now!!

This post has been edited by abubin: May 6 2011, 05:17 PM

Ya la abubin.. I also cant tahan watching it..I will bantai that maid kau kau until her mother also cant recognize her... Think Malaysia really need to have alot of good day care centre to prevent this la..

Edit : I am sorry to have cursed a lot in this post.

PS : I may need a new keyboard

This post has been edited by jtdc: May 10 2011, 01:07 AM

my initial motion to take care bb by resigning from work was to bf bb exclusively. Then the more time i take care, the more i feel like "don-1-2-give" other 2 take care! hahahahha......

but somehow, we need to face the reality, single income family is hard to survive, unless i really married "RICH MAN" or had "RICH DAD" lor.


my bb is going to be 1 yr. my hb asked me slow2 find job, dun rush. i think he oso dun feel like letting other to take care the bb!

too bad grandparent(s), r back to hometown. my hb suggested me to send bb back for them 2 take care but I DUN WAN, i want to have bb with me, at least, at night, i cld c my bb.

difficult world! BUT, i will NEVER, NEVER, NEVER trush maid.

grandparents is still the best solution, cheap and trustworthy..
but it wont help if they are staying far away.

i will still prefer to have my wife stay home and take an unpaid leave for maybe 6 mths to one year. then only send bb to day care and continue to earn money.

as single father working outside cant really support the whole family. with hse, car, living cost and bb milk and diapers.....

I agree. Maid is too untrustworthy for any child with the increase number of babies death cases. I prefer to send them to their grandparents or at least your close relatives. The love is there you see

Get a new one. What to do man

This is very questionable.

The person who filmed this video was watching but did nothing to stop the incident.

The one filming is the baby's mother?

If stop how to get evidence?? Don think the have cctv at rumah kampung in thailand

The video certainly looks cruel without context.
But the person filming's hands are shaking and it is not a hidden camera capturing the incident.
To me, it doesn't look natural and certainly looks very suspicious act there.
The camera person is quite silly by doing nothing.

coz of this i sent my bb to my in laws house every day, n she loves staying with her grandpa/ma,.. everyday i travel 30km to sent her in the morning n fetch her in the evening after work..dont mind the hassle as long as she's in good hand...

wah u deserve some respect for being so dedicated.

thanx,i had to,.for the sake of my child safety, better safe then sorry...