Pierre Cardin's padded bra is very fitting for me.
May be u can try lifting ur arms in the fitting room everytime before ur purchase of bra to make sure it fits well.
Wear a tube underneath ur dress really helps too.

That's exactly right. Rude is not the same as immoral. In fact, it is even more immoral to say that leering is a crime.

Harassment is another term that is WIDELY misunderstood, by M'sians particularly. In order for it to be harassment, you will need to tell that person to stop whatever they are doing TO YOU first, and it has to continually occur. One incident of staring does NOT count as harassment. And it is IMMORAL to perpetuate peeping at your cleavage as illegal just because you want to show it off, but only to people you want to show off to.

Aiyah, don't keep seeing things from your world view la. Rich people also don't asked to be robbed what, but they're still the targets of robbers.

I think if you were to scrutinize rape, you'll be very surprised at the findings.

Believe or not, many of the rape stats are WRONG because there are many "updated" feminists who twists facts just to make women look as if they're the victim. For instance, if you had consensual sex and regret it the next morning, it's called rape. And rape is the ONLY crime where you are presumed guilty until proven innocent, as proven in the 30 second rapist.

This post has been edited by spanker: Apr 25 2011, 05:28 PM

yes spanker exactly
even wonder why some super rich dudes like ananda never really appear on big screen and stuff? low profile is a security add-on for the very wealthy personnel
and oatkrunch if ur qing dynasty thinking was invalid

if its not revealing he wont stare at ur breast at the first place
there are so many gals in the train for sure they will be more hotter or prettier babes than u are why would someone solely stalk u?

it always take both to clap the hand gal

Yes, guys shouldn't stare too much, and girls shouldn't be thinking they're so righteous too much. Both sides also got fault. It's not only immoral, but also wrong, to solely put the blame on 1 party.

yes but its human nature rite to blame each other
well at some context we should really look back ourselves before pointing finger at others
its very unethical for that person to stare at ur breast but are u doing the best enough to protect that part?

we dun live in caves anymore..fashion have no boundaries and its not like they are going out naked...

so dun blame others for ur "fashion sense"

Actually, human nature is much more complex than that. Humans have good behaviors and bad behaviors. Blaming others is a bad behavior, in contrast, self reflection is good behavior. Which is why education is important to replace bad behavior with good behavior. Sometimes other bad behaviors prevent the possibility of good behaviors. For example, pride and/or denial, where even when you try to show right and wrong, it gets ignored (and sometimes deleted).

Yes, and the point of fashion is so that people will react and look at you. If you don't want people to look at you, whether in a good or bad way, don't make a such a bold fashion statement.

i think it's out of topic liao??

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Exactly.

i bliv men will be more than happy to c women in topless. it's just that some other women wont be happy bout it.

I was once told by a lecturer that sexual harassment somehow comes in both way: the person who makes the other fall into temptation and the one who is tempted. Somehow, not all the time.

chill guys and gals........

I never wear the itty bitty bra before, just googled it and found them...
I bought my bra-s sometimes in debenhams....

It doesnt bother me to wear lower cut attire, as long as the attire you wear is tight enough....don't wear those loose kind le....

I only have this problem for one side of my brest xD The other one fits well.

I buy my bras from Isetan KLCC, an aunty from Wacoal. She's really good and experience. Last time I was wearing the wrong size for YEARS. And my encounter with her was when I was accompanying my mom to buy bras, and she could tell I was wearing the wrong size even when I was just wearing T shirt! The sales aunty told me that I must follow the bigger size side, rather than the smaller size, and persuaded me to buy a corset which might help the smaller side to fill up abit. But I get really lazy to wear the corset.

Anways, I don't have the peeping problem as I'm quite conservative in dressing up. But when I have jobs which needs me to wear low cuts, I will carry a shawl in my bag to cover my chest whenever I'm off duty. I usually carry a shawl with me in my bag so whenever I wear low cuts and I had to take public transport, I can use it to cover my chest. Besides, when I wear short skirts, I will use the shawl to cover my laps, so that my undies won't go around and say hi. xD

LRT got many perverts looking many times. Since you said urs was an ang moh, can't say much cuz I saw a guy who literally slid his hand into his pocket and played with his joystick while sitting next to a girl and he made it so obvious that he was looking at her boobs. Next time just say out loud. Don't give a crap about these ppl. Bra..well...if you can't find a smaller size, don't wear too revealing. It will just make u vulnerable to these ppl.

that fella is not ang moh. he is somewhat bangladeshi or vietnamese

Hmm hmm....well, next time dun give face to such people...just sound out, dont need to shout. But dont go saying nipple nipple...

Pepper spray <--- Use this and always carry one with you :]