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post Nov 14 2012, 03:08 PM

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QUOTE(munkeyflo @ Nov 14 2012, 01:14 PM)
You see the reason why you guys should not have sex is because she is so freaking f up paranoid.
Hence, the more you shouldn't be having sex with her in any way.

I don't see how taking BCP is any more damaging to the body than taking ECP so many times in a short period of time.

She is paranoid because she doesn't understand how the whole sex and reproduction thing works. Once you learn then you'll see how it's actually all very simple with you being lucky/unlucky at the same time.

Simple method is to stay away from sex during ovulation period, use condom and withdrawal method every single time you guys have sex. If you are being so paranoid after each time you have sex, where's the fun in it? Is all this worrying really worth it for just that 30-60 minutes of sexual fun? For god's sake, just have sex after getting married, have your kids then get a ligation done so you will never have to worry about getting pregnant ever again. Also if you have time and money to spare, bring her to various gynaes and go and ask her to go talk to them.

On the relationship side, sorry to say this but you as the bf, stay away from sex as well, get rid of the root of the problem. Unless you don't mind her getting all paranoid over it again and come asking here in this thread again in a few weeks/months time. Too much stress is never good for our body and who knows she may develop some mental issues from being too paranoid over such stuffs. Satisfy your sexual needs in your own way and stay away from sex with this sort of girls until you know you want a kid.
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I AGREE WITH YOU 100%.
i do realize this problem after she overdose her intake last month. SHE is so motha-f**kin paranoid that i freaking doubt everytin that im doing. hmmmmm..1st she acted all nothing is going on and suddenly poppin up ecp's like tic-tacs...

i know what im doing, i usually give this kind of advice to my friends too. but when it comes to her, im dumbfounded.

the only thing left now, SHOW HER THE REPLIES THAT SHE IS EFFIN stupid and hopefully it will change some things. BUT still, will she be pregnant? in my opinion, it takes a super soldier sperm to survive that much ECP. im not sure.

Thanks and i apologize for any ignorance portrayed by us.
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QUOTE(mercer @ Nov 14 2012, 03:08 PM)
I AGREE WITH YOU 100%.
i do realize this problem after she overdose her intake last month. SHE is so motha-f**kin paranoid that i freaking doubt everytin that im doing. hmmmmm..1st she acted all nothing is going on and suddenly poppin up ecp's like tic-tacs...

i know what im doing, i usually give this kind of advice to my friends too. but when it comes to her, im dumbfounded.

the only thing left now, SHOW HER THE REPLIES THAT SHE IS EFFIN stupid and hopefully it will change some things. BUT still, will she be pregnant? in my opinion, it takes a super soldier sperm to survive that much ECP. im not sure.

Thanks and i apologize for any ignorance portrayed by us.
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Well, the probability is very very small, close to none but then like I said, lucky/unlucky however you put it. Some men produce superman sperm while some women produce ova at times outside their fertile period. Everyone is different.

First of all, the vagina does not have a sperm-friendly environment. Secondly, you guys had a condom on and it seems you guys always check for leakage after sex so if the condom was intact, then what's the worry. Superman sperm very clever can swim out of the condom thru the bottom opening and into her vagina. Third, you did not ejaculate while being inside her. Again, superman sperm is magically attracted to her ovum no matter where it is and can survive the journey as well. Lastly, ECP is suppose to prevent pregnancy in the event that semen was ejaculated into the woman's vagina. It never happen in the first place, so if I was her, I wouldn't even consider taking ECP at all and go on with my daily life.

She's not stupid, just ignorant and paranoid. Please please get her to learn about her own reproductive system and stop having sex during fertile period. Ovum only last for a day while sperm last for 3 days. Have sex after ovulation, not after menstruation ends. I can't imagine how messed up her hormones are right now, you won't even know when is ovulation and when is the actual menstruation dates.
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post Nov 14 2012, 10:11 PM

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QUOTE(munkeyflo @ Nov 14 2012, 03:50 PM)
Well, the probability is very very small, close to none but then like I said, lucky/unlucky however you put it. Some men produce superman sperm while some women produce ova at times outside their fertile period. Everyone is different.

First of all, the vagina does not have a sperm-friendly environment. Secondly, you guys had a condom on and it seems you guys always check for leakage after sex so if the condom was intact, then what's the worry. Superman sperm very clever can swim out of the condom thru the bottom opening and into her vagina. Third, you did not ejaculate while being inside her. Again, superman sperm is magically attracted to her ovum no matter where it is and can survive the journey as well. Lastly, ECP is suppose to prevent pregnancy in the event that semen was ejaculated into the woman's vagina. It never happen in the first place, so if I was her, I wouldn't even consider taking ECP at all and go on with my daily life.

She's not stupid, just ignorant and paranoid. Please please get her to learn about her own reproductive system and stop having sex during fertile period. Ovum only last for a day while sperm last for 3 days. Have sex after ovulation, not after menstruation ends. I can't imagine how messed up her hormones are right now, you won't even know when is ovulation and when is the actual menstruation dates.
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yeah shes like a landmine right now. Thanks for the advice, get some sense into both of us.
well, i even freaking give her the whole diagnostics and odds
1 - got condom on
2 - no leakage
3 - no ejaculation even with condom on
4 - she took ecp overdose / double everytime after intercourse.

just because she said she is on her ovulating time. so, this whole mess happen. Well to be honest, it happens no matter where she is in her cycle.

This post has been edited by mercer: Nov 14 2012, 11:36 PM
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post Dec 1 2012, 12:54 AM

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SWIM (Someone who isn't me) had intercourse on Monday night around 8pm and without protection but used the rhythmic method and pulled out. The GF is having a little headache and nausea now.

Tomorrow night around 8pm will be 120 hours, if SWIM gives her Postinor 2 and she eats 2 pill, will it be effective? If it's less effective, what's the percentage of success?

P.S SWIM (little and watery semen) also is a low productive person and gf (uterus not straight) also.
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QUOTE(smokymcpot @ Dec 1 2012, 12:54 AM)
SWIM (Someone who isn't me) had intercourse on Monday night around 8pm and without protection but used the rhythmic method and pulled out. The GF is havingĀ  a little headache and nausea now.

Tomorrow night around 8pm will be 120 hours, if SWIM gives her Postinor 2 and she eats 2 pill, will it be effective? If it's less effective, what's the percentage of success?

P.S SWIM (little and watery semen) also is a low productive person and gf (uterus not straight) also.
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Wow...sounds very biology.
Its very simple, the longer you delay consuming the contraceptive the lower the chances of the ECP working is low.
Symptoms of nausea and headache comes very much later. You only get 1-3 days vomiting in TVB or Indian drama.
Recommended consumption is 24-72 hrs.


Added on December 1, 2012, 8:06 am
QUOTE(munkeyflo @ Nov 14 2012, 03:50 PM)
Well, the probability is very very small, close to none but then like I said, lucky/unlucky however you put it. Some men produce superman sperm while some women produce ova at times outside their fertile period. Everyone is different.

First of all, the vagina does not have a sperm-friendly environment. Secondly, you guys had a condom on and it seems you guys always check for leakage after sex so if the condom was intact, then what's the worry. Superman sperm very clever can swim out of the condom thru the bottom opening and into her vagina. Third, you did not ejaculate while being inside her. Again, superman sperm is magically attracted to her ovum no matter where it is and can survive the journey as well. Lastly, ECP is suppose to prevent pregnancy in the event that semen was ejaculated into the woman's vagina. It never happen in the first place, so if I was her, I wouldn't even consider taking ECP at all and go on with my daily life.

She's not stupid, just ignorant and paranoid. Please please get her to learn about her own reproductive system and stop having sex during fertile period. Ovum only last for a day while sperm last for 3 days. Have sex after ovulation, not after menstruation ends. I can't imagine how messed up her hormones are right now, you won't even know when is ovulation and when is the actual menstruation dates.
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Love the superman sperm...

@mercer...put the cap on. No matter wat just wear the condom. Until ur gf learns abt her cycle and body, tats the best thing to do. If worried about leakage, wear 2 condom. Or buy the durex extra safe condom with spermicide. It kills the sperms.

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post Dec 1 2012, 08:48 AM

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So should I get her ECP's? She's having a little car sickness and stomach cramps too and feeling heaty. Could this be a placebo effect or ... ?

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QUOTE(black_howling @ Dec 1 2012, 07:58 AM)
Wow...sounds very biology.
Its very simple, the longer you delay consuming the contraceptive the lower the chances of the ECP working is low.
Symptoms of nausea and headache comes very much later. You only get 1-3 days vomiting in TVB or Indian drama.
Recommended consumption is 24-72 hrs.
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Haha. Yes, only in movies/shows, we can know the results immediately after intercourse lol.

QUOTE(smokymcpot @ Dec 1 2012, 08:48 AM)
So should I get her ECP's? She's having a little car sickness and stomach cramps too and feeling heaty. Could this be a placebo effect or ... ?
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Like black_howling said, morning sickness does not come so early. Earliest I've heard also around 2 weeks from intercourse (which is around the time the next period is due).

You mentioned in your PM that she is having issues with her wisdom teeth and just recently got it remove. After the removal, her symptoms disappear. So I'm quite sure that it's due to the wisdom teeth and not pregnancy.
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post Dec 8 2012, 05:18 PM

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oh gosh....4 weeks ago I had sex with my bf and the condom broke and then i took the ECP within 24 hours...then 2 weeks later I had my period but today I got some blood spotting...

I hope it is ovulating spotting
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You had your period already after having sex.
If you did not have sex after your period and before your spotting, then there is almost no chance of pregnancy at all. If you have been bleeding very heavily during a pregnancy, chances are it was a miscarriage.

Just get a pregnancy test kit to be sure if you are so worried.
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QUOTE(ish274 @ Dec 8 2012, 05:18 PM)
oh gosh....4 weeks ago I had sex with my bf and the condom broke and then i took the ECP within 24 hours...then 2 weeks later I had my period but today I got some blood spotting...

I hope it is ovulating spotting
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QUOTE(munkeyflo @ Dec 9 2012, 06:48 PM)
You had your period already after having sex.
If you did not have sex after your period and before your spotting, then there is almost no chance of pregnancy at all. If you have been bleeding very heavily during a pregnancy, chances are it was a miscarriage.

Just get a pregnancy test kit to be sure if you are so worried.
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Like wat munkeyflo said..you had your period long after you had sex. Well at times blood spotting is common.
If you had any intimate moment after that, any foreplay might have left a cut and tat could be a reason as well.
If you are worried then you can do a test.
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help i need help. im new here. need second opinion.

me and my gf had unprotected sex 2 weeks ago (7th dec) but im very sure no ejaculation happen.. just to be sure... few hours after, 4 hours lidat and she took postinor2 two tablet at once..is it wrong? should she have take more? coz she took two dose at once..so must take two dose kan?

and then few days after she had bleeding for 2 day. medium/mild flow. but, didnt have to change pad like normal period.
and then until now she didnt have her period...is she pregnant?

when can we test?


Added on December 24, 2012, 8:45 am
QUOTE(black_howling @ Dec 14 2012, 02:52 PM)
Like wat munkeyflo said..you had your period long after you had sex. Well at times blood spotting is common.
If you had any intimate moment after that, any foreplay might have left a cut and tat could be a reason as well.
If you are worried then you can do a test.
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help i need help. im new here. need second opinion.

me and my gf had unprotected sex 2 weeks ago (7th dec) but im very sure no ejaculation happen.. just to be sure... few hours after, 4 hours lidat and she took postinor2 two tablet at once..is it wrong? should she have take more? coz she took two dose at once..so must take two dose kan?

and then few days after she had bleeding for 2 day. medium/mild flow. but, didnt have to change pad like normal period.
and then until now she didnt have her period...is she pregnant?

when can we test?


Added on December 24, 2012, 8:47 am
QUOTE(munkeyflo @ Dec 9 2012, 06:48 PM)
You had your period already after having sex.
If you did not have sex after your period and before your spotting, then there is almost no chance of pregnancy at all. If you have been bleeding very heavily during a pregnancy, chances are it was a miscarriage.

Just get a pregnancy test kit to be sure if you are so worried.
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help i need help. im new here. need second opinion.

me and my gf had unprotected sex 2 weeks ago (7th dec) but im very sure no ejaculation happen.. just to be sure... few hours after, 4 hours lidat and she took postinor2 two tablet at once..is it wrong? should she have take more? coz she took two dose at once..so must take two dose kan?

and then few days after she had bleeding for 2 day. medium/mild flow. but, didnt have to change pad like normal period.. But she say its not period.. then what could it be??
and then until now she didnt have her period...is she pregnant?

when can we test?

This post has been edited by magaline: Dec 24 2012, 08:47 AM
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QUOTE(magaline @ Dec 23 2012, 09:46 PM)
help i need help. im new here. need second opinion.

me and my gf had unprotected sex 2 weeks ago (7th dec) but im very sure no ejaculation happen.. just to be sure... few hours after, 4 hours lidat and she took postinor2 two tablet at once..is it wrong? should she have take more? coz she took two dose at once..so must take two dose kan?

and then few days after she had bleeding for 2 day. medium/mild flow. but, didnt have to change pad like normal period.
and then until now she didnt have her period...is she pregnant?

when can we test?
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She's fine. Calculate her next period starting from the day she started bleeding after taking postinor2.

If you wanna test, can test anytime now. The more you both worry about it, the more her hormones will get messed up. Just chill and things will go back to normal.
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post Dec 24 2012, 10:04 AM

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QUOTE(munkeyflo @ Dec 24 2012, 08:47 AM)
She's fine. Calculate her next period starting from the day she started bleeding after taking postinor2.

If you wanna test, can test anytime now. The more you both worry about it, the more her hormones will get messed up. Just chill and things will go back to normal.
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well, coz according to her, her period is officially delay. so thats why the freak out here. I told her she bleed already. but she say its not period. so doesnt count. what could that be then?

well, she took d pill two dose at once, few hours after sex.. i told her could be wrong already rite?
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QUOTE(magaline @ Dec 24 2012, 10:04 AM)
well, coz according to her, her period is officially delay. so thats why the freak out here. I told her she bleed already. but she say its not period. so doesnt count. what could that be then?

well, she took d pill two dose at once, few hours after sex.. i told her could be wrong already rite?
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She doesn't know that when one takes postinor2, the hormones will be messed up and the menstrual cycle will change.
Most of the time, the first day of the new menstrual cycle will be few days after consuming postinor2. Then again, everyone is different. Read a few pages back and you'll know that there are various types of response to postinor2. Even the same person may react to it differently each time it is consumed.

How much one will bleed after consuming postinor2, is depending on when exactly is she in her old cycle. Again, if you read few pages back, you'll learn about this.

What is wrong? The only thing wrong here is that you guys practice unprotected sex with minimal knowledge about all these stuff and worry your brains out when you are put into such situation. Then the menstrual cycle will delay even more when put under tremendous stress like this. Other than that - no ejaculation inside (chances of pregnancy near zero), consume postinor2 within hours (chances of pregnancy again near zero), was it done during her fertile period? If no, then chances of pregnancy again near zero.

If she is so worried, take her to a doctor. Buy 10 different brands of pregnancy test kit. You can test for pregnancy roughly 2-3 weeks after intercourse.
She should also know that when one is bleeding during pregnancy (not spotting), it can be a miscarriage and pregnant women will freak out if they have been bleeding.
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QUOTE(munkeyflo @ Dec 24 2012, 10:11 AM)
She doesn't know that when one takes postinor2, the hormones will be messed up and the menstrual cycle will change.
Most of the time, the first day of the new menstrual cycle will be few days after consuming postinor2. Then again, everyone is different. Read a few pages back and you'll know that there are various types of response to postinor2. Even the same person may react to it differently each time it is consumed.

How much one will bleed after consuming postinor2, is depending on when exactly is she in her old cycle. Again, if you read few pages back, you'll learn about this.

What is wrong? The only thing wrong here is that you guys practice unprotected sex with minimal knowledge about all these stuff and worry your brains out when you are put into such situation. Then the menstrual cycle will delay even more when put under tremendous stress like this. Other than that - no ejaculation inside (chances of pregnancy near zero), consume postinor2 within hours (chances of pregnancy again near zero), was it done during her fertile period? If no, then chances of pregnancy again near zero.

If she is so worried, take her to a doctor. Buy 10 different brands of pregnancy test kit. You can test for pregnancy roughly 2-3 weeks after intercourse.
She should also know that when one is bleeding during pregnancy (not spotting), it can be a miscarriage and pregnant women will freak out if they have been bleeding.
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so meaning, those 2 days of bleeding, eventho is mild. can be consider as her period already??
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QUOTE(magaline @ Dec 24 2012, 12:55 PM)
so meaning, those 2 days of bleeding, eventho is mild. can be consider as her period already??
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QUOTE(munkeyflo @ Dec 24 2012, 01:22 PM)
Even if I say yes, you and your gf won't believe also.  smile.gif
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LOL. humor me. if its my opinion. its a yes. coz mild because its early in her cycle.. or im not sure if this is correct. biology fail. But yeah paranoid is normail. told her and show her the thread already.

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QUOTE(magaline @ Dec 24 2012, 01:59 PM)
LOL. humor me. if its my opinion. its a yes. coz mild because its early in her cycle.. or im not sure if this is correct. biology fail. But yeah paranoid is normail. told her and show her the thread already.

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If you (or your gf) has read what I've previously posted in this thread.
Link for your convenience tongue.gif http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/176435?author=munkeyflo

Then you'll see that I somehow come to this conclusion that if she is early in her cycle and have recently shed her uterus lining, what else are you expecting the uterus to shed again? If say she is roughly during her fertile period (or after fertile period), say 1 week before menses is due, then yes there will be quite some blood lining to be shed.

Some people don't bleed at all after consuming Postinor2. Those people are generally more paranoid than those who had slight bleeding because they don't know if the pills work or not.
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QUOTE(munkeyflo @ Dec 24 2012, 02:24 PM)
If you (or your gf) has read what I've previously posted in this thread.
Link for your convenience tongue.gif http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/176435?author=munkeyflo

Then you'll see that I somehow come to this conclusion that if she is early in her cycle and have recently shed her uterus lining, what else are you expecting the uterus to shed again? If say she is roughly during her fertile period (or after fertile period), say 1 week before menses is due, then yes there will be quite some blood lining to be shed.

Some people don't bleed at all after consuming Postinor2. Those people are generally more paranoid than those who had slight bleeding because they don't know if the pills work or not.
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lol..okay same conclusion that i made.. thanks.

She say her last period b4 taking d pill was 3 weeks b4 the pill. so thats why she say not period. i say got blood enuf de. it works.
but u know la. she wont be satisfied until she bleeds to die i think. haizzz
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QUOTE(magaline @ Dec 24 2012, 03:21 PM)
lol..okay same conclusion that i made.. thanks.

She say her last period b4 taking d pill was 3 weeks b4 the pill. so thats why she say not period. i say got blood enuf de. it works.
but u know la. she wont be satisfied until she bleeds to die i think. haizzz
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Bring her to a doctor to get a blood test to confirm. If that's what she needs to reassure herself, then so be it.

Or else if she continue to stress herself out over this, her menses may even delay longer. And obviously too much stress is not good for the body.

Buy lots of pineapple for her to eat as well.

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