grandparents is still the best solution, cheap and trustworthy..
but it wont help if they are staying far away.

i will still prefer to have my wife stay home and take an unpaid leave for maybe 6 mths to one year. then only send bb to day care and continue to earn money.

as single father working outside cant really support the whole family. with hse, car, living cost and bb milk and diapers.....