Im kinda skinny in body size. bcos of that, my size is 32A for all my bras in wardrobe.

When i wear bra sometimes it gaps quite a bit at the top of the cups, u can totally see it from the side if im just wearing my bra or a moderate low cut shirt that is not skintight. Im wearing the staps as tight as possible n as for the back clasp of the bra it's set to the tightest setting. It actually feels too tight and slightly uncomfortable but the top part of the cup is still gapping. It's not tight to my skin at all, I can easily slide 3 fingers inside the top part of the cup to fill up the gap...


This big gap really annoy me at the beginning whenever i wear low cut bcos ppl that r taller than me can actually see my bra or even my nipple if they've the intention. However, i slowly found out actually there is nobody really care bout what i wear when i walking down the street so i gain the confident to wear it regularly.

Last sunday after hangout with frens i back home alone from KLCC lrt. i was wearing a moderate low cut summer dress.There is a guy, guess is foreign worker follow me from MNG til the lrt station. As the klcc is so crowded so i didnt give a damn. After i got the ticket n the train arrives i then get into the train.The outbound train from klcc is so pack n after the train start moving i realise he is standing just beside me
we were very close,he is facing my side. i start feeling something is not right but i couldnt do anything as i cant even move my body. After a few stations i realise he is keep staring down on my chest like nobody business. immediately i tried to lift up my front collar where it's level with my bra cup top to cover the gap, i was so helpless, both hand carrying bags n stuffs. lifted up n it drops again n again. I wanted to hold my collar but i failed. My pony tails is killing me that day, gave him clear view of my chest

I stare at this perv n he didnt feel nervous at all. he smiles n tell me he saw my nip... in malay , i saw his HAND IS INSIDE HIS POCKET SCROLLING.
I suppose to get down at kelana jaya but i end up got down at asia jaya.
Lucikly he didnt follow me.

I wish i can find a solution for this.

This post has been edited by yingirl_84: May 5 2016, 07:53 PM

Wear paddings then? I do have this problem when I'm not wearing padded bra sometimes. But it's only for one boob, one bigger than the other lol. Haha.

should wear a coat if you are wearing low cut...just in case hands full of stuff atleast you can put down your stuff and button it..if can don't wear too little...you know Msia and is not Spore ....

that is a round collar so i cant button it or wat . but wear a summer dress with coat looks ok?

ok ok sorry my bad...er no idea bout it..just base on what kind of looks ok you seek for...??for guys or fashion...and you are lucky there coz the foreign 1 ppl..if a bunch of them...haizz...

if my bra is tight to my skin it wont be happen. Plenty of gir; showing off their bra, right... ya im lucky

Summer dress with a coat is fine. Looks nice at some times.

er i think so...can't comment much of it....ya you should aware of this ..girls should know how to protect yourself...and is danger for girls too

A suggestion u try go for padded bra dear...

Or go for those moliting bra, they not only stay snuggly to ur skin but also give a nice shape ...

those bra im wearing are all padded bra but seems not useful
moliting bra ikinda aunty look for me..... hehe. do wear it?

nipple sticker.

hmmm.. 32A is having this problem too?

i am a G cup (according to Xixili's cutting), and i have the problem of my top (low cut but not too low cut) keep sliding off and when i am sitting down, those who are standing can actually view what's in my chest too!! >_<

of course my case is not the same as yours because my nipples can't be seen. just that the "gap" in between, those who are next to me or those who are standing (if i am sitting) can actually see my bra through that "gap". so, every time i have to use a bag or something to put it over my chest to cover it. sigh!!

so, i guess no matter it's small or big, the same problem is still there right?

This post has been edited by oatkrunch: Mar 30 2011, 11:38 PM

yeah big or small both having this prob. dear, u hv great figure, i hope i have that size too.
For me i dont really bother my bra can be seen, showing off ur bra is kinda a fashion nowadays

If my bra is skin tight, i wont bother the perv to look at it bcos he gets nothing.

Ya... I do admit moliting a bit mature taste... But the effect is really good though...

U get bra that is half cup or full cup?

Have you tried other brands?
Maybe use more paddings might do the trick.

trust me, i am nothing like G. i mean not like caucasian G. it's asian G or should I say Malaysian G? haha! since xixili is from malaysia; hence i used the term, malaysian G. i guess my size should be caucasian's D or double D.

i know.. i mean showing bra strap is still ok for me but other than that, i don't want to show that much. lol moreover, it's malaysia here.. if caucasian's countries.. it's not that a big deal.

I don't have nubra but girls, would nubra help? Aside from nipple stickers. I don't think nipple stickers help as much.

Not just A, B, C, M, most of us have the same prob. So, would nubra help? Or pakai extra like chemisole or tube?

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Added on March 31, 2011, 2:42 amI feel like whacking that idiot that leered at you.

This post has been edited by BlurSotong: Mar 31 2011, 02:42 AM

get measured for a proper bra, you're obviously wearing one that isn't really the right size

the Xixili at Pavilion, there is a 1 lady there which got do side business.
wen u buy ur bra there, can ask her to measure & do necessary adjustment to the bra.
of coz, u'll b charge & it'll tek few days to complete.

is there any size smaller than 32A?

Don't think so. I've tried on nubra + bra/push up bra.
And it just doesn't look natural. Can see the joint of the nubra when wearing super low cut tops or bikini.
Wearing chemisole or tube will defeat the purpose of wearing a lowcut top in the first place.

Maybe u can try consult those sales girl in bra shop? i know xixili got help u to measure n find the suitable bra.. maybe u can drop by there

never heard of AA?

don't wear low cut then. it's suc a simple problem

This post has been edited by rubrubrub: Mar 31 2011, 10:27 AM

it's not abt the low cut.. sometime we bent down or some clothes r design to expose

Have you tried other brands of bra before?
Honestly, I have a few more expensive brands and they fit me perfectly well. But like sloggi or Pierre Cardin, I do have this problem as well.

okay i understand this might be inconsiderate but i'm gonna go ahead and say this. when u bent down, don't you close the open gap with ur hands? moreso, why choose designs that exposes the cleavage, boobs or waetevr. Oh and you can also wear a tube inside if it's really exposes a lot of flesh without the tube. Ladies, it's possible, u just need to change ur style a lil bit.

1. It is very wrong to buckle at the END of the buckle of your bra straps, a correct size bra u only buckle the 1ST buckle.
2. Wrong bra size, get a correct measurement from bra shops.
3. Wearing a wrong bra size, will make your breast even smaller, and it will become "baby breast" which means very small..
4. Get a good push up bra / bra with paddings will support your breast nicely


Trust me, i previously worked for Triumph as a Survey Girl + I know how to measure the 3 figures

Thank god for ppl like you.

But not everyone wants to cover up. If they opt to cover up, they would've cover it up in the first place by wearing a not so revealing top, tube, etc.
I don't mind if my bra can be seen, as long as my nipple doesn't show.

maybe u can use a double sided tape...stick the front collar to your skin
i do that when i wear very low cut top...

well i guess its a norm bout the bra gap unless youre well endowed ....

Honestly, I have accidentally seen what lies underneath the gap a few times. But I always thought it was caused by ill fitting bras or cheap old bras.

"Mind the gap"

yeah, agreed with you so muchhh

i guess really a lot of girls out there are having this problem too... especially to those having uneven size of breast for left and right...

erkkkk.....wear triumph or audrey la....me often accompany my gf buy her bra....the assistants there said there are specific bra for people with 'special' boobs...u just ask them to measure yours la.....huhu

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Added on March 31, 2011, 6:06 pmwear it with cardigan lor....gonna look nice...

This post has been edited by afify88: Mar 31 2011, 06:06 PM

Try others brand name bra. or else just use all full cup.. 3/4 or half cup i guess will have gaps

Same problem with TS but I always adjust my bra higher eventhou it's abit uncomfortable.

Try to wear a tube lo or a cardigan, that's what i do when i wear low cut or clothes that will expose.

I wear valisere. Go get your gf some of valisere's bra next time.
Sometimes even same brand but still can't fit nicely. Some of my bras fits nicely, some still got gap, even though from same brand.

i haz bad body posture and i hunch when tired... So, there's gap no matter what bra when I'm tired....

wow, not bad....y u nv come the gardens, one utama, klcc on dec?? valisere got survey ley..

i was there nia, giving out FREE valisere panties after each survey form completed

Cause my sister working in triumph.
So I get discounts and sometimes she buys for me too. Or else cannot afford also la! I love their panties. Especially those like semi transparent one.

yeah, wearing chemisole or tube then i rather wear a round collar t shirt instead of low cut top

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Added on March 31, 2011, 7:35 pmyes but kinda rare... 32A slightly helps me look feminine, 32AA will be like an airport

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Added on March 31, 2011, 7:39 pm1. I'll give a try.
2. Many ppl tell me this, u think i should wear 32AA? quite rare size isnt it?
3. erm.... mine is baby breast now, wont go any smaller than this i guess
4. i 'll try it

thanks u ver much
very useful info

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Added on March 31, 2011, 7:41 pmu r guy/girl?

This post has been edited by yingirl_84: Mar 31 2011, 07:41 PM

no wonder, staff price 30% off....yaya that day gave out few types of panties design all sexy 1 and each of it cost RM 150.00

May i know what brand of bra r u using now??

Me guy

personally, I would rather wear a bra that's comfortable and fits me properly than worry about what other people think of me.

wear training bra la....
settle....

hehehehe go braless la.....settle probs....huhu

Try a 32AA bra. Or try a non-padded bra.

try la senza... might solve ur prob

girl, try audrey or lasenza. They have kao kao push up pads which is as thick as my fist. push up lift the entrire nipple horizon to another upper level, so do not choose half cup bras. La senza's even has double push up bras.

Also on another thought, dont wear certain clothings if you do not want to expose. Want to expose but dont want people to see. Very contradicting. And people will always find a way to peep. To be honest, i check out at other girls too. Not in a perv way, but comparison. Looking at them makes me feel proud of mine sometimes, especially those certain days of the month.

Also, whatever you buy, please check when you buy the bra. the 2 finger rules at the strap la...the hook la...the back band must be horizontal la...bla bla bla...

This post has been edited by lingleeyen: Apr 1 2011, 09:10 AM

Wearing non padded may not solve, as ts breast is alreadt very small and will look like airport as mentioned... The only way is selecting suitable padded bra...

Truimph n xixili mostly. 3/4 cup mostly

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Added on April 1, 2011, 12:40 pmAccidentally saw? how?

This post has been edited by yingirl_84: Apr 1 2011, 12:40 PM

next time don't wear something too revealing dress/baju.

Maybe you would want to opt for Asian brand or use the special double side tape whenever u want to wear low cut.

just a gentle reminder : wearing too much push up bra is not good for our breast because it will make your breast go smaller too

actually the dress i wore is not too revealing....

erm sometimes when u bend ! ...i guess many guys/girls saw it b4 rite...clothing malfunctions ma hard to avoid sometimes...

Once I was at a Shiseido counter buying face wash n the sales girl like had no shame. her t shirt was low cut so when she bend down I could literally see her bra n probably her nipple if I looked hard enough because of the gap. Even me a guy was embarrassed. She made no attempt to cover and she was remained in that bent over position for a few minutes.

What's wrong with these type of girls ar ? can't blame a guy for looking rite ?

This post has been edited by jonny4: Apr 1 2011, 08:27 PM

sometimes when working, forgotten to close with hands

I don't blame guys who look/stare. But you don't follow me, stalk me everywhere and even tfk right next to me like in TS's case can edi. lol.

Alright understood

shiseido? as far as i can remember, their uniform isn't low cut or anything though O_o

Recently they started to wear those pink t shirts with a low neckline as uniform...promoting their White Lucent line I think.

Mine was 28A before but now I gained weight so my breast size change as well.

Sometimes it has something to do with the bra material. Is it too soft? Cotton bras or strap problems can cause the bra to reveal gaps, especially after more than a year's usage.
I'm a 34 C and I do have these problems too. Thought my boobs grow smaller or smth but really its just the strap problem and my bras were getting worn out.

Just scream and men will be bashing him.i know i would.

Last time when I still took the train, I'd bring along a jacket. Those where I can zip right up to the top. I didn't care if it didn't match whatever I was wearing. Being comfortable in the train was much more important than that. It kept people from staring. Then, when I got off the train I'd just take it off.

I see.

i dont understand y those perv are fancy with this kinda weird thingy.....

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Added on April 4, 2011, 9:12 amyeah i do but not everytime, sometime really feel troublesome to caring the jacket everywhere after take it off.... just need to becareful when u r in the train

This post has been edited by yingirl_84: Apr 4 2011, 09:12 AM

consider lucky already, if u are alone his hand will scroll your body.
next time lean toward decent guy which only see occasionally and think or just bring a jacket.
sometime im just lucky when they had to lean toward me rather than facing some perverted look people.

Most of the time you're not wearing the right cutting. I used to have that problem when i bought bras without consultation form the sales girl. they will know which kind of cutting from which brand suits you. thou its a bit embarrassing to change bra in front of them but they have certain technique to change without exposing your nipple. i mean they are girls anyway, buying the right bra is more important right

i used to have these problems when i wear full cup (weird i know).. but half cup occasionally with paddings, problem solved!

Phew!! lucky I don't have this problem. I bought my bras mostly from Thailand. Triumph or Wacoal. Since I'm wearing 34D or 34E, I don't have to face this problem.

I don't know why , maybe guys are just guys? o.o
I have the urge to touch my gf's ones even in public. Lucky she liked it.
Well, its just sometimes. (:

At least the guy is staring at your boobs. Which also means it should be good cause it attracts someone (:
Be confident ! Haha just wear a suitable bra ( Replied from gf )

I don't think it's pervy if they're not obvious about it ... it's only when they stare and follow you around after that it DOES become pervy. It's normal for guys to want to see down girls' shirts lol

Is it normal for girl to see ? I like to see also
Because I dont have big boobie so I see others

I think it's normal cause sometimes I see also.

ok i will see without guilt liao

thanks for ur 'compliment'
ya suitable bra but i'm confuse which bra is suitable me

when u see it lots of times it becomes a norm...nothing special bout it...coz its jux a nipple...u might get syiok for few seconds only after dat u get on with your life..

Do you girl mind if we guys keep on staring at the cleavage? Cause sometime i'm too shy to look even thou got free show.

^^

Can we just like look at it and then smile?

Can stare but stare politely, can smile but look at her not her boobs.

Well, all guys are plain perv, whether they show it or they don't.

Those who are looking at your boobs are pretty normal. Those who are not looking is imagining. Those stare and comes with action is the one that we are suppose to go against.

I do not see any problems for strangers to look at my boobs, but of course please look at me when I am talking to you. My boobs don't talk. I agree on showing feminism by choosing the right bra + clothing. Still the same words, don't wear exposing clothes if you do not want people to see or attracts attention.

But believe it or not, my guy has this talent. He looks at the breast and know whether or not that girl is wearing a push up, size, sometimes brand. Colour and pattern is of course a flip of palm, too easy. How do you stop him then? i was amazed myself.

to me, i think it's alright for me if a guy is staring at my boobs that i am not aware of. but if i noticed he stared, i will feel really uncomfortable. haha!

a question for ladies...when you guys wearing something revealing, will you get mad is guy staring at you/your boobs?

i guess all guys will attracted to those revealing cleavage.

my take is, ladies shouldn't get mad coz that is the whole purpose to wear something revealing and to show off hers..if not, then better wear something not exposing.

If I'm wearing something revealing and a guy is staring, no I won't get mad.
I'm wearing something revealing obviously it will be attracting stares from guys.

And like others have mention here, if the lady is really bothered by guys staring, then just cover up and don't wear so revealing. The whole point of revealing stuff is wanting people to see. But there are still those type of people who want to show yet don't want people to stare. Some girls ar...

This post has been edited by BlurSotong: Apr 14 2011, 01:04 AM

i guess that's me? haha! because, it's not that i wanna wear revealing clothes.. i mean i don't wear revealing clothes anyway.. not super short mini skirt nor super low cut top or super thin material that can see through.

just that most tops that i bought are little low cut.. just little... plus good support bra.. the whole view is just exaggerated 1000000% haha! even if it's just spaghetti strap (which is so normal nowadays), cleavage will still be shown. even a simple V-shape small tee will show. i only choose to wear clothes that make me look slimmer. haha! U shape tee makes me look rounder.

but some problem i got with those spaghetti strap and low cut top is, it got pulled lower when i am not aware of. for example, when i am sitting down and all.. sometimes s little of my bra top can be seen.. that's why i tend to wear a color bra that is similar to the top i am wearing that day.. so, even if it's exposed little, it won't be too obvious.

Well if you don't choose to wear revealing clothes, then I suppose you wouldn't want others to check you out. So that's different from what I was saying.
If your top is low cut and you don't want people to see, then wear a tube inside. As for spag tops, try to not get those that are not elastic. And also be aware of how you sit, how you carry your bag is affecting your top and all that. Or else just wear t-shirt and nonit to bother about people looking.

When I wear mini skirt, I want people to look at my legs. When I wear a low cut top or spag top, I would assume that ppl will be able to see my bra, so I'll wear a nice bra. I don't really bother if they really can see my bra. As long as they don't drool and stare until too obvious.

not sure if wearing nu bra will solve the issue???

Peeping is a criminal offence in Malaysia, punishable with imprisonment term which may extend to five years or more. Further discussions on how to peep will get you penalised.

Read up: Chapter XXII: Criminal intimidation, insult and annoyance. Section 509 Penal Code. Laws of Malaysia. International Law Book Series, 1990. Kuala Lumpur, 181.


NO! Leering, staring and admiring is freaking different.

Revealing or not, it does not give a 'right' to leer and ogle at any woman!

The girl may knowingly dressing in certain manner and attracting unwanted attention but it still does not anybody a right to leer at her!! The hell?!?!?

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Added on April 14, 2011, 1:30 am
NO. Revealing or not, showing legs, calf, cleavage etc does not mean a person wants to show but don't want ppl to stare. Wearing clothes that makes you look good feels good. And there's no crime in feeling and looking good. You would want others to admire you for your sense in fashion and/or legs and/or breast and/or whichever part. That doesn't mean anybody has been given the permission to leer or even stare.

Frankly, I'm disappointed with your post in this thread.

I had a man staring at my breast in a bus full of ppl and he'll, I was in a fitting long sleeve baby-t and cargo pants. I even call him on it and he still stared!! Did I had it coming? HELL NO!

This post has been edited by BlurSotong: Apr 14 2011, 01:59 AM

wow! you were so brave! i had a few experiences that someone touched me in the bus!! and while i was studying at taylor's years ago, the person who collected money from metro bus touched my abs while he passed by me.. i don't dare to scream. i know the right thing is to call him out and etc.. but when such things happened for real.. i just feel like something stuck on my throat and can't even scream. sigh.. i don't know why...

First thing, what is the law definition of Peeping. If you are showing your leg or a bit of your cleavage, and people are looking at it, I don't think it would consider Peeping. If you are changing cloth or bathing and people go and look, that's Peeping. I might be wrong, but I don't think looking at whatever that is revealing in the public could considered as Peeping.

As for revealing cloth, people wear revealing cloth because they like the cloth design, which is revealing. Of course no one would like others to stare at him/her, but if you are wearing revealing cloth, you can't expect people not to look at it. As what most others said, as long as it's in a polite manner, it's fine.

Guys staring/looking at revealing legs/cleavage is the same as girls will look at beautiful cloths and bags in the shop. It's the nature of human. I do agree there are some guys who went overboard, but I would believe that those are minority.

Looks like you're getting the wrong idea. Before I begin my tirade, where you following the thread? There [I]was[\I] a discussion going on. Peeping is voyeurism. Staring with pejorative connotation, ie: peeping or leering, falls under misdemeanor.

I don't blame guys from looking or even staring when someone or some part attractive walk-by. They were discussing how to peep at women's breast, whether she's dressed revealingly or not. Define looking politely. Just looking or admiring is different from leering. Looking or staring at something that caught your eye is not a crime or even offensive. But when you look with pejorative connotation is a crime.

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Added on April 14, 2011, 1:49 pmAdoi... Pls excuse my language. Lotsa typo. Postin on mobile.

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Added on April 14, 2011, 1:54 pm@oatkrunch,

I wasn't brave. He stared quite long and it took me awhile to gather courage to ask him and tell him off, probably 30-40mins. I got so freaking uncomfortable, my annoyance took over and rear it's ugly head. Not that that helped. I got groped before and without thinking I grab that idiots jacket sleeve. That was stupid. I did something stupid prior to the incident in the bus.

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Added on April 14, 2011, 1:57 pmThat was why all I did was to cover my chest with my bag. To go up to his face to tell him off would be what I would have done had it not for my stupid previous incident. I think I posted my experience somewhere in GC. Not great. It was at least 10 years back and I still can't get over it. The bus was nothing.

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Added on April 14, 2011, 1:59 pmSorry bout my messy post. Edit when I get back.

This post has been edited by BlurSotong: Apr 14 2011, 01:59 PM

i didnt know peeping is an offense ...next time when i wan to peep i will ask the girl permission first...lol but wat if i jux ogle or stare then its not an offense...

Peeping and staring is different IMO.
Peeping is like when I'm changing and the guy is peeping from somewhere. Staring is just well, staring.

If I wear clothes that make me look good, I would want people to look at me because I'm looking good. Of course not everyone would think the same way as I do. But I'm not saying that their way of thinking is wrong either. It's just that there are girls who dress up very revealingly and then complain that people are staring at them. To me, if you dress up revealingly, then it will be expected that people will be staring. And if you want to complain about how those people are so rude and staring at you, then don't dress up in such revealing clothings.

As for the previous discussion on 'how to look politely'. My bad, that isn't a very nice thing to discuss about. In fact, yea, it's wrong as you said it. I just find that guy's post very amusing. Got procedure somemore. lol.

You try to stand beside a mirror n check out yourself if you can see your own nipple?

I bet you can because i had this kinda view before too unintentionally. Actually the gapping you have is kinda big, 3 fingers, and you are wearing low cut. Guys just need to turn their heads down to your chest and they can see your nipple easily. Even though they have no intention to see, but honestly which guy dont see if you are giving them effortless chance. Moreover the guy is standing so close to you and i believe inside LRT the brightness is good enough for him to check out your nipple comfortably.

I think he stalked you because he catches your nipple view from the beginning. Plenty of girl out there showing their cleavage and didnt get stalked because their bra is filled and nipple didn't expose. Flesh and bra won't attract those perv.

Next time release your pony tail if you found ppl check you out. You are right your pony indirectly help him a lot.

or you can put some thick padding and make sure your nipple cannot be seen from any angle then u can wear low cut attire safely.

How long you have been going out in this attire? Not nobody care what u are wearing i guess, maybe you didn't realize them.

Looking at a girl who zaogeng in a public place is definitely not a crime. Peeping is clearly defined below, and the key word is "PRIVATE PLACE". A train or bus is not a private place. If a girl wear low cut and expose herself to me, I can freely look at her because in no way am I trespassing in her private area.

"A person commits the crime of criminal surveillance if he or she intentionally engages in surveillance while trespassing in a private place. Surveillance is generally defined as the secret observation of the activities of another person for the purpose of spying on them and invading their privacy. It also applies to a person who peeps through windows or doors."

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However, please note that taking a picture IS a crime! So guys please remember if next time you see a girl expose herself in public :

"Nice to see, safe to ogle, but touch and die, and dont take pics"

This post has been edited by lowyatter: Apr 18 2011, 03:01 PM