QUOTE(mercer @ Nov 14 2012, 12:06 PM)
well yeah, we share this account,
we've been going over this debate from time to time b4 intercourse.
like i would say 'lets not do it this week because u might be ovulating *2nd week after period*
but if we gonna do, might as well do it with every safety measure taken, yes i even consider of getting her to a gyno for a fixed pills, but it became a debate. so, this is what we are left to.
yes, condom are used in our every intercourse. including pull-out with the freaking condom on and even checking the condom for leaks after intercourse JUST SO THAT SHE WOULD STOP BEING PARANOID. but usually she will be paranoid, and wanted to take ECP. just gotta go through with it since shes like that.
using a regular birth control than ecp is the best for my opinion but the lady will have a final said since its "her body".
this is all asked just to feed her paranoia. i know what im doing with condom n etc. i have come to a point where i show her where i get my info from.
Im not irresponsible to let her take everytime after intercourse.
Im sorry if i mislead you in any way.
You see the reason why you guys should not have sex is because she is so freaking f up paranoid.
Hence, the more you shouldn't be having sex with her in any way.
I don't see how taking BCP is any more damaging to the body than taking ECP so many times in a short period of time.
She is paranoid because she doesn't understand how the whole sex and reproduction thing works. Once you learn then you'll see how it's actually all very simple with you being lucky/unlucky at the same time.
Simple method is to stay away from sex during ovulation period, use condom and withdrawal method every single time you guys have sex. If you are being so paranoid after each time you have sex, where's the fun in it? Is all this worrying really worth it for just that 30-60 minutes of sexual fun? For god's sake, just have sex after getting married, have your kids then get a ligation done so you will never have to worry about getting pregnant ever again. Also if you have time and money to spare, bring her to various gynaes and go and ask her to go talk to them.
On the relationship side, sorry to say this but you as the bf, stay away from sex as well, get rid of the root of the problem. Unless you don't mind her getting all paranoid over it again and come asking here in this thread again in a few weeks/months time. Too much stress is never good for our body and who knows she may develop some mental issues from being too paranoid over such stuffs. Satisfy your sexual needs in your own way and stay away from sex with this sort of girls until you know you want a kid.