Do you girl mind if we guys keep on staring at the cleavage? Cause sometime i'm too shy to look even thou got free show.
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Can we just like look at it and then smile?
Bra gap on top of the cup
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Apr 12 2011, 12:18 AM
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Do you girl mind if we guys keep on staring at the cleavage? Cause sometime i'm too shy to look even thou got free show.
^^ Can we just like look at it and then smile? |
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Apr 12 2011, 12:29 AM
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Apr 12 2011, 08:07 AM
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Well, all guys are plain perv, whether they show it or they don't.
Those who are looking at your boobs are pretty normal. Those who are not looking is imagining. Those stare and comes with action is the one that we are suppose to go against. I do not see any problems for strangers to look at my boobs, but of course please look at me when I am talking to you. My boobs don't talk. I agree on showing feminism by choosing the right bra + clothing. Still the same words, don't wear exposing clothes if you do not want people to see or attracts attention. But believe it or not, my guy has this talent. He looks at the breast and know whether or not that girl is wearing a push up, size, sometimes brand. Colour and pattern is of course a flip of palm, too easy. How do you stop him then? i was amazed myself. |
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Apr 12 2011, 09:29 AM
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to me, i think it's alright for me if a guy is staring at my boobs that i am not aware of. but if i noticed he stared, i will feel really uncomfortable. haha!
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Apr 12 2011, 10:06 AM
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a question for ladies...when you guys wearing something revealing, will you get mad is guy staring at you/your boobs?
i guess all guys will attracted to those revealing cleavage. my take is, ladies shouldn't get mad coz that is the whole purpose to wear something revealing and to show off hers..if not, then better wear something not exposing. |
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Apr 12 2011, 04:18 PM
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QUOTE(movanns @ Apr 12 2011, 10:06 AM) a question for ladies...when you guys wearing something revealing, will you get mad is guy staring at you/your boobs? If I'm wearing something revealing and a guy is staring, no I won't get mad. I'm wearing something revealing obviously it will be attracting stares from guys. And like others have mention here, if the lady is really bothered by guys staring, then just cover up and don't wear so revealing. The whole point of revealing stuff is wanting people to see. This post has been edited by BlurSotong: Apr 14 2011, 01:04 AM |
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Apr 12 2011, 09:31 PM
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QUOTE(munkeyflo @ Apr 12 2011, 04:18 PM) But there are still those type of people who want to show yet don't want people to stare. Some girls ar... i guess that's me? haha! because, it's not that i wanna wear revealing clothes.. i mean i don't wear revealing clothes anyway.. not super short mini skirt nor super low cut top or super thin material that can see through.just that most tops that i bought are little low cut.. just little... plus good support bra.. the whole view is just exaggerated 1000000% haha! even if it's just spaghetti strap (which is so normal nowadays), cleavage will still be shown. even a simple V-shape small tee will show. i only choose to wear clothes that make me look slimmer. haha! U shape tee makes me look rounder. but some problem i got with those spaghetti strap and low cut top is, it got pulled lower when i am not aware of. for example, when i am sitting down and all.. sometimes s little of my bra top can be seen.. that's why i tend to wear a color bra that is similar to the top i am wearing that day.. so, even if it's exposed little, it won't be too obvious. |
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Apr 12 2011, 10:27 PM
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QUOTE(oatkrunch @ Apr 12 2011, 09:31 PM) i guess that's me? haha! because, it's not that i wanna wear revealing clothes.. i mean i don't wear revealing clothes anyway.. not super short mini skirt nor super low cut top or super thin material that can see through. Well if you don't choose to wear revealing clothes, then I suppose you wouldn't want others to check you out. So that's different from what I was saying. just that most tops that i bought are little low cut.. just little... plus good support bra.. the whole view is just exaggerated 1000000% haha! even if it's just spaghetti strap (which is so normal nowadays), cleavage will still be shown. even a simple V-shape small tee will show. i only choose to wear clothes that make me look slimmer. haha! U shape tee makes me look rounder. but some problem i got with those spaghetti strap and low cut top is, it got pulled lower when i am not aware of. for example, when i am sitting down and all.. sometimes s little of my bra top can be seen.. that's why i tend to wear a color bra that is similar to the top i am wearing that day.. so, even if it's exposed little, it won't be too obvious. If your top is low cut and you don't want people to see, then wear a tube inside. As for spag tops, try to not get those that are not elastic. And also be aware of how you sit, how you carry your bag is affecting your top and all that. Or else just wear t-shirt and nonit to bother about people looking. When I wear mini skirt, I want people to look at my legs. When I wear a low cut top or spag top, I would assume that ppl will be able to see my bra, so I'll wear a nice bra. I don't really bother if they really can see my bra. As long as they don't drool and stare until too obvious. |
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Apr 13 2011, 10:00 AM
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not sure if wearing nu bra will solve the issue???
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Apr 14 2011, 12:54 AM
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Peeping is a criminal offence in Malaysia, punishable with imprisonment term which may extend to five years or more. Further discussions on how to peep will get you penalised.
Read up: Chapter XXII: Criminal intimidation, insult and annoyance. Section 509 Penal Code. Laws of Malaysia. International Law Book Series, 1990. Kuala Lumpur, 181. NO! Leering, staring and admiring is freaking different. Revealing or not, it does not give a 'right' to leer and ogle at any woman! The girl may knowingly dressing in certain manner and attracting unwanted attention but it still does not anybody a right to leer at her!! The hell?!?!? Added on April 14, 2011, 1:30 am QUOTE(munkeyflo @ Apr 12 2011, 04:18 PM) And like others have mention here, if the lady is really bothered by guys staring, then just cover up and don't wear so revealing. The whole point of revealing stuff is wanting people to see. NO. Revealing or not, showing legs, calf, cleavage etc does not mean a person wants to show but don't want ppl to stare. Wearing clothes that makes you look good feels good. And there's no crime in feeling and looking good. You would want others to admire you for your sense in fashion and/or legs and/or breast and/or whichever part. That doesn't mean anybody has been given the permission to leer or even stare. Frankly, I'm disappointed with your post in this thread. I had a man staring at my breast in a bus full of ppl and he'll, I was in a fitting long sleeve baby-t and cargo pants. I even call him on it and he still stared!! Did I had it coming? HELL NO! This post has been edited by BlurSotong: Apr 14 2011, 01:59 AM |
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Apr 14 2011, 02:19 AM
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QUOTE(BlurSotong @ Apr 14 2011, 12:54 AM) I had a man staring at my breast in a bus full of ppl and he'll, I was in a fitting long sleeve baby-t and cargo pants. I even call him on it and he still stared!! Did I had it coming? HELL NO! wow! you were so brave! i had a few experiences that someone touched me in the bus!! and while i was studying at taylor's years ago, the person who collected money from metro bus touched my abs while he passed by me.. i don't dare to scream. i know the right thing is to call him out and etc.. but when such things happened for real.. i just feel like something stuck on my throat and can't even scream. sigh.. i don't know why... |
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Apr 14 2011, 09:24 AM
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QUOTE(BlurSotong @ Apr 14 2011, 12:54 AM) Peeping is a criminal offence in Malaysia, punishable with imprisonment term which may extend to five years or more. Further discussions on how to peep will get you penalised. First thing, what is the law definition of Peeping. If you are showing your leg or a bit of your cleavage, and people are looking at it, I don't think it would consider Peeping. If you are changing cloth or bathing and people go and look, that's Peeping. I might be wrong, but I don't think looking at whatever that is revealing in the public could considered as Peeping.Read up: Chapter XXII: Criminal intimidation, insult and annoyance. Section 509 Penal Code. Laws of Malaysia. International Law Book Series, 1990. Kuala Lumpur, 181. NO! Leering, staring and admiring is freaking different. Revealing or not, it does not give a 'right' to leer and ogle at any woman! The girl may knowingly dressing in certain manner and attracting unwanted attention but it still does not anybody a right to leer at her!! The hell?!?!? Added on April 14, 2011, 1:30 am NO. Revealing or not, showing legs, calf, cleavage etc does not mean a person wants to show but don't want ppl to stare. Wearing clothes that makes you look good feels good. And there's no crime in feeling and looking good. You would want others to admire you for your sense in fashion and/or legs and/or breast and/or whichever part. That doesn't mean anybody has been given the permission to leer or even stare. Frankly, I'm disappointed with your post in this thread. I had a man staring at my breast in a bus full of ppl and he'll, I was in a fitting long sleeve baby-t and cargo pants. I even call him on it and he still stared!! Did I had it coming? HELL NO! As for revealing cloth, people wear revealing cloth because they like the cloth design, which is revealing. Of course no one would like others to stare at him/her, but if you are wearing revealing cloth, you can't expect people not to look at it. As what most others said, as long as it's in a polite manner, it's fine. Guys staring/looking at revealing legs/cleavage is the same as girls will look at beautiful cloths and bags in the shop. It's the nature of human. I do agree there are some guys who went overboard, but I would believe that those are minority. |
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Apr 14 2011, 01:47 PM
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Looks like you're getting the wrong idea. Before I begin my tirade, where you following the thread? There [I]was[\I] a discussion going on. Peeping is voyeurism. Staring with pejorative connotation, ie: peeping or leering, falls under misdemeanor.
I don't blame guys from looking or even staring when someone or some part attractive walk-by. They were discussing how to peep at women's breast, whether she's dressed revealingly or not. Define looking politely. Just looking or admiring is different from leering. Looking or staring at something that caught your eye is not a crime or even offensive. But when you look with pejorative connotation is a crime. Added on April 14, 2011, 1:49 pmAdoi... Pls excuse my language. Lotsa typo. Postin on mobile. Added on April 14, 2011, 1:54 pm@oatkrunch, I wasn't brave. He stared quite long and it took me awhile to gather courage to ask him and tell him off, probably 30-40mins. I got so freaking uncomfortable, my annoyance took over and rear it's ugly head. Not that that helped. I got groped before and without thinking I grab that idiots jacket sleeve. That was stupid. I did something stupid prior to the incident in the bus. Added on April 14, 2011, 1:57 pmThat was why all I did was to cover my chest with my bag. To go up to his face to tell him off would be what I would have done had it not for my stupid previous incident. I think I posted my experience somewhere in GC. Not great. It was at least 10 years back and I still can't get over it. The bus was nothing. Added on April 14, 2011, 1:59 pmSorry bout my messy post. Edit when I get back. This post has been edited by BlurSotong: Apr 14 2011, 01:59 PM |
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Apr 15 2011, 03:28 PM
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i didnt know peeping is an offense ...next time when i wan to peep i will ask the girl permission first...lol but wat if i jux ogle or stare then its not an offense...
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Apr 17 2011, 07:58 PM
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Peeping and staring is different IMO.
Peeping is like when I'm changing and the guy is peeping from somewhere. Staring is just well, staring. If I wear clothes that make me look good, I would want people to look at me because I'm looking good. Of course not everyone would think the same way as I do. But I'm not saying that their way of thinking is wrong either. It's just that there are girls who dress up very revealingly and then complain that people are staring at them. To me, if you dress up revealingly, then it will be expected that people will be staring. And if you want to complain about how those people are so rude and staring at you, then don't dress up in such revealing clothings. As for the previous discussion on 'how to look politely'. My bad, that isn't a very nice thing to discuss about. In fact, yea, it's wrong as you said it. I just find that guy's post very amusing. Got procedure somemore. lol. |
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Apr 18 2011, 02:19 PM
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QUOTE(yingirl_84 @ Mar 30 2011, 07:47 PM) Im kinda skinny in body size. bcos of that, my size is 32A for all my bras in wardrobe. You try to stand beside a mirror n check out yourself if you can see your own nipple?When i wear bra sometimes it gaps quite a bit at the top of the cups, u can totally see it from the side if im just wearing my bra or a moderate low cut shirt that is not skintight. Im wearing the staps as tight as possible n as for the back clasp of the bra it's set to the tightest setting. It actually feels too tight and slightly uncomfortable but the top part of the cup is still gapping. It's not tight to my skin at all, I can easily slide 3 fingers inside the top part of the cup to fill up the gap... This big gap really annoy me at the beginning whenever i wear low cut bcos ppl that r taller than me can actually see my bra or even my nipple if they've the intention. However, i slowly found out actually there is nobody really care bout what i wear when i walking down the street so i gain the confident to wear it regularly. Last sunday after hangout with frens i back home alone from KLCC lrt. i was wearing a moderate low cut summer dress.There is a guy, guess is foreign worker follow me from MNG til the lrt station. As the klcc is so crowded so i didnt give a damn. After i got the ticket n the train arrives i then get into the train.The outbound train from klcc is so pack n after the train start moving i realise he is standing just beside me we were very close,he is facing my side. i start feeling something is not right but i couldnt do anything as i cant even move my body. After a few stations i realise he is keep staring down on my chest like nobody business. I stare at this perv n he didnt feel nervous at all. he smiles n tell me he saw my nip... in malay , i saw his HAND IS INSIDE HIS POCKET SCROLLING. I suppose to get down at kelana jaya but i end up got down at asia jaya. Lucikly he didnt follow me. I wish i can find a solution for this. I bet you can because i had this kinda view before too unintentionally. Actually the gapping you have is kinda big, 3 fingers, and you are wearing low cut. Guys just need to turn their heads down to your chest and they can see your nipple easily. Even though they have no intention to see, but honestly which guy dont see if you are giving them effortless chance. Moreover the guy is standing so close to you and i believe inside LRT the brightness is good enough for him to check out your nipple comfortably. I think he stalked you because he catches your nipple view from the beginning. Plenty of girl out there showing their cleavage and didnt get stalked because their bra is filled and nipple didn't expose. Flesh and bra won't attract those perv. Next time release your pony tail if you found ppl check you out. You are right your pony indirectly help him a lot. or you can put some thick padding and make sure your nipple cannot be seen from any angle then u can wear low cut attire safely. How long you have been going out in this attire? Not nobody care what u are wearing i guess, maybe you didn't realize them. |
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Apr 18 2011, 02:52 PM
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Looking at a girl who zaogeng in a public place is definitely not a crime. Peeping is clearly defined below, and the key word is "PRIVATE PLACE". A train or bus is not a private place. If a girl wear low cut and expose herself to me, I can freely look at her because in no way am I trespassing in her private area.
"A person commits the crime of criminal surveillance if he or she intentionally engages in surveillance while trespassing in a private place. Surveillance is generally defined as the secret observation of the activities of another person for the purpose of spying on them and invading their privacy. It also applies to a person who peeps through windows or doors." *edit* However, please note that taking a picture IS a crime! So guys please remember if next time you see a girl expose herself in public : "Nice to see, safe to ogle, but touch and die, and dont take pics" This post has been edited by lowyatter: Apr 18 2011, 03:01 PM |
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Apr 18 2011, 03:03 PM
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» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « I think i somehow is having the same problem. My bra is from Audrey. When i first wear it for a couple of hours it's filled. But when time passes, i can feel that there's a gap. |
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QUOTE(yap800 @ Apr 18 2011, 02:19 PM) You try to stand beside a mirror n check out yourself if you can see your own nipple? i think it can be seen if i stand beside a mirror but not easy. Before this i didnt know if there ppl trying to peep on me. I bet you can because i had this kinda view before too unintentionally. Actually the gapping you have is kinda big, 3 fingers, and you are wearing low cut. Guys just need to turn their heads down to your chest and they can see your nipple easily. Even though they have no intention to see, but honestly which guy dont see if you are giving them effortless chance. Moreover the guy is standing so close to you and i believe inside LRT the brightness is good enough for him to check out your nipple comfortably. I think he stalked you because he catches your nipple view from the beginning. Plenty of girl out there showing their cleavage and didnt get stalked because their bra is filled and nipple didn't expose. Flesh and bra won't attract those perv. Next time release your pony tail if you found ppl check you out. You are right your pony indirectly help him a lot. or you can put some thick padding and make sure your nipple cannot be seen from any angle then u can wear low cut attire safely. How long you have been going out in this attire? Not nobody care what u are wearing i guess, maybe you didn't realize them. I think bout more than 2 yr i wear this attire. but now i wear it with a jacket normally. Just never know there r ppl trying to check out other ppl this way. I think u r right he stalked me bcos he saw my nipple, if not he wont Added on April 18, 2011, 5:18 pm QUOTE(ItsMyUsername @ Apr 18 2011, 03:03 PM) » Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « I think i somehow is having the same problem. My bra is from Audrey. When i first wear it for a couple of hours it's filled. But when time passes, i can feel that there's a gap. This post has been edited by yingirl_84: Apr 18 2011, 05:18 PM |
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